What is your opinion of ghosting?

[Venom]

Have you been ghosted before? Do you think less of people who do it?

[EliteEndermanzz]

It depends who does it, if it's a random person I will probably just think "okay". If its a friend I'd be a bit sad

[Rendezvous 9]

Ghosted? I don't even have any contacts or friends or anyone whatsoever. I AM ghost.

[EliteEndermanzz]

Rendezvous 9 の投稿を引用：

Ghosted? I don't even have any contacts or friends or anyone whatsoever. I AM ghost.

OoOooooOoo

[Triple G]

What do You mean? If it´s about relationships no, and if it´s about anybody yes - and i would do it sometimes as well. People are usually bad in saying good bye, so instead of accepting it, while describing how the future will be and that it will end in the other person breaking the contact, they would rather insist on the contact, and then at some point do the ghosting. And in general it happens more often nowadays, because people tend to be more idiotic and can´t take a "no" - like if You decline something You rather get some insults and whatnot, so i can understand anybody who does the ghosting rather than saying good bye.

I have no opinion about people who do it either way - like it would be bad ghosting if the opinion would matter afterwards. It´s just sad for society as a whole.

[Phénomènes Mystiques]

In favor - I ghost pestilent a-hole, immature sexist pricks.

[WarHeRo]

I couldnt care less

[Li77lehorn]

It's rare I talk with anyone other than family, but when I did ghost people it was more about me being anxious. Or I wasn't in the mood to explain why because it can be draining. So I don't think bad about others who do it because I guess they might for similar reasons.

[Netaris]

Depend of the person I'll say, if I know the person have anxiety issues for example, I will not feel bad about it, I'll just hope this person feel better soon. If it's because someone want to end a relationship, I'll feel sad, but I never force peoples to stay around, everyone is free to leave. I'll just accept that I'll never know why and move on at some point.

[Vox]

👻 Who are you gonna call

[DOOMGIRL69]

it is what it is, it doesn't bother me really unless its for a reason like we had a argument before it started happening. i do it but not on purpose, i just forget to reply back sometimes

[Cinnamoon_dragon]

Yes, the funniest thing is that you are most often ignored by people who are not very popular themselves, do not represent anything special and they do not respect you because they think that you must be lonely and desperate and have no other choice if you try to attract their attention. They even try to humiliate you in this way, some serious ego problems and incorrect self-esteem I would say.

[Cinnamoon_dragon]

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Static-ghost の投稿を引用：

Yes, the funniest thing is that you are most often ignored by people who are not very popular themselves, do not represent anything special and they do not respect you because they think that you must be lonely and desperate and have no other choice if you try to attract their attention. They even try to humiliate you in this way, some serious ego problems and incorrect self-esteem I would say.

I wanna believe yoou but it seems like hardcore cope

What do you mean by hardcore copium? It seems like you have trust issues, you push others away because that's your defense mechanism. It's better to realize this problem before it's too late and you're left alone in your comfort zone, all people are different and there are not so many truly undesirable ones that you should exclude from your life.

[meowzers]

Sometimes people aren't worth a "goodbye."

[GlaceonChireiden]

I think ghosting is fine. Sometimes you just don't have anything to say, or sometimes talking would only get you in hot water no matter what you say.

It's better to not do it, obviously, but sometimes it's the easiest way to handle something

[Angry Gandalf]

Getting ghosted can very well feel like grief of losing somebody forever aka them dying.

Happens to me all the time. Affects me for a bit and I hate everything and everyone in that time frame and then one day I wake up and they basically have no effect on me. Almost like they are just another NPC in this nonsensical world.

I tell myself they probably just met someone with whom they feel better suited and it wasn’t meant to be, then move on. The makings of attraction are irrational, no sense mulling over it or taking it personally. Just be thankful for what I learned about myself from the dynamic with them and stay open to exploring a different spark down the road with someone else.