What is all the women are self-entitled, simp and incel talk ?

[SvarogX]

What is all the women are self-entitled, simp and incel talk ?

I am in my early 30s now, I had a few relationships and am married the second time already (at least now very happily with kids).

I never really had problems with women based on some " feminism " or people being simps or incels as they call it.

My experience is that whenever I encountered women, I behave the way I am, I am not simping I am not being an incel, I am just me. This always resulted in me ending up to only being surrounded by women that I like and that sympathise with me.

To me it feels, that either simps or incels, always run exactly into the women they deserve, that simply reflect or use their bad state of mind.
I don't believe that there is an epidemic of " bad women " nor bad men. I think that people match with others based on how they behave and how they feel about themselves.

For example:

a) If you are a confident guy, who enjoys his life, believes in his strengths and knows his weaknesses, focuses on his life, you will attract women that like to be with a guy like this, women that aren't overly dominant but also value a strong personality.

b) If you are a simp who agrees and does everything a woman says and wants from you, you will end up with a woman that knows how to use you for just that.

c) If you are an incel who blames everything negative they experience on women, you will end up with no woman or will always be surrounded with women that oppose you and basically just confirm your bias.

I mean its a lesson of life, isn't it?

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Feminism Logic: If he doesn't treat you perfectly when he wines and dines you, you should leave him.

[SvarogX]

Originally posted by The Maddog:

I'll make this simple.

You have two comments here:

Originally posted by Brma:

You have to accept people live on the internet and get their world view from it.

and

Originally posted by Pocahawtness:

People who don't find life easy often get angry at whatever they blame.

So one of 4 things is true:

1) We have a bunch of angry men who do nothing but sit behind their computers all day ranting about women.

2) Society and dating is broken and men are speaking up.

3) This is a push-back against the ever increasing waves of feminism and entitlement and men really are dealing with issues that they never did before.

4) It's all made up for clicks and likes and it's nonsense.



Pick your poison wisely.

I go with 1,3 and 4 all at the same time.

Dating is not broken, as dating is how YOU want to date and WHO you want to date. Its only as broken as you choose it to be.

[SvarogX]

Originally posted by Mega Ultra Chicken:

Feminism Logic: If he doesn't treat you perfectly when he wines and dines you, you should leave him.

Ok, but then why date or surround yourself with a feminist in the first place?

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Originally posted by Siegfried:

Originally posted by Mega Ultra Chicken:

Feminism Logic: If he doesn't treat you perfectly when he wines and dines you, you should leave him.

Ok, but then why date or surround yourself with a feminist in the first place?

You don't know if the women you are trying to date are feminists. That's the point.

[SvarogX]

Originally posted by Mega Ultra Chicken:

Originally posted by Siegfried:

Ok, but then why date or surround yourself with a feminist in the first place?

You don't know if the women you are trying to date are feminists. That's the point.

You do know this fairly quickly, if you have some basic talk with her and learn how to be direct.

How does it come that I always managed to identify unlikable personalities almost immediately?

Well I tell you, I talk to them, I ask questions and I listen. My very direct way of communication, has spared me a lot of stress and trouble with the opposite gender.

I suggest you do the same.