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Dump them and tell them you need a better partner that can game with you
Why do you talk like you can't parent and game at the same time? Include the sub 10 year old into gaming, it's one of the biggest markets and growing. If you spend your entire free time gaming, then that's another issue. Everything in moderation.
No, you should be asking me for advice on this issue, I am a certified off-topic professional.
But honestly, asking family members or friends can have similar results, they can say "yes" or "no" for different reasons. Maybe they just dislike her or dislike TC.
Those who still live together after 20- 30 years are enduring each other love has nothing to do with it you're just used to it like a crooked toe or some other sh** you can't get rid of and all you do is compromise. For you it will start with gaming
Gaming and a spouse that does not like it are not incompatible.
As long as gaming does not get in the way of a good relationship - i.e. too much gaming, ignoring her, etc. - you should be ok.
She should respect your hobbies as much as you do hers, opinions aside. As long as such is in moderation, of course.
she is playing her game right now while i crawl through the sales
just have to find the right person
You have to remember that women score higher in traits of neuroticism. This could mean that you're entering into a marriage with a woman who will find that your gaming habit means that you're somehow neglecting her, even though you text her all day while you're at work and you just want to come home to relax a bit before you have to go to bed to do it all over again. Even if you're only allotting yourself an hour of two of gaming per night and then the rest goes to spending time with her. Even if you dedicate your off-days to her and finding something new for you both to do on your scheduled 'date nights.' Some women don't really understand that your free time is not for her to own and decide as to how you spend it. Married or not, everybody needs their time to decompress.
Presumably, kids are not involved so it's one less factor she can complain about, i.e., "you aren't helping me with the kid and just want to play video games all day!" after you've just spent twelve hours outside in the heat and she got to take a three-hour afternoon nap with the one kid you both have together. (Taking care of just one kid and doing house chores is the easiest job in the world)
You have one year to figure out how to talk to her about what she expects of you as a husband and to detail what you expect from her as a wife. If she can't respect your vices, then you have some time to figure out how to call off the wedding and find a different fiance. Men need to stop allowing high-testing neurotic women to control their every aspect of life.
Continue down this path and disaster awaits!
You probably won't listen. Years later you will wish you did.