Assertive or Obedient?

[BunniBealla]

are you a leader or a follower?
uwu

[Phénomènes Mystiques]

Postat inițial de FrostyBunniBealla:

Assertive or Obedient? are you a leader or a follower?
uwu

All depends if this is a cult or not in which we are speaking about.

[ZZZZZ]

Im not a group person

[Crystal Sharrd]

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Postat inițial de Lime:

Is there a third option?

<Leaves the presence of other people in the group when they're not looking>

So flighty?

[NW/RL]

Postat inițial de L1qu1dator:

Neither.

Obedient it seems

[Uncle Sam]

Postat inițial de Crystal Sharrd:

Postat inițial de Morkonan:

<Leaves the presence of other people in the group when they're not looking>

So flighty?

Fearful Avoidant Attachment perhaps ?

[Lime]

Which one is sluttier?

[BunniBealla]

Postat inițial de Lime:

Which one is sluttier?

I'd say Obedient uwu

[ℭycaleo]

Assertive cause of tango

[Not Big Surprise]

depends on how we're feeling, though oftentimes i take on the leading role because all my friends are bottoms

[the vampire of time and memory]

Postat inițial de Not Big Surprise:

depends on how we're feeling, though oftentimes i take on the leading role because all my friends are bottoms

what does that have to do with being a leader or follower 😭

[noob_boi543]

I lead when I know what I am doing

[Z i o ⚡]

Postat inițial de noob_boi543:

I lead when I know what I am doing

Same. The more I know, the more I lead.

[Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...]

Postat inițial de the vampire of time and memory:

Postat inițial de Not Big Surprise:

depends on how we're feeling, though oftentimes i take on the leading role because all my friends are bottoms

what does that have to do with being a leader or follower 😭

yeah, if they were in a race they'd be in 2nd place!

[Lime]

Postat inițial de FrostyBunniBealla:

Postat inițial de Lime:

Which one is sluttier?

I'd say Obedient uwu

i'll take 3

[De Hollandse Ezel]

I would say : outcast.

while I enjoy just sitting back and enjoy the embrace of everything going as it always goes....
I am waay to much a thinker and critical to accept wrong things.. and to accept chance (which mostly is for the worse)..

but I generally lack the charisma to gather others to follow.. the only times I get power it is by sheer ability and by rank.. aka slamming down degrees.. and pulling rank (meaning I effectively only rule cause somebody higher up backs me up)
which would make me more a vassal or adviser to a leader than the leader..

so the end result is.. I often just go my own solo way.. not part of the herd of sheeple.. but also not having my own followers... often finding myself clasing with both sides of the debate..
basicly I am excommunicated by both sides for actually thinking and pointing out points..

example.. I have not taken the covidshot and opposed the polices done in those years...
which made me labled by those who do support that mainstream stuff an "antivaxer" and "nutjob" and whatnot..
but I also support vaccination when done right.. find the idea that vaccins cause autism or such utterly insane.. and when people talk depoopulation with vaccin shots.. well I am ready to put them in a straightjacked and send them to a mental asylum..
those wackjobs ofcourse call me "a slave of the mainstream media..

another example..
-I fully agree with that usa has with policies caused the rise of putin..
-I also agree that it is provocation to even TALK of ukraine in nato..
-I also am of the opinion that my nation should never have joined the boycot of russia nor get involved in that whole conflict
-that I can recognise why russia geopolitical and strategical do not want to lose a warmwaterport or have its borders become geograficly undefensable.. (with ukraine more distance and mountains and rivers much better and shorter borders to defend)
**this makes me framed by many "brainwashed by russian propaganda"

but when I than also state that
-my not wanting to support ukraine is pure self interest
-putin and russia still are scumbags
-putin murders and robs and came to power by bombing his own people
-russian troops perform genocide and murder
-russia falsefies election outcomes
etc etc..
**well that makes me framed "brainwashed by western propaganda" by russians

even in my faith..
-> I am a supporter of adult baptism not child.. (this alienates me from churches that do child baptism like my own who disqualify me from many positions for this believe alone.. basicly I am semi-shunned for this
BUT
-> I do recognise child baptisms as valid.. and that rebaptising is unneccecairy.. I reject the DOING child baptisms.. i do not see them as invalid.. my theology here is different..
**and that will mean most of tHOSE churches shun me too..

basicly a lot of situations in life are extreme side a extreme side b.. and here I come.. and I not go center..no.. I look and cherrypick from both extreme sides.. and they all are like ehh but they come as a package.. and I am why? that seems highly irrational..

this already started as a toddler when my teacher tried learning me to write cyphers..
and I was stubbornly writing 3 as E.. and she was like.. why?
basicly it was me rebelling... and she not quite got it.. kept wondering why I kept doing it wrong.. until a smarter teacher had a talk with me..

basicly I was like.. why do we use THESE symbols for the idea of a certain number.. why not different ones..
in what way are these cyfer symbols the best objectively.. as in ease to write.. eae to even if written sloppy not mistaken for another one.. and why base 10.. not base anything else??

as a toddler my rebelling against social conventions already went that far.
yes I hate change and call myself a conservatist.. but i also must see logic in why things go as they go.. and just "cause they are always done that way" aint flying with me..

if all of society drives right and i with logic think driving left is objectively better.. I will drive left and stick the finger to the man and society.. who not get me why I do that;)

I not expect society to all adapt to me.. but I do expect society to adapt things that are better.. and to deny all change that NOT lead to something better..

the fact human society is so often highly illogical.. is saddening.
I was actually quite good as sports.. still always picked last.. I made high grades still picked last as project mate in school.,
made no sence to me.. you want to win don't you? and you want a high grade don't you?
the logical move is to pick the best players.. to win. and to pick the smartest students to get the best grade yourself.. strong teaming up with strong.. weak with weak..
but sadly people often pick rather on who they like/populatiry that shear capability.. which is idiotic..

and even as adults they do this.. picking products.. and voting for candidates not cause they do what they want.. heck rarely they even know the actual policies that person stands for.. but cause of popularity/media apearance..