I got rejected by a girl cuz I am too nice.

[akiuara]

I treated her like a princess, one day she just said to me that she doesn't like the way I act, it is creepy, she just left, I am just confused, I am hurt asf. 😭idk. what am I even doing wrong, should I listen to Andrew Tate's advice?? I am just depressed rn. my confidence went to -0, I dunno if I can approach any girl with this current state of mine, I think I will just accept I am a total loser, a simp, be alone forever.

[akiuara]

Originally posted by Angel:

I don't think being nice was the reason for being rejected but being awkward is most likely why.

I'd suggest mingling with women in general even as friends to build your experience and confidence.

No I was wrong being nice is wrong, I searched some threads, videos, majority of woman likes jerks, I will roleplay as one, be confident about it, show them how superior I am, they're just a lapdog.

[Grim Reaper]

Originally posted by nirvana:

Originally posted by DesertSailor:

A lot of young women are pretty broken. They're gonna see being nice as a sign of weakness, if a guy is a jerk it tells her he has options, isn't desperate, and isn't a doormat.

The solution is apparently to be much more rude to them, but it's probably preferable to be single than be someone you're not. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

☠️If I am completely honest with you, I have a darkside, I like torturing things, you want me to unleash that.🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ so relationship these days are all games, I just watched videos about it, threads, it's all pointing to this one > a man needs to be a jerk, fine well Im so stupid believing romantics so I need to be my true dark self seems fine I guess, I just got reality checked today, no more simping for me, I will control the relationship if I ever land one, thanks for the advice.

Sorry, you're not a sigma

[akiuara]

Originally posted by Grim Reaper:

You probably shouldn't do that for a girl you aren't even in a relationship with lol

I know Im stupid, I am being consumed by my emotions, I did laugh on myself rn. how stupid I did, I am kinda broken but kinda feel a disgust to myself that I didnt treat myself some respect.

[akiuara]

Originally posted by Grim Reaper:

Originally posted by nirvana:

☠️If I am completely honest with you, I have a darkside, I like torturing things, you want me to unleash that.🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ so relationship these days are all games, I just watched videos about it, threads, it's all pointing to this one > a man needs to be a jerk, fine well Im so stupid believing romantics so I need to be my true dark self seems fine I guess, I just got reality checked today, no more simping for me, I will control the relationship if I ever land one, thanks for the advice.

Sorry, you're not a sigma

Are you sure? Nothing is impossible, even China did the impossible thing to become a super power, do you think I can't do it? I won't be a billionaire but I will get 1 girl someday, hardwork pays off, I will just send update ya'll if I landed one, I will prove you that this will work.

[joco]

Women see too much kindness as a man being needy, women don't want needy men, they want men that can take care of themselves thus showing that they can take care of a woman as well.

[the vampire of time and memory]

Originally posted by nirvana:

Originally posted by DesertSailor:

A lot of young women are pretty broken. They're gonna see being nice as a sign of weakness, if a guy is a jerk it tells her he has options, isn't desperate, and isn't a doormat.

The solution is apparently to be much more rude to them, but it's probably preferable to be single than be someone you're not. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

☠️If I am completely honest with you, I have a darkside, I like torturing things, you want me to unleash that.🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ so relationship these days are all games, I just watched videos about it, threads, it's all pointing to this one > a man needs to be a jerk, fine well Im so stupid believing romantics so I need to be my true dark self seems fine I guess, I just got reality checked today, no more simping for me, I will control the relationship if I ever land one, thanks for the advice.

https://youtu.be/zPelKg8eoWs?si=D23sbpYmXAIX5PeH

[akiuara]

Originally posted by joco:

Women see too much kindness as a man being needy, women don't want needy men, they want men that can take care of themselves thus showing that they can take care of a woman as well.

They also want thrill yeah?☠️ I will give them one, I will just be my true true self, I can do that, I am 5/10 but if I get to the gym maybe I will evolved into 7/10 with a good physiques, I just need money.

[Netaris]

Originally posted by nirvana:

I know Im stupid, I am being consumed by my emotions, I did laugh on myself rn. how stupid I did, I am kinda broken but kinda feel a disgust to myself that I didnt treat myself some respect.

Ah, an important point indeed. Human beings, both men and women, aren't able to give what they lack for themselves. If you want to be loved, you need to be able to love others and yourself for real. If you want to get respect, you need to be able to respect yourself and others first too.

I see it this way : How can you give something to someone else, if you don't apply it to yourself to be able to understand it first ? Can you imagine yourself becoming good at cooking if you never enjoyed your own dishes to begin with ? You need to experience things yourself before being able to replicate for others yourself. It's not all about you, but it's not all about others either.

[akiuara]

Originally posted by the vampire of time and memory:

Originally posted by nirvana:

☠️If I am completely honest with you, I have a darkside, I like torturing things, you want me to unleash that.🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ so relationship these days are all games, I just watched videos about it, threads, it's all pointing to this one > a man needs to be a jerk, fine well Im so stupid believing romantics so I need to be my true dark self seems fine I guess, I just got reality checked today, no more simping for me, I will control the relationship if I ever land one, thanks for the advice.

https://youtu.be/zPelKg8eoWs?si=D23sbpYmXAIX5PeH

It's ok to laugh at me, I am just going to prove you're wrong someday, well if I fail, you win, I will accept defeat, never approach a woman ever again, ez as that, for me in a deeper perspective life is all about suffering anyways.

[akiuara]

Originally posted by Netaris:

Originally posted by nirvana:

I know Im stupid, I am being consumed by my emotions, I did laugh on myself rn. how stupid I did, I am kinda broken but kinda feel a disgust to myself that I didnt treat myself some respect.

Ah, an important point indeed. Human beings, both men and women, aren't able to give what they lack for themselves. If you want to be loved, you need to be able to love others and yourself for real. If you want to get respect, you need to be able to respect yourself and others first too.

I see it this way : How can you give something to someone else, if you don't apply it to yourself to be able to understand it first ? Can you imagine yourself becoming good at cooking if you never enjoyed your own dishes to begin with ? You need to experience things yourself before being able to replicate for others yourself. It's not all about you, but it's not all about others either.

Experience is easy, I can do that, I believe in hardwork pays off, being smart pays off, I am a chess player, I believe in moves, I am going to work on my emotions first sometimes I am acting like a needy gay asf. guy that is desperate for a girl well yeah, I will start tom. I won't be posting here anymore, I will focus IRL rather than whining like a girl here.

[Xero_Daxter]

Originally posted by nirvana:

Originally posted by Xero_Daxter:

Don’t act like a jerk. Treat her as you would normally treat a friend. Be nice but stand your ground. If she did something nice then thank her for it. If she did something horrible then call her out on it.

I am just confused?? so everything that are taught in school are just plainly stupid, lies, they said treat girls kindly, you need to open doors to them etc. etc.? so I just need to treat them as equals then?

Well… yeah. Like I said, give credit where credit is due but don’t take crap from her. Because if you do then that’ll give her an excuse to walk all over you. A relationship is basically “equivalent exchange”. But that’s just me. If she can’t take it then that’s a her issue.

[Grim Reaper]

Originally posted by nirvana:

Originally posted by the vampire of time and memory:

https://youtu.be/zPelKg8eoWs?si=D23sbpYmXAIX5PeH

It's ok to laugh at me, I am just going to prove you're wrong someday.

Bro it's no wonder girls don't want to talk to you when you go from "I'm awkward and treated this girl like a princess" to "I have a darkside, I like torturing things". I think you're getting the wrong lessons from what people are saying here, girls don't like "jerks" because they "embraced their dark side" and treat them like ♥♥♥♥. A lot of these guys are probably great people, the difference is that they sold themselves to these women because it's easier to imagine a relationship with someone who is charismatic, confident, ambitious, and most importantly takes care of and provides for himself, her, the house, and potentially children. You already said you like to work hard, that's a start.

[Lord Bullingdon]

Don't be "nice", just be yourself.

[akiuara]

Originally posted by Grim Reaper:

Originally posted by nirvana:

It's ok to laugh at me, I am just going to prove you're wrong someday.

Bro it's no wonder girls don't want to talk to you when you go from "I'm awkward and treated this girl like a princess" to "I have a darkside, I like torturing things". I think you're getting the wrong lessons from what people are saying here, girls don't like "jerks" because they "embraced their dark side" and treat them like ♥♥♥♥. A lot of these guys are probably great people, the difference is that they sold themselves to these women because it's easier to imagine a relationship with someone who is charismatic, confident, ambitious, and most importantly takes care of and provides for himself, her, the house, and potentially children. You already said you like to work hard, that's a start.

I will do everything just to have a one girl, I will stop, don't worry I will just play the game, win the prize, Im not gonna read that blah blah, I can manage my money well, if I ever have a family I will love them, I just want one girl thats my goal, all of those things that I said is just a dumb way to get one, it is their game so I need to play it.

[akiuara]

I wont respond furthermore, whine some excuses, it is my fault, Im stupid, dumb believing putting woman to the pedestal, I am just stupid, I kinda hate myself rn. I am so embarassed I am thinking deleting this steam account.