Brutally honest?
Are u? Or do you prefer to go with the flow?
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Depends on the person and situation.

Person to person honesty must have leeway and if rooted in wanting the best for the other person, answers like "No, those pants does not make you look fat" is fine, unless she actually does, then i would be honest in the least harmful way possible.
If your answer is rooted in what is best for you and what you can gain, you are on a dangerous path and i don`t do those lies anymore.

If i am asked about my self or personal opinions on matters related to all of humanity, such as religion, politics, war, human rights and so on, i am honest to a fault.
It's been my experience that a minority of people often misrepresent expressing their negative opinions unsolicited as truth telling. Honesty isn't about unloading your subjective evaluation on to others unasked. Honesty is about providing others with all the facts they request without any relevant omissions.
I'm being honest, I'm not
Dernière modification de sleeps; 27 aout 2024 à 4h47
Othobrithol a écrit :
It's been my experience that a minority of people often misrepresent expressing their negative opinions unsolicited as truth telling. Honesty isn't about unloading your subjective evaluation on to others unasked. Honesty is about providing others with all the facts they request without any relevant omissions.

That's not honesty, peoples aren't your servants you know, you can go search for sources yourself if you want to know some stuff. Honesty is just saying what you think, nothing more, you can be honest and wrong at the same time. But a truely honest person will be able to recognize they were wrong if proved wrong.

But yeah, obviously being honest doesn't mean you're right.
Honest to my own detriment. I am the least political person on the planet and that costs me dearly.
Rio 27 aout 2024 à 5h11 
I'm honest,

When people think you don't lie, you can lie when it truly matters and people are more likely to believe you.

Plus, its a fun handicap, that I gave myself starting maybe as a teen. Where the goal was to get what I wanted without lying. But by using sarcasms or misdirection to get what I wanted.

And it worked for a while, but then my close relatives caught on. That they would press me until they got an absolute answer.

Like "Did you eat the cookie black?"

"Why would you think that?", "I saw x eating cookies.", "Are you sure you didn't miscount the number of cookies you made?", "I saw that your favorite super hero got a new movie coming out, are you excited about that?"

And on and on
Dernière modification de Rio; 27 aout 2024 à 5h57
Brutally honest is always a better choice than not to express yourself xd

I am usually like that.
Brutally honest?

Depends on who I am speaking too.

Are u? Or do you prefer to go with the flow?

The flow wins no matter what I want. 😮‍💨
It's better to be brutally honest. People stop asking stupid questions after a while.
It's best to be brutally honest. Unfortunately, over time things have been going the other way, and we are now reaping the rewards of the "kid gloves" treatment.
what i know i keep to myself
I’m gonna be honest but I never really liked bacon.
Moogal™ a écrit :
Are u? Or do you prefer to go with the flow?

I can be too nice, but I can be brutally honest...

I have not changed that since I was like 7 🤷‍♀️

However, I rarely say a thing most of the time so it cancels out 🤔
Dernière modification de Candyy; 27 aout 2024 à 7h24
Starlight a écrit :
Brutally honest is just another way of saying you're rude.


no....its another way to say most people are rude and entitled...
By going with the flow.. So by what feels natural to me, I am honest.

I am so used to it that some people do view me as a rather rude person; Those who do already know me, however, are so grateful for me pointing out their faults and helping them out on how to fix them.
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