Opposite Gender Friends?

[BunniBealla]

do you think it's bad if someone only has friends of the opposite gender?
I've always heard that's a red flag uwu

[Vox]

No

[salamander]

no, not really. sometimes peoples just get along better with the opposite sex/genders than their own, and that is fine.

growing up most of my friends were women, and even today i have more female friends than male. sometimes you just "get" one sex better.

[Lady Miquella]

same sex friendship is very common

[Cereen]

its impossible according to battle proven OT users
but I got a few friends who happen to be opposite members of the sex compared to my own
Was just talking to one of them earlier as about a new guy they just met.

I'll just say that my friend *really* lacks any decent judgement of character so I'm just happy they trusted me enough to sit down and ask me about this guy and have me help them understand that yes the guy old enough to be their father is a creep.

[TheStoryteller01]

Originally posted by BunniBealla:

Opposite Gender Friends?
do you think it's bad if someone only has friends of the opposite gender?
I've always heard that's a red flag uwu

Let me ask you this:

In a magazine you come across a full-page color picture of a nude girl. Your husband likes the picture. The girl is lying facedown on a large and beautiful bearskin rug. Your husband hangs the picture up on the wall of his study.

How do you react?

[L1qu1dator]

I wouldn't want to have guy friends, cause men are annoying. :P

[BunniBealla]

Originally posted by L1qu1dator:

I wouldn't want to have guy friends, cause men are annoying. :P

including yourself? uwu

[BunniBealla]

Originally posted by Cereen:

its impossible according to battle proven OT users
but I got a few friends who happen to be opposite members of the sex compared to my own
Was just talking to one of them earlier as about a new guy they just met.

I'll just say that my friend *really* lacks any decent judgement of character so I'm just happy they trusted me enough to sit down and ask me about this guy and have me help them understand that yes the guy old enough to be their father is a creep.

I had this scenario recently too, I feel like this is targeted lol uwu

[Iggy Wolf]

I mean, it'd be nice if more people were open to the idea of having female or male friends. I may be single, and as much I'd like to date a girl, if a girl I'm talking to seems more better as a friend, and I wouldn't see her as anything more than that, I have no issue. I guess the problem is whether OTHER people would extend the same courtesy to me.

[L1qu1dator]

Originally posted by BunniBealla:

Originally posted by L1qu1dator:

I wouldn't want to have guy friends, cause men are annoying. :P

including yourself? uwu

Yes. But I'll be annoying for different reasons. :P

[Riruru]

Honestly I wouldn't see it as anything unusual as most people where I study are men anyways

[ガスト セフィロス]

o.O why would it matter?

[Lady Miquella]

Originally posted by Riruru:

Honestly I wouldn't see it as anything unusual as most people where I study are men anyways

You study men ?

[Cereen]

Originally posted by BunniBealla:

Originally posted by Cereen:

its impossible according to battle proven OT users
but I got a few friends who happen to be opposite members of the sex compared to my own
Was just talking to one of them earlier as about a new guy they just met.

I'll just say that my friend *really* lacks any decent judgement of character so I'm just happy they trusted me enough to sit down and ask me about this guy and have me help them understand that yes the guy old enough to be their father is a creep.

I had this scenario recently too, I feel like this is targeted lol uwu

If you're in NA, perhaps

[Riruru]

Originally posted by Lady Miquella:

Originally posted by Riruru:

Honestly I wouldn't see it as anything unusual as most people where I study are men anyways

You study men ?

Sometimes