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I didn’t ask to be born and now I have to live until I die
I think about this concept literally every single day of my life, the fact that I did not ask to be born and that I was born to two people who were definitely not meant to be parents. And now, because of their recklessness and poor decision making I must continue to live my meaningless life. This doesn’t sit well on me. Now, I can either suffer through life until I’m elderly and pass away or kill myself which I also don’t feel like doing. I just feel very tired and that everything I’m doing is pointless and unimportant and I wish I had just never been born because my birth was equally as pointless. Does anyone think this feeling is gonna go away??? or...
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Anti-Natalism fixes every problem
tat 1 月 30 日 上午 12:03 
well man, life aint fair...
Ganger 1 月 30 日 上午 3:27 
Sorry OP you feel this way but your negatively will forever affect your life going forward. Unless you stop with this negative attitude and stop partaking in the victim olympic's, you will always remain stuck in this mindset.

I just want to be brutally honest in this case to the point you will be upset and offended, people don't like being around negative people with a loser attitude or those's who play the victim card. People love winners. Time to change for your own good.
sleeps 1 月 30 日 上午 3:29 
i think this guy is obsessed with me
K0mbO 1 月 31 日 下午 4:38 
There isn't one person in the history of Earth that asked to be born (as far as we know it as human beings). You are not alone in that regard.

Also, having to live until you die is another thing that you have in common with everyone.

Life can be hard and miserable at times, but it can also be quite enjoyable and easy going some days as well. All that we can do is to hope, pray (if that's your thing), and work towards making life better for more enjoyable days to come.

Blaming your parents for bringing you into the world is not going to help you at all. How would they know that you would find life meaningless? They were just doing what mother nature programs us to do: procreate.

I'm not sure how you feel about religion, or if you take a scientific approach to why we are here and why we are driven to procreate, but in any case life is programmed to live on and procreate so that we "live on" through our children and theirs etc...

Perhaps, that is our meaning in life? To keep on living and experiencing life. To work towards a better future? You may think it's pointless, but think of it like this: If you were never born, how would that be better for you? You wouldn't have known about life's ups and downs. You would experience nothing, and more than that, you wouldn't know at all, because there would have never been a "you" to begin with.

So now that you are here, you might as well try to make the best of things while you are here. Who knows what happens after we die? Do we "live on" as spirits like the religions say? Or do we just "poof" out of existing and thinking? If we live on as spirits, well then that makes one's life pretty much like a nano second of existing on Earth until we transcend into what we are really destined to be (as spirits). If that's wrong, and there's just nothing after we die, no more thinking etc... well then what good will it be to die? It's not like you would know once life is over, so what would be the benefit of that happening?

Ok, that's just a little food for thought for you. I hope that you may find peace and meaning in your life, however you decide to work towards that. Just understand that you are not alone in struggling with these kinds of thoughts. All that we can do is try to put those negative thoughts out of mind and put more positive thoughts in place of them. Maybe even just put all thoughts out of mind and do some work to better your life even if it's just something like cleaning up the house, exercising, or busy work to keep your mind off of things for a while. Talk with others.
Do whatever you think will help you through it. This life may be all that we have, so make the best of things while you can.
apathy 2 月 1 日 下午 3:28 
引用自 K0mbO
Do we "live on" as spirits like the religions say? Or do we just "poof" out of existing and thinking? If we live on as spirits, well then that makes one's life pretty much like a nano second of existing on Earth until we transcend into what we are really destined to be (as spirits).
Then why not just start off as spirits? Seems a bit counterintuitive, and absurd, for everyone from one end of the spectrum living into their 100s, to those who die as premature babies.

What is the point? And that's the problem with eternal life, it eternally devalues life. Life is precious when it is finite, unfortunately we humans by nature don't respect or love anything that is rare or sacred.
引用自 Y
I think about this concept literally every single day of my life, the fact that I did not ask to be born and that I was born to two people who were definitely not meant to be parents. And now, because of their recklessness and poor decision making I must continue to live my meaningless life. This doesn’t sit well on me. Now, I can either suffer through life until I’m elderly and pass away or kill myself which I also don’t feel like doing. I just feel very tired and that everything I’m doing is pointless and unimportant and I wish I had just never been born because my birth was equally as pointless. Does anyone think this feeling is gonna go away??? or...



I agree sir 🙏
I hope OP that you find peace and joy in life. I totally understand where you are coming from though. The world is ♥♥♥♥. It's a horrible place.
The world is what everyone makes it. Everyone gets a vote. I guess you didn't vote hard enough.
SympliKrazi 2 月 3 日 下午 8:23 
You are in control of you mind and what you choose to put in there or to not put in there.
As a wise man said... something like... " i have a white wolf and a black wolf and every day they fight. And I know which one will win every time.

I know which one will win because, I'm the one that fed him.
The Maddog 2 月 4 日 上午 6:16 
You're a sentient piece of the universe looking back at itself.

You get to wonder and marvel at what you are a part of! Makes no difference how you got here!
Bask in yourself, seek your meaning and purpose and enjoy the opportunity random chaos gave you to simply exist.

Or don't and be melodramatic about it. You're in change of your own journey and it begins with the first step.
SympliKrazi 2 月 4 日 下午 5:13 
no, it's not yin yang
you should sue the hospital in which you were born.
引用自 Y
I think about this concept literally every single day of my life, the fact that I did not ask to be born and that I was born to two people who were definitely not meant to be parents. And now, because of their recklessness and poor decision making I must continue to live my meaningless life. This doesn’t sit well on me. Now, I can either suffer through life until I’m elderly and pass away or kill myself which I also don’t feel like doing. I just feel very tired and that everything I’m doing is pointless and unimportant and I wish I had just never been born because my birth was equally as pointless. Does anyone think this feeling is gonna go away??? or...


i agree
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