Girlfriend Problems

[bubmet #7]

hi. my girlfriend randomly became heartless yesterday. me and her hung out at her place yesterday for about 4 hours, held hands, kissed, hugged, told eachother we loved one another, the whole thing. and now shes randomly rude to me. she broke up with me with the "wanna see a magic trick? poof, youre single" line. shes normally a sweet girl. she watches nick jr. on a daily basis, and hardly watches stuff with foul language or violence. what do i do? weve broken up a whopping 10 times (not counting this one) and ive fought so hard for her. i still love her, A LOT, but dont know if i want to try again or not. shes threatened to block me on everything several times, and im really scared she will. its making me super sad and angry at the same time. she said she loved me one minute, the next she broke up with me... please help me

[bubmet #7]

i know this isnt normal steam content, just dont know where else to go. yall are un-biased and very smart people

[123123123]

Well women are weird sometimes. Most likely she's pissed about something, thinking that you cheated on her or something like that. Might be something completly random tho because, that's just the way they are.

[TwoTimingTim]

honestly it sounds to me like shes found someone else... bro take it from me... this has happened to me once or twice... move on ... i know its not what you want to hear but this is going to drag out into something more heartbreaking if it continues... you obviously are not gonna marry this girl if you broke up 10 times... its time to find someone better for you cause this is not fair to you... sorry brother... much love!

[bubmet #7]

well, she wont talk to me. i know girls are strange but i just have no idea why this is occuring. shes not just being rude to me, but to everyone. ALL my firends say shes being mean to them too.

Hysterisk penna (GM)님이 먼저 게시:

Well women are weird sometimes. Most likely she's pissed about something, thinking that you cheated on her or something like that. Might be something completly random tho because, that's just the way they are.

[Jerry San]

heres some really good advice im guessing youre a tween or teen but either way just give up i used to chase after a girl like that and its not worth it she just likes to tease you and wants attention. Although if you do still want to date her just be chill dont be desperate let her come back to you.

[bubmet #7]

thanks! this helps a lot! but, do you have any advice on how to go about breaking to her i dont want to be friends? everytime we tried we got back together

TwoTimingTim님이 먼저 게시:

honestly it sounds to me like shes found someone else... bro take it from me... this has happened to me once or twice... move on ... i know its not what you want to hear but this is going to drag out into something more heartbreaking if it continues... you obviously are not gonna marry this girl if you broke up 10 times... its time to find someone better for you cause this is not fair to you... sorry brother... much love!

[bnuuy]

Why didn't you stop dating her the third time?

[bubmet #7]

she will, i promise. and yeah, 14 im 15 in a few days (march 12!!) and i dont want her to

Pixel Lover님이 먼저 게시:

heres some really good advice im guessing youre a tween or teen but either way just give up i used to chase after a girl like that and its not worth it she just likes to tease you and wants attention. Although if you do still want to date her just be chill dont be desperate let her come back to you.

[bubmet #7]

because i love her, so much i couldnt take it being without her.

Red님이 먼저 게시:

Why didn't you stop dating her the third time?

[Jerry San]

wait question did she dump you all ten times or sometimes you dumped her?

[bubmet #7]

i dumped her about 4 of those times, because of private reasons (things about her that we later fixed, mental states she was in)

Pixel Lover님이 먼저 게시:

wait question did she dump you all ten times or sometimes you dumped her?

[TwoTimingTim]

just tell her straight that you still have feelings for her but you can not continue a relationship on any level cause you have those feelings and being friends would only complicate any future relationship with another girl

[Jerry San]

becoming friends with ex's is a horrible idea

[bubmet #7]

wow, thats perfect! mind if i directly quote you? haha, thats just what i needed but would still accept futher advice from anybody in case this doesnt work... and i dont see hope in a future relationship for awhile. shes my first true love, im quite young

TwoTimingTim님이 먼저 게시:

just tell her straight that you still have feelings for her but you can not continue a relationship on any level cause you have those feelings and being friends would only complicate any future relationship with another girl

[bubmet #7]

yes, indeed it is... but she got me a birthday present. i might let her come to my party so i can have it, because i dont want it to be a waste of money, ya know?

Pixel Lover님이 먼저 게시:

becoming friends with ex's is a horrible idea