How long should one wait after a breakup until they text their ex a really funny meme?

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Mr. Wombat Jan 9 @ 3:53pm

It's really relatable and funny, but I don't want things to be awkward since the breakup is pretty fresh

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Hugh J Nuss Jan 9 @ 4:30pm

Originally posted by Mr. Wombat:
Originally posted by TC SKATES:
Why the hell are you still in contact? Move on, delete them everywhere, and be an adult. Keeping them around creates baggage for future relationships.

Well I kinda like having friends, and they happen to be one of them

Make new friends. Any future partner is going to dread you having exes around. It shows immaturity and the inability to commit (commit to breaking things off is just the same)

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Mr. Wombat Jan 9 @ 4:37pm

Originally posted by k7sEFpuLgxsYIZLJyE7Ugg==:
Originally posted by Mr. Wombat:

Luckily it wasn't that toxic or anything, we're still friends
Seems toxic, like dwelling in the past

Well I'm not dwelling on then as a partner anymore, they're just a friend now.

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De Hollandse Ezel Jan 9 @ 4:38pm

depends how the breakup is..

but in my experience there are two ways..

1 the hard cut.. -> they cut you off imediately.. as in they just never want to see or speak you ever again.

2 the slow death -> they say lets stay friends.. which for a while works.. but the contact slowly bleeds to 0 (gaps between seeing and speaking eachother get larger, and the moments you do speak/see eachother get more superficial... until the moment one of the two finds somebody new.. and thats usually when the contact decreases to fully 0 anyway cause "it's awkward to still see eachother.

so one way or another they will disapear out of your life completely...

than again I was never the one who cut off the relation or contact.

Last edited by De Hollandse Ezel; Jan 9 @ 4:38pm

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Mr. Wombat Jan 9 @ 4:42pm

Originally posted by k7sEFpuLgxsYIZLJyE7Ugg==:
Originally posted by Mr. Wombat:

Well I'm not dwelling on then as a partner anymore, they're just a friend now.
A friend you once banged nevertheless

Well our relationship never got that far. Our relationship really didn't last that long, our friendship has been longer than our relationship lasted, and we haven't even been friends for that long

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the vampire of time and memory Jan 9 @ 4:45pm

don't (wait)

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↑↑↓↓←→←→BASelect Jan 9 @ 4:55pm

Give her at least a month to collect herself and come to terms that the relationship is over. Don't text or call her and give her some space.

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Hugh J Nuss Jan 9 @ 5:02pm

Originally posted by Mr. Wombat:
Originally posted by k7sEFpuLgxsYIZLJyE7Ugg==:
A friend you once banged nevertheless

Well our relationship never got that far. Our relationship really didn't last that long, our friendship has been longer than our relationship lasted, and we haven't even been friends for that long

Bro just cut her loose my god

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Hammer Of Evil Jan 9 @ 5:05pm

Originally posted by Mr. Wombat:
How long should one wait after a breakup until they text their ex a really funny meme?

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vinny Jan 9 @ 5:06pm

I second that, if it was mutual then you could go ahead and send it as long as it ended off in good terms. Just because you both aren't together doesn't mean you both need to hate each other.

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talemore Jan 9 @ 5:07pm

3 seconds

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Angel Jan 9 @ 5:30pm

It depends on the relationship.

If the breakup was mutual and you stay a friend vs the break up was bad and she burnt all your belongings in a bonfire is a huge difference.

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↑↑↓↓←→←→BASelect Jan 9 @ 5:37pm

Originally posted by Alfonso Benedirk:
Originally posted by ↑↑↓↓←→←→BASelect:
Give her at least a month to collect herself and come to terms that the relationship is over. Don't text or call her and give her some space.
This is terrible advice. What the op needs to do is keep texting her every minute to get in them panties. Stop giving lame advice to people when the real advice is to keep getting at her to get in them panties.

You know nothing about women and how they grieve. My advice was perfect.

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talemore Jan 9 @ 5:39pm

Originally posted by ↑↑↓↓←→←→BASelect:
Originally posted by Alfonso Benedirk:
This is terrible advice. What the op needs to do is keep texting her every minute to get in them panties. Stop giving lame advice to people when the real advice is to keep getting at her to get in them panties.
You know nothing about women and how they grieve. My advice was perfect.

It was perfect that you don't even have a wife. Since your advice suck as it came from experience of losing the girl.

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