Modern Dating, what is it exactly men who aren't 8+ supposed to do? (Venting)

[KingAce]

Below average middle age guy... am I just meant to go die in a ditch? Tinder is a meat market for hook ups for the good looking, Legit dating sites are full of bots and only fans thots... so... what exactly am I supposed to do? hope I live long enough to see Blade runner and Joi become reality? super exciting I may one day get to buy a super expensive hologram that will tell me what I want to hear... Society really ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up. I hate this.

[Tonepoet]

If you're under eight years old, then you shouldn't be dating, little boy.

[Obelisk]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a1Kfib0NpmQ

It's cheaper for a man to be single. It's cheaper for a woman to be in a relationship.

[Not Big Surprise]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย Tywin:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a1Kfib0NpmQ

It's cheaper for a man to be single. It's cheaper for a woman to be in a relationship.

women aren't stuff :/

[Obelisk]

Accept that you probably won't find a decent woman in a Western country

[Bernard The Gurnard]

Plenty of women in the west. The thing is you are just stuck on stereotypes not one of you wimps are willing to admit to.

As this thread has been liberated. OP stop whining and do what your hormones are telling you.

I don't know if this is a country related thing these days but just man-up - you know - a woman may actually like it...

Too much dopey angst seems to fuel this attitude...

[Evil Masses]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย Channel_191:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย XKingBaneX:

Below average middle age guy... am I just meant to go die in a ditch? Tinder is a meat market for hook ups for the good looking, Legit dating sites are full of bots and only fans thots... so... what exactly am I supposed to do? hope I live long enough to see Blade runner and Joi become reality? super exciting I may one day get to buy a super expensive hologram that will tell me what I want to hear... Society really ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up. I hate this.

The dating pool has been altered. Some of it is for reasons i won't get into.

But basically the dating pool has widened, however most of it is merely an illusion. People don't know or understand that, so this stops them from feeling content.

Everything we see online is shortened, edited and emphasized, so this really helps build this grand illusion that people subconsciously have.

Yeah maybe leave that abusive pos, but when is anything "good enough"? To many that answer doesn't exist.

Traditionally women are the choosers, men go to them to impress them in some manor. But when you add this new element things become much harder and before you know it both men and women have subconsciously shrunk this supposed massive dating pool. Due to overinflating expectations for the other to perform that aren't remotely realistic.

At least you've learned to stop saying racist and homophobic things and verbally abusing others.

[Obelisk]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย Bernard The Gurnard:

Plenty of women in the west. The thing is you are just stuck on stereotypes not one of you wimps are willing to admit to.

As this thread has been liberated. OP stop whining and do what your hormones are telling you.

I don't know if this is a country related thing these days but just man-up - you know - a woman may actually like it...

Too much dopey angst seems to fuel this attitude...

I think you underestimate the impact of social media and Gen Z. This generation has straight up problems.

[Obelisk]

Modern society has strayed too far from being functional social human beings.

[Bernard The Gurnard]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย Liberty Prime:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย Bernard The Gurnard:

Plenty of women in the west. The thing is you are just stuck on stereotypes not one of you wimps are willing to admit to.

As this thread has been liberated. OP stop whining and do what your hormones are telling you.

I don't know if this is a country related thing these days but just man-up - you know - a woman may actually like it...

Too much dopey angst seems to fuel this attitude...

I think you underestimate the impact of social media and Gen Z. This generation has straight up problems.

I'm sure you are correct.

That is why I made my post. People make issues out of nothing these days because it's expected of them and is the modern way. Always have something to whine about.

My solution is they don't add to the trend and actually start thinking and behaving for themselves...

[Zero]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย Liberty Prime:

Modern society has strayed too far from being functional social human beings.

Gen Z. Communist detected on American soil.

[Arvaos]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย Liberty Prime:

Modern society has strayed too far from being functional social human beings.

A lot of these men aren't prepared to venture to a local nightclub, let alone to venture to the global South.

[↑↑↓↓←→←→BASelect]

Get up out of the chair take a shoe horn and pry the mouse out of your hand. Go to the door that leads to the outside of your house turn the knob open it and walk outside and go to a club or a social gathering place and go up to a woman introduce yourself and ask them if you can buy them a drink of their choice, use your real name not your steam name. If it don't work out go up to another woman. It's not that hard.

[Obelisk]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย SnakeFist:

Get up out of the chair take a shoe horn and pry the mouse out of your hand. Go to the door that leads to the outside of your house turn the knob open it and walk outside and go to a club or a social gathering place and go up to a woman introduce yourself and ask them if you can buy them a drink of their choice, use your real name not your steam name. If it don't work out go up to another woman. It's not that hard.

Works better if you're charismatic

[↑↑↓↓←→←→BASelect]

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย Liberty Prime:

โพสต์ดั้งเดิมโดย SnakeFist:

Get up out of the chair take a shoe horn and pry the mouse out of your hand. Go to the door that leads to the outside of your house turn the knob open it and walk outside and go to a club or a social gathering place and go up to a woman introduce yourself and ask them if you can buy them a drink of their choice, use your real name not your steam name. If it don't work out go up to another woman. It's not that hard.

Works better if you're charismatic

No it don't. it helps but not needed at all.

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might as well as give up op