Why is it ok to be a tomboy but NOT ok to be a femboy?

[Tazor]

Why?

Some man around here is currently getting flak for going to work wearing a dress. It's been all over the news. Said he doesn't even work with the public, just works in an office.

Meanwhile, I had a female teacher back in high school who always came to work wearing a man's suit.

So man wearing dress in an office is NOT ok. Woman wearing suit in front of underage children is ok. Why?

[Midnight Sky ✨🌙✨]

Escrito originalmente por RJS:

I'll get myself banned if I keep going.

Ugh, and here I was captivated by your storytelling only to be left with a cliffhanger with no hope of a sequel.

[Othobrithol]

You know what they say about 'manly' men that like to bully effeminate men...

[Xero_Daxter]

As a femboy I can assure you that I am fully clothed. I do not wear sexually suggestive outfits in public; not even in anime conventions. All the stuff that you see (if you know me) is behind closed doors.

[ulia]

Escrito originalmente por Siluva:

Why would I? You all are friends and follow the cognitive bias your friend started, so any attemps of denying anything would be instantly deflected.
All I see is a bunch of pedos supporting eachothers who tries to depict themselves as the good guys while trying to frame someone else. So do what you always do, call you friends and abuse the report system, I know everything I need to know. :selphinehappy:

Not really. You are being dogpiled by some, expectedly so, for quadrupling down on your deflections, having questionable to say the least content on your profile and for straight up accusing forum users of being active child abusers for nothing more than hypothetical forum discussion.

I am not friends with anyone here. I opened up with a question giving you room to explain yourself, to which you doubled down with "men in skirts!" even though I haven't taken any stance in favor of said notion, or even mentioned it at all.

If you truly care about the safety of children then now is your chance to prove it by addressing your own faults first. Pointing fingers and throwing out accusations falls on deaf ears as concern trolling when you're a perpetrator of what you're supposedly trying to fight yourself.

[Faiyez]

I think males have a lot more freedom than females when it comes to choice of comfortable attire that is deemed socially acceptable in each given circumstance.

So honestly it puzzles me that a guy will choose to wear a skirt.

In Latin America women are still expected to wear heels in many work environments.

I'm sorry if this is deemed antiquated or sexist, but it's easier to judge a man to be some kind of pervert or a fetishist, while a woman isn't going to get that kind of prejudice for just wearing slacks.

[DOOMGIRL69]

Escrito originalmente por ArmyHound:

The answer (the only answer) "masculinity matters".

agreed it does but so does the opposite if a guy doesn't feel masculine, why force him to act that way. when clearly it doesn't matter if he is or not, he can choose same as everyone what too wear as long as it is appropriate attire skirts and dresses included.

if they are not revealing i see no problem personally, i only see people unwilling to accept others beliefs and ways of life. not saying that this applies to you either army hound i just wanted to point out that while being and feeling masculine is indeed important then so is the opposite as well.

[DOOMGIRL69]

Escrito originalmente por Tom Macdonald:

a tomboy is a character trait in women.
a femboy doesn't exist.
the women that are tomboys don't strap things between their legs to pretend they are a man.

a femboy does exist they also aren't pretending to be a female the clue is in the term fem-boy they still identify as a male, meaning no matter how they act they are still male even tho they may not be seen as such by you. what your talking about is being trans which trust me women do in fact stick things between their legs in order to help them feel more appropriate and aligned with the male look whilst transitioning from female to male which is also acceptable. so i dont get your point here really?

[aqua star]

Because society? Honestly I don't know, if a man wants to dress as woman idc. As long as there being decent human beings then all is good.

[DOOMGIRL69]

Escrito originalmente por aqua star:

Because society? Honestly I don't know if a man wants to dress as woman idc. As long as there being decent human beings then all is good.

[Hasdrubal Barca]

where are the femboys at

[Swarmfly]

Because the latter is just a fad started by weird people.

[Not Big Surprise]

Escrito originalmente por Swarmfly:

Because the latter is just a fad started by weird people.

a fad that's existed for millennia

[NW/RL]

It's a double standard, one where no one cares when women do something. A female teacher could molest a male student and you'll have weirdos saying ♥♥♥♥ like "ahh you got lucky kid", or " I wish that was me", but if a male teacher did the same then there'd be calls for a public lynching.

[Xero_Daxter]

The thing with me is I don’t pretend to be a female. I’m not trying to trick someone. I let you know from the getgo.

[Not Big Surprise]

Escrito originalmente por Xero_Daxter:

The thing with me is I don’t pretend to be a female. I’m not trying to trick someone. I let you know from the getgo.

i don't think anyone does that

that was hyperbole, i know that with 8bil people on the planet there's bound to be someone who does, but, you know what i mean