Statistically, as a man, is it worth it to get in a serious relationship with a woman?

[Tazor]

70% of divorces are started by women. 90% among college educated women.

Couples have intimate relations on average once a week. Only 5% of couples have intimate relations 4 or more times a week.

Most young men are currently single. Most young women are not. This is because women in general don't wan't to "marry down". They want to "marry up". As in they seek older richer men.

Despite the previous statistics, women are more likely to own an adult toy than men.

https://www.ejj-law.com/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/

https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/

For the other 2 statistics, I can't post NSFW content.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

SlowMango eredeti hozzászólása:

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

When their preferences are a male model with 6 pack abs and 6 Ft tall

Which is different from wanting a "young and innocent" woman how?

That's different. Men want to marry the young and innocent women. When women have high standards just for the men they want to sleep with, it turns all the average-looking men off.

[Boblin the Goblin]

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

SlowMango eredeti hozzászólása:

Which is different from wanting a "young and innocent" woman how?

That's different. Men want to marry the young and innocent women. When women have high standards just for the men they want to sleep with, it turns all the average-looking men off.

You didn't explain how it's different.

You're giving men(and you since you have stated that is your preference) a pass for having(admittedly) creepy and predatory preferences but shaming women for having preferences.

[RRW359]

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

SlowMango eredeti hozzászólása:

Which is different from wanting a "young and innocent" woman how?

That's different. Men want to marry the young and innocent women. When women have high standards just for the men they want to sleep with, it turns all the average-looking men off.

Women have high standards but are also permiscuous? Do you want them to be more selective and less permiscuous or less selective and more permiscuous?

[Boblin the Goblin]

RRW359 eredeti hozzászólása:

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

That's different. Men want to marry the young and innocent women. When women have high standards just for the men they want to sleep with, it turns all the average-looking men off.

Women have high standards but are also permiscuous? Do you want them to be more selective and less permiscuous or less selective and more permiscuous?

He wants them to select him.

[Not Big Surprise]

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

SlowMango eredeti hozzászólása:

Which is different from wanting a "young and innocent" woman how?

That's different. Men want to marry the young and innocent women. When women have high standards just for the men they want to sleep with, it turns all the average-looking men off.

...why would anyone want specifically someone who's "young and innocent"?

nobody else answer, i want him to give me one

[AerSilver ♞]

SlowMango eredeti hozzászólása:

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

Dating apps don't work for most normies. They work fine for women though.

Then don't use them.

Damn it, I knew all these women I swipe on dating apps are actually men.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

SlowMango eredeti hozzászólása:

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

That's different. Men want to marry the young and innocent women. When women have high standards just for the men they want to sleep with, it turns all the average-looking men off.

You didn't explain how it's different.

You're giving men(and you since you have stated that is your preference) a pass for having(admittedly) creepy and predatory preferences but shaming women for having preferences.

I'm not shaming women when they have high standards for who they sleep with and who they get into relationships with.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

RRW359 eredeti hozzászólása:

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

That's different. Men want to marry the young and innocent women. When women have high standards just for the men they want to sleep with, it turns all the average-looking men off.

Women have high standards but are also permiscuous? Do you want them to be more selective and less permiscuous or less selective and more permiscuous?

Women are promiscuous only with men they consider attractive to them. The difference between men and women though is the women are more picky.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Not Big Surprise eredeti hozzászólása:

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

That's different. Men want to marry the young and innocent women. When women have high standards just for the men they want to sleep with, it turns all the average-looking men off.

...why would anyone want specifically someone who's "young and innocent"?

nobody else answer, i want him to give me one

They didn't bang every Chad they met on Tinder maybe

[AerSilver ♞]

Not Big Surprise eredeti hozzászólása:

...why would anyone want specifically someone who's "young and innocent"?

...Because being promiscuous and of older age aren't attractive qualities for women?

[RRW359]

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

RRW359 eredeti hozzászólása:

Women have high standards but are also permiscuous? Do you want them to be more selective and less permiscuous or less selective and more permiscuous?

Women are promiscuous only with men they consider attractive to them. The difference between men and women though is the women are more picky.

Women are more picky then Men but in your own words young Women don't know what they want which is why they sleep with a lot of Men?

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

RRW359 eredeti hozzászólása:

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

Women are promiscuous only with men they consider attractive to them. The difference between men and women though is the women are more picky.

Women are more picky then Men but in your own words young Women don't know what they want which is why they sleep with a lot of Men?

Young women don't know if they want to be promiscuous or find relationships. Either way, the men they get with on dating apps have to be attractive like an 8/10 at least.

[RRW359]

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

RRW359 eredeti hozzászólása:

Women are more picky then Men but in your own words young Women don't know what they want which is why they sleep with a lot of Men?

Young women don't know if they want to be promiscuous or find relationships. Either way, the men they get with on dating apps have to be attractive like an 8/10 at least.

If Men were selective Women would lower their standards. The ones who aren't being selective when it would be in their best interests to be, which you seem convinced are Men, are the ones who are listening to their emotions instead of doing the rational thing.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

RRW359 eredeti hozzászólása:

King of Gaming eredeti hozzászólása:

Young women don't know if they want to be promiscuous or find relationships. Either way, the men they get with on dating apps have to be attractive like an 8/10 at least.

If Men were selective Women would lower their standards. The ones who aren't being selective when it would be in their best interests to be, which you seem convinced are Men, are the ones who are listening to their emotions instead of doing the rational thing.

The problem is men are more sexually motivated. They'll get with women who are below their level of attractiveness just to have sex. Women aren't like that.

[𝔈𝔩𝔊𝔯𝔦𝔫𝔤𝔬]

As someone who is engaged with 4 children at 26, no. Was it good for my moral and ethics overall? Yes, I've learned a lot, changed my ways and come to have better understanding about many things in life. However, I feel in today's world that it's far more important for a man to grow, gain experience, mature, take risk in a positive way, learn new tricks, ect. For me, I did all that the hard way and am behind as far as my finances and personals go. I have the mindset and some of the knowledge, but no capitol.

Break away from groups, parties, stop going out so much, focus more on your career, education and hobbies. Try new things, meet new people, try and be open minded and be coach-able when need be. It's nice I'll have a younger family later on, but I think 30 is a good age to have kids and say you're 25 now - stop doing everything, wasting time and money and focus on being a better you for the next 5 years. Make money, fix bad habits, go to the gym and get yourself in shape. You'll eventually get comfortable, look good and attract a nice looking lady who wants a man that's serious and been through the motions already.

Don't doubt me Kings, I got you
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