What is all the women are self-entitled, simp and incel talk ?

[SvarogX]

What is all the women are self-entitled, simp and incel talk ?

I am in my early 30s now, I had a few relationships and am married the second time already (at least now very happily with kids).

I never really had problems with women based on some " feminism " or people being simps or incels as they call it.

My experience is that whenever I encountered women, I behave the way I am, I am not simping I am not being an incel, I am just me. This always resulted in me ending up to only being surrounded by women that I like and that sympathise with me.

To me it feels, that either simps or incels, always run exactly into the women they deserve, that simply reflect or use their bad state of mind.
I don't believe that there is an epidemic of " bad women " nor bad men. I think that people match with others based on how they behave and how they feel about themselves.

For example:

a) If you are a confident guy, who enjoys his life, believes in his strengths and knows his weaknesses, focuses on his life, you will attract women that like to be with a guy like this, women that aren't overly dominant but also value a strong personality.

b) If you are a simp who agrees and does everything a woman says and wants from you, you will end up with a woman that knows how to use you for just that.

c) If you are an incel who blames everything negative they experience on women, you will end up with no woman or will always be surrounded with women that oppose you and basically just confirm your bias.

I mean its a lesson of life, isn't it?

[Brma]

You have to accept people live on the internet and get their world view from it.

[Pocahawtness]

People who don't find life easy often get angry at whatever they blame.

[SvarogX]

Originally posted by Brma:

You have to accept people live on the internet and get their world view from it.

I know where this comes from, but I have also noticed this out in the real world. I mean everyone has this one mate, that blames women for everything and apparently actively seeks to be single for the rest of his life.
Same as we have this one mate, that will always turn against us, just to impress some chick.

I have never been in any of these " camps ". I was always just me and was therefore always gifted with women that are not nasty individuals that try to mentally abuse me. Even my ex-wife, despite being not a very honest person, was overall a loyal and positive partner.

[𝚁̶̷𝟹̶̷𝙰̶̷𝙻̶̷]

A lot of this is experienced in lower class and/or higher population areas. America has such a broad and vast take on community, politics, tradition, idea, economics, ect. - I don't think that most people realize even though we are unified by government, federal laws and a national border, America can be quite different from state to state. More drastic here than there, it just depends. What works or is for you and your state, may not be how things and people are in another.

[Tonepoet]

Look back at this thread while you're signing your alimony check. :-P

[SvarogX]

Originally posted by Tonepoet:

Look back at this thread while you're signing your alimony check. :-P

Not gonna happen. I don't live in the US and have actual freedom.

Originally posted by 🅰🅸Ⓜ:

A lot of this is experienced in lower class and/or higher population areas. America has such a broad and vast take on community, politics, tradition, idea, economics, ect. - I don't think that most people realize even though we are unified by government, federal laws and a national border, America can be quite different from state to state. More drastic here than there, it just depends. What works or is for you and your state, may not be how things and people are in another.

Who is talking about America?
But you do know this is an international forum right?

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Originally posted by Siegfried:

Originally posted by Tonepoet:

Look back at this thread while you're signing your alimony check. :-P

Not gonna happen. I don't live in the US and have actual freedom.

Originally posted by 🅰🅸Ⓜ:

A lot of this is experienced in lower class and/or higher population areas. America has such a broad and vast take on community, politics, tradition, idea, economics, ect. - I don't think that most people realize even though we are unified by government, federal laws and a national border, America can be quite different from state to state. More drastic here than there, it just depends. What works or is for you and your state, may not be how things and people are in another.

Who is talking about America?
But you do know this is an international forum right?

50% of marriages in the U.S. don't work out because women gain so much from divorce.

[SvarogX]

Originally posted by Mega Ultra Chicken:

Originally posted by Siegfried:

Not gonna happen. I don't live in the US and have actual freedom.





Who is talking about America?
But you do know this is an international forum right?

50% of marriages in the U.S. don't work out because women gain so much from divorce.

Ok. Well I don't live in the U.S nor do I care about their broken system.

[Tonepoet]

Most forums are international forums, but this is also an English speaking forum, and within the core anglosphere, that is to say the U.S.A., the U.K., Canada, Australia and New Zealand, the U.S.A. is double the population of all the rest. It is also the third most populous nation in the world. The other two more populous nations are China and India, which do not use English as a native language. China also locks itself out of the world wide web at large too. If you don't know where somebody is from online, your safest assumption is the U.S.A. unless you have reason to believe otherwise.

That might give you a bit of perspective on the issue of why people talk so negatively, given that you think paying alimony in the U.S.A. means you don't have actual freedom.

[SvarogX]

Originally posted by Tonepoet:

Most forums are international forums, but this is also an English speaking forum, and within the core anglosphere, that is to say the U.S.A., the U.K., Canada, Australia and New Zealand, the U.S.A. is double the population of all the rest. It is also the third most populous nation in the world. The other two more populous nations are China and India, which do not use English as a native language. If you don't know where somebody is from online, your safest assumption is the U.S.A. unless you have reason to believe otherwise.

That might give you a bit of perspective on the issue given that you think paying alimony in the U.S.A. means you don't have actual freedom.

Not really no. Safest assumption is to assume that someone might be from anywhere and treat the topic in a general manner or ASK.

Now that being said, paying alimony is not a negative thing in my eyes, not when you have kids. They are your kids afterall.

[Tonepoet]

Originally posted by Siegfried:

Not really no. Safest assumption is to assume that someone might be from anywhere and treat the topic in a general manner or ASK.

Now that being said, paying alimony is not a negative thing in my eyes, not when you have kids. They are your kids afterall.

You can not make the safest assumption without making an assumption, which neither of those things are doing. Moreover, if you are witnessing random conversations online, are you going to really butt into the thread to make an off-topic poll as to where the participants are from?

Or ask somebody who has a private profile where they are, when they evidently want to keep personal information private? >_>

[SvarogX]

Originally posted by Tonepoet:

Originally posted by Siegfried:

Not really no. Safest assumption is to assume that someone might be from anywhere and treat the topic in a general manner or ASK.

Now that being said, paying alimony is not a negative thing in my eyes, not when you have kids. They are your kids afterall.

You can not make the safest assumption without making an assumption, which neither of those things are doing. Moreover, if you are witnessing random conversations online, are you going to really butt into the thread to make an off-topic poll as to where the participants are from?

Or ask somebody who has a private profile where they are, when they evidently want to keep personal information private? >_>

I am not gonna discuss this nonsense with you.

Stick to the topic. I mean, this isn't even about divorce either. lol. Stop derailing threads to fortify your hate against women.

[Tonepoet]

Originally posted by Siegfried:

I am not gonna discuss this nonsense with you.

Stick to the topic. I mean, this isn't even about divorce either. lol. Stop derailing threads to fortify your hate against women.

Sheesh, what do you think I am doing? Your question essentially boils down to "Why am I seeing people discuss a certain topic?" Who might be discussing that topic is highly relevant,

Many of these complaints may be based around American culture, which you have suggested is broken. Does it then not stand to reason that people might be discussing the broken American System when making their complaints? Or that your experience differs because you are not in American culture?

I'm just trying to give some perspective here.

[The Maddog]

I'll make this simple.

You have two comments here:

Originally posted by Brma:

You have to accept people live on the internet and get their world view from it.

and

Originally posted by Pocahawtness:

People who don't find life easy often get angry at whatever they blame.

So one of 4 things is true:

1) We have a bunch of angry men who do nothing but sit behind their computers all day ranting about women.

2) Society and dating is broken and men are speaking up.

3) This is a push-back against the ever increasing waves of feminism and entitlement and men really are dealing with issues that they never did before.

4) It's all made up for clicks and likes and it's nonsense.



Pick your poison wisely.

[SvarogX]

Originally posted by Tonepoet:

Originally posted by Siegfried:

I am not gonna discuss this nonsense with you.

Stick to the topic. I mean, this isn't even about divorce either. lol. Stop derailing threads to fortify your hate against women.

Sheesh, what do you think I am doing? Your question essentially boils down to "Why am I seeing people discuss a certain topic?" Who might be discussing that topic is highly relevant,

Many of these complaints may be based around American culture, which you have suggested is broken. Does it then not stand to reason that people might be discussing the broken American System when making their complaints? Or that your experience differs because you are not in American culture?

I'm just trying to give some perspective here.

This never was about what people discuss.lol.