tired of being fatshamed

[Emi_Luna]

just forget this post i dont wanna deal with it anymore

[Panazois λ]

引用自 失恋した：

引用自 MinionJoe：

Why do you let it affect you?

because its my own dad doing it when it was other people yes it upset me but it didnt make me burst into tears

Wow. Then your dad seems to be an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ and abusive. I have a father kind of similar but I guess mine kind of cares in his own way and he helps out as best as he can. All the more reason to lose weight. If he is fatshaming you, just to get you the "motivation" to lose weight, that's the wrong way to do it. My sister got very fat, about 66 kg and 1.61 meters in height, while it's not extreme it's overweight. My dad took her to a nutritionist so she can lose weight. That's what a father should do, not call their kid fat and expect them to get motivation to lose weight. It's the wrong and cruel way.

[Hanomaly]

引用自 • 12 •：

This.
I'm not hoping onto the trend conformity; if you're overweight then you've done that to yourself to be called those names. It shows that you're self-aware when you realise why people are calling you a tub of lard. It shows that you're a highly-dependable individual who has let go of themselves and it's more the reason why people who are like that who don't give you the same default amount of respect like they would for other people.

I'm hoping OP is out here to change for the better regardless of his complaints about being "fat shamed", I've course you're going to be shamed, but that's why OP has brought it up: He wants to change.

I'm not going to lie to OP and tell him that "everything is alright" with being obese, no, I'm going to try and help him and give him some serious advice that helped me when I was once suffering from anorexia; living in such a way isn't a healthy lifestyle to promote and nor am I going to tolerate such a narrative of delusional ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ e.g "fat shaming".

I hope OP does what he needs to do to get out of the gutter and I wish him luck, not sweet lies & sympathy kisses because that's not going to help him.

You either are a troll or not very aware of life.

So you think a 6 year old child who's obese is "at fault"?
You think it's their fault their parents overfed them, never taught them good eating habits?
What about a 10 year old? Who has no ability to buy their own food. Is in very little control of what their family eats... and might even get *punished* for not eating everything on their plate?
What about a 13 year old? 15 year old?

Should they run away from home, live on the streets?

Give me a break.

At best you could say "Once you are 18 and out of your parents house - maybe MAYBE its your responsibility to take a handle on your weight".

But even then, if your parents gave you *negative tools* on portion size, healthy eating habits, healthy exercise habits, you're pretty screwed and are starting from scratch... you might be morbidly obese by the time you're 10 and way behind through no fault of your own.

The OP talks about their father fat shaming them - so could very well be a minor. How crappy of you to talk that way potentially to a kid who's life you have *no idea* about. You don't know what they've been through, what their home environment is.

My grandmother used to over feed us, hit us if we didn't clear our plates. While at the same time shaming us for being chubby. But she decided what we eat. She punished us for not finishing food. She did NOT buy healthy snacks. Yet she teased us kids under her care for being chubby. We were not obese, but certainly we couldn't "diet" if we wanted to. She gave us NO healthy eating tools.

Bleh. Some of you all really need to grow some compassion. Or perhaps you had crappy parents yourself that never gave you tools to show compassion to other humans.. so you're also working with a weaker hand in life. Maybe you are okay with how you eat, but are lacking in caring for your fellow human.

[the vampire of time and memory]

引用自 Irene ❤：

It is not about the others at all.

It is you who cannot accept yourself. If you are happy with what you are, you won't feel a thing.

being bullied by their own father isn't really a "them problem"

引用自 • 12 •：

This.
I'm not hoping onto the trend conformity; if you're overweight then you've done that to yourself to be called those names. It shows that you're self-aware when you realise why people are calling you a tub of lard. It shows that you're a highly-dependable individual who has let go of themselves and it's more the reason why people who are like that who don't give you the same default amount of respect like they would for other people.

I'm hoping OP is out here to change for the better regardless of his complaints about being "fat shamed", I've course you're going to be shamed, but that's why OP has brought it up: He wants to change.

I'm not going to lie to OP and tell him that "everything is alright" with being obese, no, I'm going to try and help him and give him some serious advice that helped me when I was once suffering from anorexia; living in such a way isn't a healthy lifestyle to promote and nor am I going to tolerate such a narrative of delusional ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ e.g "fat shaming".

I hope OP does what he needs to do to get out of the gutter and I wish him luck, not sweet lies & sympathy kisses because that's not going to help him.

being overweight does not at all warrant bullying, asshat

someone's weight is not at all anyone's business, whatever you think is healthy or not, nothing warrants being a ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥, especially not to people you're supposed to be close to

when will you ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ realise it's not about "acceptance" but like, just not being a giant ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ who kicks people when they're down?

[Fire Angel]

Why is it not anyones business? Me make much more meaningless health things become mandated, enforced and ostracize those that don't comply.

[the vampire of time and memory]

引用自 ℍ𝕌ℕ✞ℝ𝔼𝕊𝕊：

Why is it not anyones business? Me make much more meaningless health things become mandated, enforced and ostracize those that don't comply.

do tell

[Out Of Bubblegum]

引用自 失恋した：

just forget this post i dont wanna deal with it anymore

There is a way to ask support to delete this thread. I can't say how 'cause I don't know.

[76561198315424152]

引用自 失恋した：

引用自 Messy：

Try working out

i have been trying but cant rn because i hurt my ankle so theres nothing i can do till it heals

Curls, situps, other core exercises, pushups on the knees, watching fun sports for inspiration of things to do, making a good meal, clean the house, etc etc.. lots of activities you can do if you want...

[Walach]

The Japanese culture can be rather... blunt.
Now you might not be from there but in the end, if no one helps then you can only do it yourself.

Many years ago I lost like 20kg in 2 months because I stopped eating every other day, I just had a sandwich over one day and the other day I ate like half my normal meal. Pure agony but my weight after that was only 66 kg.

But I still had a beer belly, that's because I didn't work out or lose weight in a healthy way, I lost a lot of muscle from that really.
Don't do what I did, try working out, even a little. Never do everything at once, don't eat less, start running, wake up earlier etc all in one go, do one thing then another one a couple of months or even years later.

Good luck! :)

[tamas.]

引用自 失恋した：

引用自 Messy：

Try working out

i have been trying but cant rn because i hurt my ankle so theres nothing i can do till it heals

You can focus on your upper body with exercises that do not require your ankle to be stressed in the process. Sit-ups, Pull-ups, Weight-lifting while sitting, etc.

[Prismisho]

Fat gang rise!

[BubbaTheFedoraWearingNeckBeard]

引用自 Out Of Bubblegum：

引用自 失恋した：

just forget this post i dont wanna deal with it anymore

There is a way to ask support to delete this thread. I can't say how 'cause I don't know.

Well considering that there is a way that’s good because no one wants to see someone crying because he’s “fat” honestly OP seems like he’s looking for attention. If you’re fat and unhealthy well news flash that’s a personal problem it’s not someone’s fault that you’re fat it’s something that YOU done to YOURSELF. I’ll say this again out in the real world most people could care less if your feelings are hurt because in reality most human beings do whatever they want and if people mock fat people then they are gonna mock fat people that’s how it works. Don’t like it oh well ether ignore them or grow your ass up.

[Devsman]

引用自 blackedz26：

引用自 Devsman：

Fat shamers say they're doing the world and their targets a favor, but the truth is we're just running out of groups that it's socially acceptable to hate.

It's acceptable to hate anyone, anything or whatever you want. It's called being human. "Socially acceptable" is a sheep thing.

I can recognize an argument that's going to go nowhere, so this post actually has nothing to do with what you said.

I just wanted to point out that literally every time I see your avatar, I think it's Link from Legend of Zelda for a second before I realize it's a T-Rex. The tail is the sword, and that one arm over on the left is the tip of his hat drooping down.

Probably just that Steam scales it down so much to fit my phone's resolution.

[Terron]

If you don't wanna be fatshamed, loose weight, plain and simple.

Being fat is not just unattractive, but also unhealthy.

I sure as hell dont want people in my life who die of diabetes on me.

You dont even have to go to the gym, just walk a at least 1 hour every day and eat less and healthier.

[Nomad]

引用自 Rabenfürst：

Being fat is not just unattractive, but also unhealthy

First point is subjective, second point is plain false. People saying being fat is unhealthy are just plain wrong. It's possible to be extremely fat and extremely healthy at the same time. Look at sumo wrestlers, they are pro athletes and have the fitness of pro athletes.

[saranacX]

引用自 TRASH：

引用自 Rabenfürst：

Being fat is not just unattractive, but also unhealthy

First point is subjective, second point is plain false. People saying being fat is unhealthy are just plain wrong. It's possible to be extremely fat and extremely healthy at the same time. Look at sumo wrestlers, they are pro athletes and have the fitness of pro athletes.

Fit is not the same as healthy.