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akiuara Feb 22 @ 5:33am
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I am 23 never had any single girlfriend.
I want a girlfriend but I am worried that I am like 5/10, I just have an average job, I am not rich yet, I am not a good sweet or sexy talker either, I only have a an average physique, I don't have a mascular physique, in short I suck, I am just thinking nobody would like me, whenever I see a girl that I like, my mind gets blackout, go insecure like my mind is telling me if I go approach her, there is 90% chance I would get rejected cuz she is just way above my lvl blah blah BS. + I am so shy that sometimes I would say I act like a creep, even my mom is mad at me cuz I am like a very weird person, what should I do?
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Plutoski Feb 22 @ 7:25am 
Originally posted by mariachan:
Originally posted by 󠀡󠀡 󠀡:

where's the horrible? i'm trying to tell them that not having a girlfriend ≠ purposeless life.
You also mentioned seeing happy couples on social media ruins your day so you had to get off these platforms, that's not a recommendable state of mind

you don't seem to get what i'm saying and that's ok, you're likely a normie.
Originally posted by BunnieBealla:
Originally posted by Tiny Elvis:
I'm 49 and haven't had a GF since I was 19, and that only lasted three days.

I win. 😁

oooh older man
I can be your girlfriend daddy :3
uwu


I'm 49 and not single and got a couple who call me "Daddy".

It's weird! Stop it!
SvarogX Feb 22 @ 7:37am 
Originally posted by nirvana:
I want a girlfriend but I am worried that I am like 5/10, I just have an average job, I am not rich yet, I am not a good sweet or sexy talker either, I only have a an average physique, I don't have a mascular physique, in short I suck, I am just thinking nobody would like me, whenever I see a girl that I like, my mind gets blackout, go insecure like my mind is telling me if I go approach her, there is 90% chance I would get rejected cuz she is just way above my lvl blah blah BS. + I am so shy that sometimes I would say I act like a creep, even my mom is mad at me cuz I am like a very weird person, what should I do?

As a man in my early 30s, who had numerous chicks and is now happily married. All I can say is , that the Steam forum is the WORST place to get any advice for the most part.

But I do read a lot of insecurity out of your comments, this is what puts women off as well, but I also feel that you seek for the wrong women as your initial thought and attitude on this, is already wrong and puts you into the role of a victim, even if you might not know this yet.

Tbh, I can give you a talk and maybe answer some of your questions, from the pov of a more experienced male, but I won't do this on a forum, where people are just lurking to report me and get me banned.

So if you want genuine help and a more experienced opinion and are also willing to LEARN from it, feel free to add me and pop me a message anytime.
Originally posted by 󠀡󠀡 󠀡:
Originally posted by mariachan:
You also mentioned seeing happy couples on social media ruins your day so you had to get off these platforms, that's not a recommendable state of mind

you don't seem to get what i'm saying and that's ok, you're likely a normie.

raw time tinarina is a normie
Originally posted by The Maddog:
Originally posted by BunnieBealla:

oooh older man
I can be your girlfriend daddy :3
uwu


I'm 49 and not single and got a couple who call me "Daddy".

It's weird! Stop it!

other guys your age love when I call them that uwu
Originally posted by BunnieBealla:
Originally posted by The Maddog:


I'm 49 and not single and got a couple who call me "Daddy".

It's weird! Stop it!

other guys your age love when I call them that uwu

I'm a BDSM Dom! I prefer other names!
Originally posted by nirvana:
I want a girlfriend but I am worried that I am like 5/10, I just have an average job, I am not rich yet, I am not a good sweet or sexy talker either, I only have a an average physique, I don't have a mascular physique, in short I suck, I am just thinking nobody would like me, whenever I see a girl that I like, my mind gets blackout, go insecure like my mind is telling me if I go approach her, there is 90% chance I would get rejected cuz she is just way above my lvl blah blah BS. + I am so shy that sometimes I would say I act like a creep, even my mom is mad at me cuz I am like a very weird person, what should I do?

Shy is based around a fear of judgement and rejection. THAT is what you need to work on. Go to the doc. They can offer courses to help you. There are books you can read and even medication.
Originally posted by The Maddog:
Originally posted by BunnieBealla:

other guys your age love when I call them that uwu

I'm a BDSM Dom! I prefer other names!
sir/master? :bluerune::luv:
~Ren~ Feb 22 @ 9:35am 
Originally posted by nirvana:
I want a girlfriend but I am worried that I am like 5/10, I just have an average job, I am not rich yet, I am not a good sweet or sexy talker either, I only have a an average physique, I don't have a mascular physique, in short I suck, I am just thinking nobody would like me, whenever I see a girl that I like, my mind gets blackout, go insecure like my mind is telling me if I go approach her, there is 90% chance I would get rejected cuz she is just way above my lvl blah blah BS. + I am so shy that sometimes I would say I act like a creep, even my mom is mad at me cuz I am like a very weird person, what should I do?

Confidence, that's all you need. You're already expecting to be rejected. Stop putting yourself down, focus on your good points, you're working, you're quiet, listen to what she has to say rather than focus on OMG! it's my turn, what do I say? Build your confidence and you'll be fine.
Originally posted by nirvana:
Originally posted by Voroff:
Whu - what do you mean, "purchase a kid with your DNA" ? That's not how pregnancy works, not how sperm banks works ... and .. you aware you can adopt ? Multiple kids even ? Look at Angelina Jolie, for example, a bad example but one noneless xD
/raised eyebrowns
If that is the case well maybe im just going to suicide if I do reach that point, there's no point of living if you only have money, house without a purpose.

Why is what other people tell you so important to you? Maybe your purpose is different to them. Have you ever stopped to really consider?
Easy, become a cute femboy and gay, and all mens will wants you.
me too
Originally posted by nirvana:
I want a girlfriend but I am worried that I am like 5/10, I just have an average job, I am not rich yet, I am not a good sweet or sexy talker either, I only have a an average physique, I don't have a mascular physique, in short I suck, I am just thinking nobody would like me, whenever I see a girl that I like, my mind gets blackout, go insecure like my mind is telling me if I go approach her, there is 90% chance I would get rejected cuz she is just way above my lvl blah blah BS. + I am so shy that sometimes I would say I act like a creep, even my mom is mad at me cuz I am like a very weird person, what should I do?




Get a boyfriend
Good advice!

Originally posted by Goblin:
You've described yourself as average. that's fine. I would work on whatever would improve your self esteem. Diet/Exercise/Socialization

you miss all the shots you don't take as well. Failure isn't the end, and isn't even a bad thing.

Also a good sense of humor can really drag people in. (Avoid edgy humor unless the other person is comfortable)

I've seen plenty of below average men end up in pretty happy relationships because they were the funniest person in the room. It's a skill that can be trained just as anything else.

Also important, Good Hygiene.
The Maddog Feb 22 @ 10:13am 
Originally posted by DOOMGIRL69:
Originally posted by The Maddog:

I'm a BDSM Dom! I prefer other names!
sir/master? :bluerune::luv:


Since I can post this as it's an (older) main stream news article and not anything NSFW:

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/swingers-club-bans-unvaccinated-punters-26317923


Lets just say I've given that very Saint Andrew's cross and the wheel some use (though I'm sad to say the Catwoman mural has gone now) ! It's all fun and games to some!

So make your own mind up on what I get called!

And I'll leave it that because I don't know how old anyone here really is. What happens in the club, stays in the club!

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