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Modern Dating, what is it exactly men who aren't 8+ supposed to do? (Venting)
Below average middle age guy... am I just meant to go die in a ditch? Tinder is a meat market for hook ups for the good looking, Legit dating sites are full of bots and only fans thots... so... what exactly am I supposed to do? hope I live long enough to see Blade runner and Joi become reality? super exciting I may one day get to buy a super expensive hologram that will tell me what I want to hear... Society really ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up. I hate this.
Ultima modifica da KingAce; 14 ago 2024, ore 3:24
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op you're still at it and you changed your profile to something depressing and cringe. you're actively letting depression define your identity and engaging in digital self harm rn.

please reach out to someone and seek therapy.
Messaggio originale di Noone:
Messaggio originale di MD:
What does the 8 imply? I'm confused. 8/10? That seems so sad that people are rating themselves

yeah looks rating, 8/10. for context I'm a whopping 3/10

That gives no context at all, as there is no non-arbitrary scale or units. (Doctors and their BS pain scale get a pass, but only because they wear lab coats.[xkcd.com])

Messaggio originale di !X_Jolly_Cooperation_X!:
35+ and still trying to date modern women, who value looks and hook-ups more than anything else? Damn dude, talk about doing things the hard way. My advice, get right with Christ. Have him as your savoir and go to church. And if you keep going to church, and if you try to fix up your diet and lift weights a little, you might find a nice gal there.

No. Cultivate virtue.


We ought to observe also that even the things which follow after the things which are produced according to nature contain something pleasing and attractive. For instance, when bread is baked some parts are split at the surface, and these parts which thus open, and have a certain fashion contrary to the purpose of the baker's art, are beautiful in a manner, and in a peculiar way excite a desire for eating. And again, figs, when they are quite ripe, gape open; and in the ripe olives the very circumstance of their being near to rottenness adds a peculiar beauty to the fruit. And the ears of corn bending down, and the lion's eyebrows, and the foam which flows from the mouth of wild boars, and many other things- though they are far from being beautiful, if a man should examine them severally- still, because they are consequent upon the things which are formed by nature, help to adorn them, and they please the mind; so that if a man should have a feeling and deeper insight with respect to the things which are produced in the universe, there is hardly one of those which follow by way of consequence which will not seem to him to be in a manner disposed so as to give pleasure. And so he will see even the real gaping jaws of wild beasts with no less pleasure than those which painters and sculptors show by imitation; and in an old woman and an old man he will be able to see a certain maturity and comeliness; and the attractive loveliness of young persons he will be able to look on with chaste eyes; and many such things will present themselves, not pleasing to every man, but to him only who has become truly familiar with nature and her works.
Ultima modifica da Electric Cupcake; 16 ago 2024, ore 5:03
Buy a shirt that says "I'm very vulnerable right now if any goth girls would like to take advantage of me"
All i know is personality goes way farther than looks.
Messaggio originale di Abyss:
Go outside and meet someone
Thanks. Now I have 12 restraining orders.
At this point you might have to settle for a femboy. It's over.
"what is it exactly men who aren't 8+ supposed to do?"

They are supposed to be focused on self-improvement and virtues: working out, studying, perfecting their professional skills, enjoying life.


Messaggio originale di Noone:
Below average middle age guy... am I just meant to go die in a ditch?

What is "below average" by your standards?

All people die alone.


Messaggio originale di Noone:
Tinder is a meat market for hook ups for the good looking, Legit dating sites are full of bots and only fans thots... so... what exactly am I supposed to do?

Darting websites are not eligible for dating and relationships. They are dumpsters. Looking for a relationship on a dating website is like looking for food in a dumpster. Avoid.

As for what you're supposed to do, you are supposed to pursue your goals in life and improve your quality of life.

Messaggio originale di Noone:
super exciting I may one day get to buy a super expensive hologram that will tell me what I want to hear...

Or you can just do the right things for yourself without having to take cue from others, let alone a hologram.

Messaggio originale di Noone:
Society really ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up.

It is. So don't waste time lamenting about your inability to meet the society's expectations. Flip the society off and focus on your goals and hobbies.

Messaggio originale di Noone:
I hate this.

Hatred is a huge waste of valuable energy that could be invested into improvement of your life. You obviously lack dedications and hobbies, which is why such silly and meaningless matters as dating corrupt your peace of mind.
Messaggio originale di Noone:
Below Avg, 3/10.

Who told you that and what are the standards for this rating?

Messaggio originale di Noone:
what makes me special is i get to live 35-80 years alone as well.

That is very many years to enjoy life. You are talking about solitude like it's a bad thing. Peace and quiet are a luxury in the 21st century.

Messaggio originale di Noone:
know what else is a dumpster cold approaching to hear I have a bf all the time.

You're not supposed to cold approach anyone. That will destroy your self esteem and cause emotional traumas.

Instead, get your life together. Find hobbies and avocations. Once your life becomes fun and exciting, you will have a lot of people approaching you and trying to become a part of it. But by that point, you will have realised that those people have nothing to offer, other than emotional baggage.


Messaggio originale di Noone:
right work on myself, a specifically male requirement, totally fair.

It's a universal requirement, regardless of gender. You work on yourself to make your life better, not to impress anyone.

Messaggio originale di Noone:
and what if my goal was having a family? guess i ♥♥♥♥ off.

Family is an outdated social unit and concept. Wanting a family in the 21st century is like wanting legalisation of slavery.

That horse is dead. Get off and move on.


Messaggio originale di Noone:
Society sucks

Which means you can ignore the society's expectations.


Messaggio originale di Noone:
Hate is all I got left.

Nah. It's just easier to vent and hate than to put effort into improving your life.
Ultima modifica da Злой Пироженщик; 16 ago 2024, ore 7:54
Dating modern women isn't worth it for most men. I'm at a point where I stopped caring.
Messaggio originale di Tywin:
Dating modern women isn't worth it for most men. I'm at a point where I stopped caring.

and yet your more than 250 posts about it since late 2023 says otherwise uwu
Messaggio originale di Noone:
Hate is all I got left.

Sad.
Messaggio originale di BunnieBealla:
Messaggio originale di Tywin:
Dating modern women isn't worth it for most men. I'm at a point where I stopped caring.

and yet your more than 250 posts about it since late 2023 says otherwise uwu
I already deleted all the trashy dating apps. Dating apps are worse for men than using social media.
Get a hobby that you enjoy and just don't bother with dating. It'll save your sanity in the long term.
Messaggio originale di ulia:
Match with someone on a dating app and don't project being a sad, disagreeable incel while you're chatting them up so you don't scare them away.
Dating apps are trash for men.
OH, BROTHER, THIS GUY STINKS

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ifaoKZfQpdA

They're really still yapping instead of committing to a tiddlywink of introspection?
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