Friendly Vs Flirting?

[BunnieBealla]

how do you know if a guy is flirting or just being nice?
uwu

[FafnirChaos]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย Netaris:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย FafnirChaos:

Friendly means no touching, flirty means touching. Like hair or something accidental.

Depending on the comfort of both parties.

If you don't know, and you like that person just be open, if it goes nowhere than you know.

Again depend on the person. I side more with mariachan on this one :

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย mariachan:

You look at how they treat you vs others, and how they carry themselves around you vs others

I mean what happens if their closetted, or don't get a long with other people - people go out there and be professional towards everybody and if their not professional towards you, and you take that advice, you just lost a person who thought of you as a friend.

[IGX]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย BunnieBealla:

how do you know if a guy is flirting or just being nice? uwu

Check to see if his tripod is up.

[salamander]

some men will visibly "try hard" to make a woman laugh, to me this is being the number one indicator of flirtation. many women value humour, and many men are willing to act silly and playful in an attempt to impress women.

[FafnirChaos]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย mariachan:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย FafnirChaos:

I mean what happens if their closetted, or don't get a long with other people - people go out there and be professional towards everybody and if their not professional towards you, and you take that advice, you just lost a person who thought of you as a friend.

I don't know usually it's not hard to tell personally I don't overthink these situations, when I like someone I make it clear, I compliment the person I'm interested in mid sentence with something such as "I like your eyes" and if it's reciprocated the conversation evolves.

Nothing wrong with that, and I agree don't over complicate stuff.

Simple situation is - Be professional if you don't like them, just let them know in a professional matter.

- if you do like them just be open to everything.

There is nothing worse than mixing up those two things - than your a tease, or your crazy.

OP situation was about friendly vs flirty - they obviously don't know that person, otherwise the question would never been asked.

[Uncle Sam]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย BunnieBealla:

Friendly Vs Flirting?
how do you know if a guy is flirting or just being nice?
uwu

Well if he sees you and treats you like a sister or acquaintance, he's friendly. If he tries to make you laugh often or be more direct about how he views you in a romantic manner (depends in the person, some might also be shy like you OP, etc), he's flirty.

Anyhow when in doubt just ask him directly, don't beat around the bush. Honesty is a good policy, also as a bonus neither of you will waste time thinking about "what if?" scenarios.

[󠀡󠀡󠀡󠀡⁧⁧Kei]

if he starts flirting with you then he's just the stereotypical lonely internet man wanting attention

[BunnieBealla]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย 󠀡󠀡󠀡󠀡⁧⁧Kei:

if he starts flirting with you then he's just the stereotypical lonely internet man wanting attention

and if he's not on the internet? uwu

[󠀡󠀡󠀡󠀡⁧⁧Kei]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย BunnieBealla:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย 󠀡󠀡󠀡󠀡⁧⁧Kei:

if he starts flirting with you then he's just the stereotypical lonely internet man wanting attention

and if he's not on the internet? uwu

not really any different IRL, already have someone and wouldn't want some sad pathetic guy hitting on me

[Jazz]

well pay attention to how he treats other people. if he's extra nice to you compared to others, chances are he's into you ;)

[FafnirChaos]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย 󠀡󠀡󠀡󠀡⁧⁧Kei:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย BunnieBealla:

and if he's not on the internet? uwu

not really any different IRL, already have someone and wouldn't want some sad pathetic guy hitting on me

There is nothig worse than women, giving other women advice about men.

The man you end up with, will end up with another man in bed, when you come home one day.

[the vampire of time and memory]

to me flirting is all about feeling each other out and building up confidence that you'll be successful in asking them out, so you hover around the boundary of what is and isn't appropriate to say to a friend

[FafnirChaos]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย mariachan:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย FafnirChaos:

The man you end up with, will end up with another man in bed, when you come home one day.

Wait what?

Yes, they'll cheat on them beause their secretly gay.

You ask a guy about advice about a guy, they'll tell you what they like.

You ask a girl about advice about a guy, they'll tell you what they like.

[the vampire of time and memory]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย FafnirChaos:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย mariachan:

Wait what?

Yes, they'll cheat on them beause their secretly gay.

You ask a guy about advice about a guy, they'll tell you what they like.

You ask a girl about advice about a guy, they'll tell you what they like.

man sets kitchen on fire, asked to never cook again

[FafnirChaos]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย the vampire of time and memory:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย FafnirChaos:

Yes, they'll cheat on them beause their secretly gay.

You ask a guy about advice about a guy, they'll tell you what they like.

You ask a girl about advice about a guy, they'll tell you what they like.

man sets kitchen on fire, asked to never cook again

Yes, if I burnt down my kitchen trying to cook, I'd take it outside by water.

Last thing you want to do is replace the room in the house twice.

[FafnirChaos]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย mariachan:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย FafnirChaos:

Yes, they'll cheat on them beause their secretly gay.

You ask a guy about advice about a guy, they'll tell you what they like.

You ask a girl about advice about a guy, they'll tell you what they like.

Lmao I assume this is satire

You can ask a plumber on how to paint your walls, but all he'll tell you is what he see's, because that's not his profession.