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The key to attracting women is being comfortable with raunchier language when speaking to people
Very much grew up a timid prude in my earlier years but as I aged, noticed I get better results with the opposite sex if I hint my intentions with them playfully in my language from the getgo. If it's unauthentic ,unsure, or fake, you may come off as creepy or desperate. You really gotta empathize and feel your way through. Remember, you are what you talk about. You should practice with guy friends here and there through locker room talk kinda stuff

The polar opposite to this is talking about nerdy hobbies. Like asking a woman what her favorite game is or beating around the bush and talking about the nice weather. Small talk is for small men. Always talk big.

Just my thoughts, take it with grain of salt

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Angel Dec 23, 2024 @ 3:03am 
I'd just say "hi" and ask them out.
The Maddog Dec 23, 2024 @ 10:33am 
Shy guys get nothing, I'll tell you that much.
Ɛ: ʎɥɔʇɐԀ Dec 23, 2024 @ 10:36am 
Sorry, as a touhou player I must avoid any interactions with women
Dunno why I made t his thread, Trying be a guru or something. My apologizes.
Axe Dec 23, 2024 @ 10:41am 
Just don't act like the women haters on this forum and you'll be good
Xautos Dec 23, 2024 @ 10:59am 
Originally posted by 𝘝𝘪𝘯tag𝘦:
Dunno why I made t his thread, Trying be a guru or something. My apologizes.

it's just your opinion on something, it doesn't make it the fact of the universe and everything around it. besides not every woman is the same
so why do good girls like bad guys? I had this question for a real long time

I've been a bad boy and it's plain to see, so why do good girls fall in love with me?
Daenoxiis Dec 23, 2024 @ 11:32am 
I think if your central focal point in life is still being hung up on love and sex as if it is the be-all, end-all point to everything in life, than that's the problem.

Love and sex and partnership is only ever an additive. It's like sugar. Exactly like sugar, actually.
You don't necessarily really need it, it does help to lighten things up a bit, but it can become very addictive and that addiction can and will have consequences to it.
Prinzip Dec 23, 2024 @ 11:40am 
Relationships don't last. You will be used. Once she's done with you, she'll move onto "better things"
Last edited by Prinzip; Dec 23, 2024 @ 11:40am
Pixie Dec 23, 2024 @ 11:49am 
Think OP might be onto something tbh
Source: own reactions to these situations ^-^
I just talk to them as I would a friend. If a relationship blossoms then great..... And if not, I've gained a friend.
aka Dec 23, 2024 @ 12:22pm 
Originally posted by 𝘝𝘪𝘯tag𝘦:
The key to attracting women is being comfortable with raunchier language when speaking to people

If I said the key to making money is to find free dimes near a bar's condom machine in 1980, I would be correct but it's also really silly... So I wouldn't say it, my IQ prevents me, like a bird's beak prevents it from living in undersea volcanic vents.

Words are like crying bubbles.

Have you ever seen someone who got dumped and they get all emotional, and suddenly the person who dumped them is literally the greatest person in all creation?


I have, many times... It's boring at my level, except for one single observation... it was thanks to my aunt. The only reason I pay attention now is not their ego jello, but because I can tell if they will kill themselves by the thickness of their nose jello... I'm never wrong. It's valuable.

You want to know a few very solid red flags? They like beer, BBQ, and sports. Boom, nose skittles.


You're welcome chap. :KneelingBow:


CHUD Dec 23, 2024 @ 1:30pm 
Originally posted by Mellow:
Just don't act like the women haters on this forum and you'll be good

^this dude is definitely single lmao
Goblin Dec 23, 2024 @ 1:30pm 
Originally posted by The Maddog:
Shy guys get nothing, I'll tell you that much.
I got a lot due to shyness. Taking it slow. Wouldn't do it any other way. Worked for me
Vince ✟ Dec 23, 2024 @ 1:32pm 
I think op may be confusing confidence and a blunt, no nonsense attitude, with ngaf cussing?
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Date Posted: Dec 23, 2024 @ 3:00am
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