I am 23 never had any single girlfriend.

[akiuara]

I want a girlfriend but I am worried that I am like 5/10, I just have an average job, I am not rich yet, I am not a good sweet or sexy talker either, I only have a an average physique, I don't have a mascular physique, in short I suck, I am just thinking nobody would like me, whenever I see a girl that I like, my mind gets blackout, go insecure like my mind is telling me if I go approach her, there is 90% chance I would get rejected cuz she is just way above my lvl blah blah BS. + I am so shy that sometimes I would say I act like a creep, even my mom is mad at me cuz I am like a very weird person, what should I do?

[Not Big Surprise]

引用自 coolboyz2626：

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

WAIT WHAT

He never went to Asia. And limited to a very small tiny bubble. He saying that millions of people whom are just like me are "creeps". That is a racist comment.

buddy what you're proposing is having sex slaves
that IS creepy

[The Maddog]

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

引用自 coolboyz2626：

As I said, western thinking is irrelevant in Asia. There's millions of tourists going there. Are they all "creeps" there? That's sounds racist.

nah buddy treating people as sex slaves is creepy

Oh please!


1 in 19 women in the west now is engaging in sex work of some sort or another.

If men wanted "sex slaves" they are not short of options in the west!


And please...don't pretend otherwise.

Not only am I involved in the Adult industry (and see what some women will do for a payday without a second thought) I also have a good friend who works for HMRC Tax office in the UK who, ironically enough, was part of a growing department to chase all of these OF women to get their tax payments (and that was an eye opener for me, I'll tell ya).

Plenty of women sell what men want.

So again...if they wanted to buy it, they could do so quite easily in the west.



And I do have sex slaves. I'm a BDSM Dom. Am I in asia....NOPE!

[Troll Hunter b]

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

引用自 coolboyz2626：

As I said, western thinking is irrelevant in Asia. There's millions of tourists going there. Are they all "creeps" there? That's sounds racist.

nah buddy treating people as sex slaves is creepy

Visit r/Pattaya on Reddit, a real eye opener there.. sorry buddy, you need to expand your horizons.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Pattaya/new/

[Rio]

I have the solution


https://store.steampowered.com/app/2989820/Pocket_Waifu_Desktop_Pet/

[Doctor Go-Go]

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

引用自 Doctor Go-Go：

That's just the way it is, eventually you'll have to let go of that Disney nonsense and face the facts of life. Barbies don't become Barbies because they're going to settle for some average fat slob, they're selling to the highest bidder, that's what drives them, it's a game of luring, seducing and exploitation.

When I was young, lean and in shape EVERY woman was interested in me, always waiting to flirt, yet if some average out of shape low income fella were to pass by or try to mingle with them these gals wouldn't give those guys the time of day because they felt they were too good for those fellas even though these girls were fat unkempt slobs in the SAME league. That is the problem, they are among the lowest class yet they believe they're the highest class, they believe they're too good for a man as average as they are.

It's a matter of how practical any relationship could and would be.

i have two girlfriends, each one has another two partners of their own
i've had experience with both monogamous and polyamorous relationships, as well as with open and closed relationships

and let me tell you
you have no clue what you're on about

Uh huh, which league and class are they? Some easy ghetto skanks? Guys don't want those kind of women. Are they two sickly looking chunkies as seen in the amateur adult films? Is that why you're here telling stories and making claims, is it because you're such a playboy you have the time to be here browsing through the off-topic forums? Yeah right, I sure do believe you. It's a cute story.

[Doctor Go-Go]

引用自 mariachan：

引用自 Doctor Go-Go：

Uh huh, which league and class are they? Some easy ghetto skanks? Guys don't want those kind of women. Are they two sickly looking chunkies as seen in the amateur adult films? Is that why you're here telling stories and making claims, is it because you're such a playboy you have the time to be here browsing through the off-topic forums? Yeah right, I sure do believe you. It's a cute story.

You're a very sad individual

Go into detail. I guarantee you my previous posts will counter it, Some person could comment "Two plus two equals four" And I could respond with '"you're a very sad individual." SO what is your point, go into detail, counter all of it.

The truth always hurts, you like many others would like to believe real life to be just like every extraordinary work of fiction.

I've been discussing what top-shelf women are looking for in men and why the lower classes of females now have absurdly high standards because they believe they are something they're not.

People need to lower their expectations, be reasonable, realistic. KNOW females want a man with the assets and cash because they want children, a fancy house and more. Either a guy can provide that or he can't People are trying to mingle and date out of their league, they believe they're champions deserving an ALL-STAR. People need to lower their expectations, be reasonable, realistic.

Look ate Divorce rates, you'll see these divorced women EVERYWHERE here in the U.S. Divorced and single, now in their 30's thru 40's with 3 to 5 children and seeking a mate. We KNOW what she's after. She was TOO good for her former spouse therefore she's now looking for some other BETTER man to provide for and pay for those kids as well as her wants and needs. NO THANKS! :P

[Not Big Surprise]

引用自 The Maddog：

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

nah buddy treating people as sex slaves is creepy

Oh please!


1 in 19 women in the west now is engaging in sex work of some sort or another.

If men wanted "sex slaves" they are not short of options in the west!


And please...don't pretend otherwise.

Not only am I involved in the Adult industry (and see what some women will do for a payday without a second thought) I also have a good friend who works for HMRC Tax office in the UK who, ironically enough, was part of a growing department to chase all of these OF women to get their tax payments (and that was an eye opener for me, I'll tell ya).

Plenty of women sell what men want.

So again...if they wanted to buy it, they could do so quite easily in the west.



And I do have sex slaves. I'm a BDSM Dom. Am I in asia....NOPE!

sex work is oftentimes oppressive and abusive unless you're self-employed, but even still, there is a difference, as sex work is a service


"sex slave" here doesn't refer to bdsm roleplay— because that's ultimately roleplay, built within a safe environment that seeks to guarantee the comfort of the people involved
or at least i'd hope so

here, it refers to human trafficking, to the buying of people essentially as a product

引用自 coolboyz2626：

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

nah buddy treating people as sex slaves is creepy

Visit r/Pattaya on Reddit, a real eye opener there.. sorry buddy, you need to expand your horizons.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Pattaya/new/

checked
none of this makes it less creepy to essentially buy sex slaves

引用自 Doctor Go-Go：

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

i have two girlfriends, each one has another two partners of their own
i've had experience with both monogamous and polyamorous relationships, as well as with open and closed relationships

and let me tell you
you have no clue what you're on about

Uh huh, which league and class are they? Some easy ghetto skanks? Guys don't want those kind of women. Are they two sickly looking chunkies as seen in the amateur adult films? Is that why you're here telling stories and making claims, is it because you're such a playboy you have the time to be here browsing through the off-topic forums? Yeah right, I sure do believe you. It's a cute story.

i don't know and i don't care what "class" they're in
they're really cool and interesting as people and i want them to be happy, which is reciprocated by them, and that's everything i care about

i could not give two ♥♥♥♥♥ about ranking
the only thing i care about is how healthy a relationship is for those involved, because the last thing i want is for them to be unhappy because of me

also, not a boy

[the vampire of time and memory]

引用自 mariachan：

引用自 Doctor Go-Go：

[...]

hopefully you can find someone who will love you for who you are, don't give up on your humanity (never give up!)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYzMYcUty6s

don't lose your way in your mind

[Uncle Sam]

引用自 mariachan：

引用自 Doctor Go-Go：

Go into detail. I guarantee you my previous posts will counter it, Some person could comment "Two plus two equals four" And I could respond with '"you're a very sad individual." SO what is your point, go into detail, counter all of it.

The truth always hurts, you like many others would like to believe real life to be just like every extraordinary work of fiction.

I've been discussing what top-shelf women are looking for in men and why the lower classes of females now have absurdly high standards because they believe they are something they're not.

People need to lower their expectations, be reasonable, realistic. KNOW females want a man with the assets and cash because they want children, a fancy house and more. Either a guy can provide that or he can't People are trying to mingle and date out of their league, they believe they're champions deserving an ALL-STAR. People need to lower their expectations, be reasonable, realistic.

Look ate Divorce rates, you'll see these divorced women EVERYWHERE here in the U.S. Divorced and single, now in their 30's thru 40's with 3 to 5 children and seeking a mate. We KNOW what she's after. She was TOO good for her former spouse therefore she's now looking for some other BETTER man to provide for and pay for those kids as well as her wants and needs. NO THANKS! :P

What I get from your messages is that you were never loved for who you are, you keep talking about "when I was lean, when I had such attribute" and now you don't have anyone, maybe you weren't all that either and didn't settle for someone who could love you, maybe you're speaking to yourself? I don't know, either way I'm not really involved in this conversation, after having read over 100 scholar level books on psychology, psychosexuality, etc, I'm unfortunately able to read through people and don't find what they have to say that interesting, hopefully you can find someone who will love you for who you are, don't give up on your humanity (never give up!)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYzMYcUty6s

Idk from which sector of the internet you are from (twitter, facebook, instagram, reddit, discord, etc) but you're in OT. "You picked the wrong house, fool!" lol
"Abandon all hope, ye who enter here."

[akiuara]

引用自 Ȼħⱥꞥꞥēł8753452：

引用自 nirvana：

It is easier to say that if I were born during my parents era where money doesn't matter, in today's world it is just a complete joke, I dunno what personality I should make up, be a nice guy or be a scumbag, Idk. whatever my fate takes me, I will accept it, russian roulette style, die alone or have a wife.

This message convinces me this entire thread was made to push a certain conservative ideas.

Just be you, build up your skills and network, your work will attract people.

No one owes you a relationship, women and men come together by eachothers sides, not beneath the others foot.

Don't try to impress people that will never respect you for who you are.

Ofc. no one owes me a relationship, it is conditional exactly what I expect.

[Doctor Go-Go]

引用自 mariachan：

引用自 Doctor Go-Go：

Go into detail. I guarantee you my previous posts will counter it, Some person could comment "Two plus two equals four" And I could respond with '"you're a very sad individual." SO what is your point, go into detail, counter all of it.

The truth always hurts, you like many others would like to believe real life to be just like every extraordinary work of fiction.

I've been discussing what top-shelf women are looking for in men and why the lower classes of females now have absurdly high standards because they believe they are something they're not.

People need to lower their expectations, be reasonable, realistic. KNOW females want a man with the assets and cash because they want children, a fancy house and more. Either a guy can provide that or he can't People are trying to mingle and date out of their league, they believe they're champions deserving an ALL-STAR. People need to lower their expectations, be reasonable, realistic.

Look ate Divorce rates, you'll see these divorced women EVERYWHERE here in the U.S. Divorced and single, now in their 30's thru 40's with 3 to 5 children and seeking a mate. We KNOW what she's after. She was TOO good for her former spouse therefore she's now looking for some other BETTER man to provide for and pay for those kids as well as her wants and needs. NO THANKS! :P

What I get from your messages is that you were never loved for who you are, you keep talking about "when I was lean, when I had such attribute" and now you don't have anyone, maybe you weren't all that either and didn't settle for someone who could love you, maybe you're speaking to yourself? I don't know, either way I'm not really involved in this conversation, after having read over 100 scholar level books on psychology, psychosexuality, etc, I'm unfortunately able to read through people and don't find what they have to say that interesting, hopefully you can find someone who will love you for who you are, don't give up on your humanity (never give up!)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYzMYcUty6s

Even though what you state seems like some cliche nonsense from a movie or social trend only a preteen, teen or yuppie would believe in.

It's a use or be used world, once we're no longer of use and the person or people decide we're not longer asset, we're no longer of use... that's when they decide to show their true colors and expend us. It's a cold, cruel and lonely world. People are loyal to their options, it's survival. It is a "Use or be used world"

[Doctor Go-Go]

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

引用自 The Maddog：

Oh please!


1 in 19 women in the west now is engaging in sex work of some sort or another.

If men wanted "sex slaves" they are not short of options in the west!


And please...don't pretend otherwise.

Not only am I involved in the Adult industry (and see what some women will do for a payday without a second thought) I also have a good friend who works for HMRC Tax office in the UK who, ironically enough, was part of a growing department to chase all of these OF women to get their tax payments (and that was an eye opener for me, I'll tell ya).

Plenty of women sell what men want.

So again...if they wanted to buy it, they could do so quite easily in the west.



And I do have sex slaves. I'm a BDSM Dom. Am I in asia....NOPE!

sex work is oftentimes oppressive and abusive unless you're self-employed, but even still, there is a difference, as sex work is a service


"sex slave" here doesn't refer to bdsm roleplay— because that's ultimately roleplay, built within a safe environment that seeks to guarantee the comfort of the people involved
or at least i'd hope so

here, it refers to human trafficking, to the buying of people essentially as a product

引用自 coolboyz2626：

Visit r/Pattaya on Reddit, a real eye opener there.. sorry buddy, you need to expand your horizons.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Pattaya/new/

checked
none of this makes it less creepy to essentially buy sex slaves

引用自 Doctor Go-Go：

Uh huh, which league and class are they? Some easy ghetto skanks? Guys don't want those kind of women. Are they two sickly looking chunkies as seen in the amateur adult films? Is that why you're here telling stories and making claims, is it because you're such a playboy you have the time to be here browsing through the off-topic forums? Yeah right, I sure do believe you. It's a cute story.

i don't know and i don't care what "class" they're in
they're really cool and interesting as people and i want them to be happy, which is reciprocated by them, and that's everything i care about

i could not give two ♥♥♥♥♥ about ranking
the only thing i care about is how healthy a relationship is for those involved, because the last thing i want is for them to be unhappy because of me

also, not a boy

Sure you don't care. Again... Uh huh, it's a cute story, thee adult themed fantasy I mean. ;)

[Not Big Surprise]

引用自 Doctor Go-Go：

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

sex work is oftentimes oppressive and abusive unless you're self-employed, but even still, there is a difference, as sex work is a service


"sex slave" here doesn't refer to bdsm roleplay— because that's ultimately roleplay, built within a safe environment that seeks to guarantee the comfort of the people involved
or at least i'd hope so

here, it refers to human trafficking, to the buying of people essentially as a product


checked
none of this makes it less creepy to essentially buy sex slaves


i don't know and i don't care what "class" they're in
they're really cool and interesting as people and i want them to be happy, which is reciprocated by them, and that's everything i care about

i could not give two ♥♥♥♥♥ about ranking
the only thing i care about is how healthy a relationship is for those involved, because the last thing i want is for them to be unhappy because of me

also, not a boy

Sure you don't care. Again... Uh huh, it's a cute story, thee adult themed fantasy I mean. ;)

is the concept of caring for your partners so foreign to you that you can only see it as a fantasy?

[SHREDDER]

i was 23 in 2011 when i met my first girl friend. We had relaiton ship until 2013. In 2024 after 12 years if found my next girlfiend that we have realtionship now since August.

[Average Cardboard Consumer /|\]

Nirva, have you got l a i d already!!!!!?????