Im too attatched emotionally to someone

[Dodo]

To the point even after a yeat of not seeing them, i still think about them sll the time. Can you help me pls?

[FafnirChaos]

Nothing you can do about that - you'll have to tough that one out.

[Sarge the doggo]

Originally posted by Dodo:

To the point even after a yeat of not seeing them, i still think about them sll the time. Can you help me pls?

Have you tried talking to them and telling them how you feel?

[DarkCrystalMethod]

If they are physical ties call a locksmith.
If its the heart then no effort will break it.

[The Maddog]

Originally posted by Dodo:

To the point even after a yeat of not seeing them, i still think about them sll the time. Can you help me pls?

No. Because you'll never stop thinking about them.

It can be 30 years later and they still will pop in your head.

Without context however, I cant really offer appropriate advice.

Why have you not seen the person. What was the nature of your relationship. etc etc.

[FafnirChaos]

Originally posted by The Maddog:

Originally posted by Dodo:

To the point even after a yeat of not seeing them, i still think about them sll the time. Can you help me pls?

No. Because you'll never stop thinking about them.

It can be 30 years later and they still will pop in your head.

Without context however, I cant really offer appropriate advice.

Why have you not seen the person. What was the nature of your relationship. etc etc.

After a certain time when you find out that they got married and have kids - that'll atleast give some closure - just gotta keep moving forward, and wait for that day.

[Under there]

have a cup of tea

[Dodo]

Here is the story “ Well they were girls i didnt know at all. I didnt care abt them at first. then out of nowhere they staryed laughing excessively at my jokes and like they were giving me too mich validation. They did that for a whole year, so i became obessed. So obsessed to the point that like i didnt like weekends because i coupdnt see them. And so what i did, to try to connect, i added one of them as friends. She ignored me, and then agter a month, after i deleted my friend request, she staryed invading my personal space, touchint me aggressively, and staring at me. I didnt u derstand what she wanted but to me it was validation, so i became extremelt obsesssed but really anxioud at the same time, which i didnt know why i was so anxious, one day because of my anxiety, i yelled at my teacher after she was defending my bully, which got me expelled, now its been s year i havent seen her and i cant stop thinking about this interaction ajd it pains me for some reason.”

[Dodo]

Like they were touchint me aggressively just hecause i added one of them on snapchat because i thought they wanted to connect with me

[Sarge the doggo]

Originally posted by Dodo:

Here is the story “ Well they were girls i didnt know at all. I didnt care abt them at first. then out of nowhere they staryed laughing excessively at my jokes and like they were giving me too mich validation. They did that for a whole year, so i became obessed. So obsessed to the point that like i didnt like weekends because i coupdnt see them. And so what i did, to try to connect, i added one of them as friends. She ignored me, and then agter a month, after i deleted my friend request, she staryed invading my personal space, touchint me aggressively, and staring at me. I didnt u derstand what she wanted but to me it was validation, so i became extremelt obsesssed but really anxioud at the same time, which i didnt know why i was so anxious, one day because of my anxiety, i yelled at my teacher after she was defending my bully, which got me expelled, now its been s year i havent seen her and i cant stop thinking about this interaction ajd it pains me for some reason.”

Maybe you could tell her this??? Explain to her what she did people change. Maybe she would be willing to talk to you about it.

Also is yelling at a teacher an expellable offense now??????

[Dodo]

Originally posted by Sarge keeps it copacetic:

Originally posted by Dodo:

Here is the story “ Well they were girls i didnt know at all. I didnt care abt them at first. then out of nowhere they staryed laughing excessively at my jokes and like they were giving me too mich validation. They did that for a whole year, so i became obessed. So obsessed to the point that like i didnt like weekends because i coupdnt see them. And so what i did, to try to connect, i added one of them as friends. She ignored me, and then agter a month, after i deleted my friend request, she staryed invading my personal space, touchint me aggressively, and staring at me. I didnt u derstand what she wanted but to me it was validation, so i became extremelt obsesssed but really anxioud at the same time, which i didnt know why i was so anxious, one day because of my anxiety, i yelled at my teacher after she was defending my bully, which got me expelled, now its been s year i havent seen her and i cant stop thinking about this interaction ajd it pains me for some reason.”

Maybe you could tell her this??? Explain to her what she did people change. Maybe she would be willing to talk to you about it.

Also is yelling at a teacher an expellable offense now??????

Yes it is apparently, ifk if i wanted to tell her because her friends keep staring at me with an angry face and she stared me down just a couple of months ago

[Dodo]

Like they saw me once again after lime almost a year of not seeing each other and they stary like trying to intimidate me or something

[Sarge the doggo]

Originally posted by Dodo:

Like they saw me once again after lime almost a year of not seeing each other and they stary like trying to intimidate me or something

Maybe the girl you liked didnt like you that way but the other girl you didn’t like liked you that way. That could be why you earned their ire.

You have to talk to them to find out what happened.

Just be nice and polite and explain how it made you feel.

[WarHeRo]

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