Got into a physical altercation.
This happened two weeks ago and to this day I still think about it. I'm angry because it was against a family member. I admit that I started it and it was over something trivial (forgetting to lock the door) but man they escalated by getting physical with me. I ended up breaking their nose and they had to go to the E.R. I'm upset and angry because I never once wanted to get into a fight. Let alone injure someone and send them to the hospital.

I want to say they shouldn't have done it in the first place but at this point who cares. It doesn't even matter if I was in the right. Being a guy SUCKS because you are always going to have people blame you EVEN if you are right. This isn't to say being a woman is better but man male loneliness is real. Literally NO ONE is going to help you if you're a guy unless you're some handsome dude or pretty boy or, with any luck, a genuine nice person actually wants to help you.

And to make things worse, I'm SKINNY than most people so it's not like people are going to take me seriously anyway. You make ONE mistake and people will blame you. This sucks ass.
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Azami 26. Aug. 2024 um 23:52 
Ursprünglich geschrieben von SnakeFist:
Self defense.
At this point, it doesn’t matter. My family doesn’t care.
Michael 26. Aug. 2024 um 23:53 
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
This happened two weeks ago and to this day I still think about it. I'm angry because it was against a family member. I admit that I started it and it was over something trivial (forgetting to lock the door) but man they escalated by getting physical with me. I ended up breaking their nose and they had to go to the E.R. I'm upset and angry because I never once wanted to get into a fight. Let alone injure someone and send them to the hospital.

I want to say they shouldn't have done it in the first place but at this point who cares. It doesn't even matter if I was in the right. Being a guy SUCKS because you are always going to have people blame you EVEN if you are right. This isn't to say being a woman is better but man male loneliness is real. Literally NO ONE is going to help you if you're a guy unless you're some handsome dude or pretty boy or, with any luck, a genuine nice person actually wants to help you.

And to make things worse, I'm SKINNY than most people so it's not like people are going to take me seriously anyway. You make ONE mistake and people will blame you. This sucks ass.



Self defense... You should see what happens to family member when one is a drug addict looking for a fix.
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Reminds me of my ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ neighbor. Randomly attacking me then telling the police I started it.
Azami 26. Aug. 2024 um 23:56 
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Doomerang:
Reminds me of my ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ neighbor. Randomly attacking me then telling the police I started it.
The hell. You need to file a restraining order or something.
Obelisk 26. Aug. 2024 um 23:56 
Being a man sucks in the modern era
Michael 26. Aug. 2024 um 23:58 
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Doomerang:
Reminds me of my ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ neighbor. Randomly attacking me then telling the police I started it.
The hell. You need to file a restraining order or something.

You will need to likely call the police if your family member starts crap again. I am not joking. I should have done so myself back in the day.
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Michael 26. Aug. 2024 um 23:58 
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Liberty Prime:
Being a man sucks in the modern era

It has sucked since the beginning of time.
Ursprünglich geschrieben von SnakeFist:
Self defense.

doesn't hold up

becasue.

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
I admit that I started it

If you dont want to get into altercations, then dont start crap with other people or escalate things.

simple.

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
Being a guy SUCKS because you are always going to have people blame you EVEN if you are right.

blah blah.. what? you admit you started it yet you are seeking sympathy and going on about being a guy... etc. If you started it, by your own admission then people should blame you. has nothing to do about being a guy..

seems like an unchecked testosterone chest thumping ego thing to me that went south.

gl out there.

:GHSleep:
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Michael:
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Liberty Prime:
Being a man sucks in the modern era

It has sucked since the beginning of time.
That's true
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
Ursprünglich geschrieben von SnakeFist:
Self defense.
At this point, it doesn’t matter. My family doesn’t care.
Yea it was a family member and your sad that you did that but it was in self defense. If he didn't start it you wouldn't of did what you did for that end to come. So it was his fault that his nose got broken not yours. So at least use that not to feel to guilty. Let them settle down and see if he apologizes. If not be the bigger person and apologize to him in front of all who was involved if he accepts it perfect shake hands. If not then wash your hands of it, you apologized that is what counts then no longer feel guilty about it.
Azami 27. Aug. 2024 um 0:04 
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Neurotic Panda:
Ursprünglich geschrieben von SnakeFist:
Self defense.

doesn't hold up

becasue.

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
I admit that I started it

If you dont want to get into altercations, then dont start crap with other people or escalate things.

simple.

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
Being a guy SUCKS because you are always going to have people blame you EVEN if you are right.

blah blah.. what? you admit you started it yet you are seeking sympathy and going on about being a guy... etc. If you started it, by your own admission then people should blame you. has nothing to do about being a guy..

seems like an unchecked testosterone chest thumping ego thing to me that went south.

gl out there.

:GHSleep:
Hey if your idea is to get physical with someone over forgetting to lock a door like what my family member did then..
Azami 27. Aug. 2024 um 0:06 
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Kiler_best1235_Denmark:
"TEKKEN 7
1.026 timer registreret i alt
sidst spillet d. 24. aug.
TEKKEN 7
Præstationsfremskridt 38 ud af 42
+33"

"Judge, clearly the attacker is a trained martial artist with years of experience, who trains 1026 hours? So you can see, we have to give him the death penalty. Games hurt. Words hurt. And games leads to real world violence as you can see, so all games are illegal now."
The worst part is that I actually did do martial arts.
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Neurotic Panda:
Ursprünglich geschrieben von SnakeFist:
Self defense.

doesn't hold up

becasue.

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
I admit that I started it

If you dont want to get into altercations, then dont start crap with other people or escalate things.

simple.

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
Being a guy SUCKS because you are always going to have people blame you EVEN if you are right.

blah blah.. what? you admit you started it yet you are seeking sympathy and going on about being a guy... etc. If you started it, by your own admission then people should blame you. has nothing to do about being a guy..

seems like an unchecked testosterone chest thumping ego thing to me that went south.

gl out there.

:GHSleep:

Why would the family member flip out over something like not locking a door. To me it seemed like the family member was looking for anything no matter how small to flip out on the op. So yes the family member started it cause he was looking for confrontation the fact that the op put him in his place is moot.
Azami 27. Aug. 2024 um 0:07 
Ursprünglich geschrieben von SnakeFist:
Ursprünglich geschrieben von Chimera Gemini:
At this point, it doesn’t matter. My family doesn’t care.
Yea it was a family member and your sad that you did that but it was in self defense. If he didn't start it you wouldn't have did what you did for that end to come. So it was his fault that his nose got broken not yours. So at least use that not to feel to guilty. Let them settle down and see if he apologizes. If not be the bigger person and apologize to him in front of all who was involved if he accepts it perfect shake hands. If not then wash your hands of it, you apologized that is what counts then no longer feel guilty about it.
I’ll have to work on that
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