how to avoid being sexualized by friends

[WarHeRo]

is it possible to avoid unecessarly bein sexualized without stopping to look ur best. how do u guys signal the friendzone without hurting ppl and saying it out loud?

[Dominic]

guess the real question is why are you being sexualized? I mean what are you dressing like?

And to be honest I would say 80 to 90% of people sexaulize every one who looks attractive. But a decent amount of people keep it to themselves.

[Good Night Owl]

Well. I feel that GOOD friends have an incentive to respect your boundaries. Setting boundaries is important, and so is respecting them, and there isn't really an 'easy' way to do it aside from just telling them to stop.

I know that's not a satisfactory answer, but it's all I got.

[ナルゴ]

Say. It. Out. Loud.
Clear and effective communication starts with not being afraid to offend.
They should respect your boundaries.

[Mina]

I become very distant and avoid

[Apollo702]

There is a very good chance that few gamers are getting one iota of sexualization.

[Hathaway]

When Harry Met Sally -- Men and women can't be friends
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bbAZjTBmjFU

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

talk about your life troubles

that usually turns people off immediately

[JacquesPatat]

looking your best is good. but keep in mind, looking your best and looking like a tramp is two different things, now i don't know how you dress or who your friends are. But simple thing is, best to sit down with "said" friend and discuss with them that you are not interested in a "sexual" relationship and you only interested in being friends, and if they still continue to try the sexual route, then best to part ways with said friend.

WarHeRo eredeti hozzászólása:

is it possible to avoid unecessarly bein sexualized without stopping to look ur best. how do u guys signal the friendzone without hurting ppl and saying it out loud?

Well feelings will be hurt in one or other way, so best to be honest with the friend, if they don't want to accept it, then its on them. Friends respect each other enough to know the boundaries, if not then they are not your friends, but only friends to try to get into your pants in one or other way.

[Heraclius Caesar]

If you're not attracted to them like that then it is what it is, keep it honest and brief and be ok with not being friends anymore if they don't want to be just friends with you.

[xAlphaStarOmegax]

Fumo Bnnuy n Frends eredeti hozzászólása:

talk about your life troubles

that usually turns people off immediately

That is so true. Hah.

[BlackBloodGhost]

I don't act sexual enough with people to have this problem, so can't help.

[Pierce Dalton]

Tell your friends you have a STD, that should do it!

[Dan5000]

Nargo eredeti hozzászólása:

Say. It. Out. Loud.
Clear and effective communication starts with not being afraid to offend.
They should respect your boundaries.

this, as with everything really. too many people have a problem with talking for whatever reason. be it among friends, co-workers, family... heck, even your own wife or husband. most problems you might have with any of them, is to not talk with them about it.

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

xAlphaStarOmegax eredeti hozzászólása:

Fumo Bnnuy n Frends eredeti hozzászólása:

talk about your life troubles

that usually turns people off immediately

That is so true. Hah.

it worked for an actor who had a stalker