What Should Someone Do to Win Your Heart?

[Soy una puta enorme]

What do you think someone would need to do to win your love?

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Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

Nguyên văn bởi Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...:

weird power fantasy you have. kinda creepy.

power fantasy??
I would not mind a woman to be 2 meter.. have a higher iq than mine.. and twice my strenght..
that is ofcourse very unlikely to actually happen.
as I already am tall, smart and strong.
but I aint affraid for feistyness..
though I do think feminism is a sin.. only one with a developed ego.. can choose to lay it down.

and as a man.. I must place Gods and her desires before my own (love like christ does make me the head of the house which she must not contest.. it also means I must lay down my life for her if needed)

oh, wow. how do you stay so humble?

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Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

Nguyên văn bởi Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...:

weird power fantasy you have. kinda creepy.

power fantasy??
I would not mind a woman to be 2 meter.. have a higher iq than mine.. and twice my strenght..
that is ofcourse very unlikely to actually happen.
as I already am tall, smart and strong.
but I aint affraid for feistyness..
though I do think feminism is a sin.. only one with a developed ego.. can choose to lay it down.

and as a man.. I must place Gods and her desires before my own (love like christ does make me the head of the house which she must not contest.. it also means I must lay down my life for her if needed)

man... I think you expect too much from a person.

[xAlphaStarOmegax]

Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

how is "somebody must just really really love me + somebody must just really really really love God" to high expectations??
never had taken the covid shot

It isn't, but all that extra stuff below those are.

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I'll take it as it comes, no need for some half-baked romantic charade ... all those free drinks and payment to make a restaurant + staff sing and dance + a ring? Should've saved a few; you'll need liquid courage when facing the awkward aftermath ...

[Dutchgamer1982]

Nguyên văn bởi Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...:

Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

power fantasy??
I would not mind a woman to be 2 meter.. have a higher iq than mine.. and twice my strenght..
that is ofcourse very unlikely to actually happen.
as I already am tall, smart and strong.
but I aint affraid for feistyness..
though I do think feminism is a sin.. only one with a developed ego.. can choose to lay it down.

and as a man.. I must place Gods and her desires before my own (love like christ does make me the head of the house which she must not contest.. it also means I must lay down my life for her if needed)

oh, wow. how do you stay so humble?

its a fact I have an 1 in 10000 iq.
that means the chance a random person iI meet s smarter than me is only 0.01%
I am 1.90m.. just above average for a dutch man.. but dutch woman are a bit shorter on average with less than 1% of them 1.90m or taller.. and if we extend this to all woman even if we stick to only the 11% whites in the world.. thats still quite a small percentage.
as for fysical prowess.. I aint training for weightlifitng.. but neither are most woman. I have quite high ability to push and pull weight.. sure I get nowehere to strongman values.. but untrained I outperform many that do actively train... few woman will be able to just toss 95kg on one shoulder and carry it.. or push/weightlift 150kg above their head up a stairs.. with both hands.. let alone push 200+ kg with both legs.. and 110kg with one leg.

so it's not bragging.. just realism that by mere statistics 99.9999% of woman I meet will be less intelligent, less tall and less strong than I am.

[Dutchgamer1982]

Nguyên văn bởi xAlphaStarOmegax:

Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

how is "somebody must just really really love me + somebody must just really really really love God" to high expectations??
never had taken the covid shot

It isn't, but all that extra stuff below those are.

that extra stuff is not so much needed.. those are merely "would likes"
lets call that the things I use to test if somebody really wants me.. if they don't get scared away by such extensive demands.. I would drop most of them;)

but the fact is it is very hard to find a woman who even want children today.. as it is finding one that is able to pray together.. (sadly real christians are also a bit rare)
and I find on the other end that so many woman want me to be some kind of perfectly dressed.. non emotional income stream.. which is just not me..
yes I am a man who can cry.. and sadly many woman don't like that.
and I also always had a bit of bodyfat.. despite always being strong.. I find that woman like visual muscles often to much.. even though I found most those visible muscles are fluff.. they are not even close to my strenght or stamina.. purely cosmetic.. many truelly strong man have a bit a belly..

[xAlphaStarOmegax]

Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

Nguyên văn bởi Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...:

weird power fantasy you have. kinda creepy.

power fantasy??

though I do think feminism is a sin.. only one with a developed ego.. can choose to lay it down.

I do have to make a statement about this (and I am saying it with no malice): as someone who wouldn't necessarily consider themselves a feminist, I would have to say that for the most part, most women are tired of feeling subjugated. Due to some men having chosen to treat women as a doormat for years, they are now reaping what was sown. Many men today are left wondering why women have washed their hands of feeling like they need a man, and then they take to forums and complain, without trying to look within themselves and make the necessary changes. Women are not objects to be had or conformed to what men see fit; we are people, and we have rights too, and men are having to learn that the hard way. It's like the old saying goes: when you make your bed, you have to lay in it.

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Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

but the fact is it is very hard to find a woman who even want children today.. as it is finding one that is able to pray together.. (sadly real christians are also a bit rare)
and I find on the other end that so many woman want me to be some kind of perfectly dressed.. non emotional income stream.. which is just not me..
yes I am a man who can cry.. and sadly many woman don't like that.

It seems like you want a traditional woman, but you don't want her to make you fit a traditional role by relying on you to be the breadwinner, right? As for being an emotional man, I see nothing wrong with that. I actually prefer it if someone doesn't hide their emotions.

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Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

so it's not bragging.. just realism that by mere statistics 99.9999% of woman I meet will be less intelligent, less tall and less strong than I am.

omg, be sure to open with that.

[Dutchgamer1982]

Nguyên văn bởi xAlphaStarOmegax:

Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

power fantasy??

though I do think feminism is a sin.. only one with a developed ego.. can choose to lay it down.

I do have to make a statement about this (and I am saying it with no malice): as someone who wouldn't necessarily consider themselves a feminist, I would have to say that for the most part, most women are tired of feeling subjugated. Due to some men having chosen to treat women as a doormat for years, they are now reaping what was sown. Many men today are left wondering why women have washed their hands of feeling like they need a man, and then they take to forums and complain, without trying to look within themselves and make the necessary changes. Women are not objects to be had or conformed to what men see fit; we are people, and we have rights too, and men are having to learn that the hard way. It's like the old saying goes: when you make your bed, you have to lay in it.

as they teach in my church feminism is a sin.

and while I believe that "woman should be obedient to THEIR man"
and yes man forgot often that "they should love their woman like Christ"
and behaved quite badly.
but to me a return to that way of how it was ment to be.. is right.
not feminism aka a rebellion against Gods order.


being the leader of a household means for me that God will call me whenever something does not go right in the household.
and that includes not taking care of her needs..

for example I can be head of my household and still have her work and take on the household tasks myself.. but God will still call my name if that leads to issues..

I often found woman today even in churches have been spoiled by the opposite...
they don't follow the social code in dating

as a man I am expected to offer to pay for example even if lower income than the woman I date.. but she is by the social code not expected to accept that unless she is interested in another date.. (and all dating is aimed toward marriage eventually)
and I also found that woman kind of have become bossy.. and not the good kind..
I like a bit of feistyness us man need that when we behave stupid..
but it's like my ex who basicly expected she decieded basicly on everything.. down to what clothes I work.. and what friends I saw.. and to me that just not work.. there should be a much more fair balance between the desires of both..

woman also often have that attitude of "I not want/need you.. and am totally happy alone.. need nobody"
which is not a fair starting position vs my own of "I very much hate being alone"

sure I too know that being with the wrong person is worse than being alone.. but there is a truth in that you mostly compete against her being happy alone not against other man..

[Dutchgamer1982]

Nguyên văn bởi xAlphaStarOmegax:

Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

power fantasy??

though I do think feminism is a sin.. only one with a developed ego.. can choose to lay it down.

I do have to make a statement about this (and I am saying it with no malice): as someone who wouldn't necessarily consider themselves a feminist, I would have to say that for the most part, most women are tired of feeling subjugated. Due to some men having chosen to treat women as a doormat for years, they are now reaping what was sown. Many men today are left wondering why women have washed their hands of feeling like they need a man, and then they take to forums and complain, without trying to look within themselves and make the necessary changes. Women are not objects to be had or conformed to what men see fit; we are people, and we have rights too, and men are having to learn that the hard way. It's like the old saying goes: when you make your bed, you have to lay in it.

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Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

but the fact is it is very hard to find a woman who even want children today.. as it is finding one that is able to pray together.. (sadly real christians are also a bit rare)
and I find on the other end that so many woman want me to be some kind of perfectly dressed.. non emotional income stream.. which is just not me..
yes I am a man who can cry.. and sadly many woman don't like that.

It seems like you want a traditional woman, but you don't want her to make you fit a traditional role by relying on you to be the breadwinner, right? As for being an emotional man, I see nothing wrong with that. I actually prefer it if someone doesn't hide their emotions.

I want a woman thats traditional in mindset.
but I would have no problem with her working and me doing the household.
my dad was basicly never doing ANYTHING in the household (though he did take us kids to places to give my mom the weekend off)
but I tend to be far more ok in cooking and cleaning and taking my fair share there too..

I often find woman have this "strong and independend.. need no man"
and also feel kind of being made in this look pretty keep quit pay the bill.. kind of expectation.. which I rebell against..
but when I meet woman who are truelly trained meekl.. as in they actually not tell what they want as they expect me to decide anything.. I not like that either..

I am ok with a woman who just wants to be a housewife.. but I would also be ok with a woman who desires me to be a houseman..
for me "traditional" and being a biblical woman.. is not linked to who owns the income.

[xAlphaStarOmegax]

Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

so it's not bragging.. just realism that by mere statistics 99.9999% of woman I meet will be less intelligent, less tall and less strong than I am.

No offense, but could it possibly be that that sort of thinking right there is what hinders some men from finding a female companion?

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Nguyên văn bởi xAlphaStarOmegax:

Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

so it's not bragging.. just realism that by mere statistics 99.9999% of woman I meet will be less intelligent, less tall and less strong than I am.

No offense, but could it possibly be that that sort of thinking right there is what hinders some men from finding a female companion?

this guy's big into Rick and Morty and he chose the correct diety, our opinions are but dust in the wind compared to his.

[Dutchgamer1982]

Nguyên văn bởi xAlphaStarOmegax:

Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

so it's not bragging.. just realism that by mere statistics 99.9999% of woman I meet will be less intelligent, less tall and less strong than I am.

No offense, but could it possibly be that that sort of thinking right there is what hinders some men from finding a female companion?

:) I not look down on them.. after all to be a help to somebody one must be superior to the one being helped..
and on average woman are 2 iq points smarter than man. and 5 more eq points.... they tend to have a quicker responcetime.. be more resistance to illness.. have a longer lifespan.. higher ability to manage multiple tasks and organise...

and while it may be true a woman may not be smarter, taller or stronger than me.
she will have talents in other area's.

often woman have far superior social skills to me..
and I tend to often forget birthdays etc woman somehow seem to be much better in such organising things that have certainly value
and while I do write poems.. there are many people who can create art or write poems etc much better.
and than theres character.. I clearly have flaws.. and meekness and a slap on the wrist for my pride at times.. is very much something that I can value in another person..
another is persistance..I often quit anything I can not excell in.. (basicly if I get a B.. I work harder.. if I work my best and still get a B+ I quit.. some woman can work at their best.. for years despite being average.. I respect that.. as it's something I just can not do.. doing so much efford and not being the best ever in that area.. where do they find that strenght?

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Nguyên văn bởi Dutchgamer1982:

as they teach in my church feminism is a sin.

and while I believe that "woman should be obedient to THEIR man"
and yes man forgot often that "they should love their woman like Christ"
and behaved quite badly.
but to me a return to that way of how it was ment to be.. is right.
not feminism aka a rebellion against Gods order.

Maybe it is a sin, maybe it isn't, but thankfully Christ died for all sins. And He also taught that men should love their wives, but many have not done so in their words and deeds, and until they can look within themselves and make the changes necessary, women will continue to rise up and say, "No more; enough is enough."

It is easy for a man who has never gone through what a woman has to say if a woman stands up for her rights, it is a rebellion against God, but it actually takes guts and the love and compassion of Christ to say, maybe I have paved the way for all of this; maybe I am to blame in some way.

Edit: I also should add that if a woman chooses to not bring any more children into this world, then she should have that right. Again, they're not objects and machines meant to spit out babies because a man tells them to. Also, the whole obedience thing is a slippery slope that has been used for eons by men to subjugate and silence women. There's a reason why God made us women using a rib from Adam. God could have taken a bone from Adam's foot, but He didn't. We were made from Adam's rib because we are meant to be treated equally; we are not meant to be stepped all over by men.

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