What does it mean when a girl says you're too "nice?"

[Azami]

So I somewhat fancy this classmate of mine but she said I was "too nice." Not exactly sure what she means because she doesn't really know me nor have we even spoke to each other. I later found out that she was kinda crazy so luckily I didn't proceed any further interaction with her but I'm still confused what she meant that I am "too nice."

[Kamiyama]

It could be a hint that you've friend-zoned yourself. A lot of nice guys are raised by over-protective parents who were determined to teach them to show respect to women. But that's not how you get a girlfriend.

Girls are social creatures with a huge network of friends. They don't consider friends as romantic partners. If you are nice to a girl, they consider you friend and not a romantic interest. This is the dreaded friend zone. Going from friend to romantic interest is much more difficult than simply starting out as a romantic interest.

Girls like men who are confident - this is a common turn on for them, just like big breasts are for most men. If you are interested in a girl, be confident and ask them out on a date from the start. They will either say yes, or reject you and you can move on from there. That at least gives you your best possible chance. Going into the friend zone gives you no chance.

This is why so many ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ have girlfriends. ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ show confidence and aren't afraid to hurt a girl's feelings, and they start the romance route with every girl, every time, leaving a trail olf broken hearts in their wake. This is how you want to be if you want a girlfriend, and if you're a nice guy the fact is your parents raised you wrong. If they taught you to be nice and treat women with respect, they taught you to be an incel.

[Kamiyama]

"why aren't there any good men these days"

A common gripe from women who can't find a man they consider husband material.

They probably have at least 3 incels in their friend zone who are desperate to be that husband but they don't recognize them as romantic interests.

[Candyy]

Kamiyama님이 먼저 게시:

It could be a hint that you've friend-zoned yourself. A lot of nice guys are raised by over-protective parents who were determined to teach them to show respect to women. But that's not how you get a girlfriend.

Girls are social creatures with a huge network of friends. They don't consider friends as romantic partners. If you are nice to a girl, they consider you friend and not a romantic interest. This is the dreaded friend zone. Going from friend to romantic interest is much more difficult than simply starting out as a romantic interest.

Girls like men who are confident - this is a common turn on for them, just like big breasts are for most men. If you are interested in a girl, be confident and ask them out on a date from the start. They will either say yes, or reject you and you can move on from there. That at least gives you your best possible chance. Going into the friend zone gives you no chance.

This is why so many ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ have girlfriends. ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ show confidence and aren't afraid to hurt a girl's feelings, and they start the romance route with every girl, every time, leaving a trail olf broken hearts in their wake. This is how you want to be if you want a girlfriend, and if you're a nice guy the fact is your parents raised you wrong. If they taught you to be nice and treat women with respect, they taught you to be an incel.

Someone overgeneralizes a lot

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Kamiyama님이 먼저 게시:

"why aren't there any good men these days"

A common gripe from women who can't find a man they consider husband material.

They probably have at least 3 incels in their friend zone who are desperate to be that husband but they don't recognize them as romantic interests.

They like the jerk type that doesn't simp or is a pushover. Only if they mature will they have families.

[Kamiyama]

Pikumii님이 먼저 게시:

Kamiyama님이 먼저 게시:

It could be a hint that you've friend-zoned yourself. A lot of nice guys are raised by over-protective parents who were determined to teach them to show respect to women. But that's not how you get a girlfriend.

Girls are social creatures with a huge network of friends. They don't consider friends as romantic partners. If you are nice to a girl, they consider you friend and not a romantic interest. This is the dreaded friend zone. Going from friend to romantic interest is much more difficult than simply starting out as a romantic interest.

Girls like men who are confident - this is a common turn on for them, just like big breasts are for most men. If you are interested in a girl, be confident and ask them out on a date from the start. They will either say yes, or reject you and you can move on from there. That at least gives you your best possible chance. Going into the friend zone gives you no chance.

This is why so many ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ have girlfriends. ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ show confidence and aren't afraid to hurt a girl's feelings, and they start the romance route with every girl, every time, leaving a trail olf broken hearts in their wake. This is how you want to be if you want a girlfriend, and if you're a nice guy the fact is your parents raised you wrong. If they taught you to be nice and treat women with respect, they taught you to be an incel.

Someone overgeneralizes a lot

In general, it's true. There might be girls out there who pick nice guys but they're a tiny minority. The phrase "the nice guy finishes last" is false. Most nice guys never finish.

[TwisterCat]

Apollo702님이 먼저 게시:

Most people have 10 fingers. Say that in front of a large enough audience and someone will stand up and say that they had one chopped off and have 9.

Virtually everyone still is going to have 10 fingers.

*Adjusts smudged and bent reading glasses*

Uh, actually, humans have 8 fingers. Little known fact. Read it in a textbook the other day. It's actually kind of crazy how many people don't know that.

[Enigmatic]

M a t t m o o님이 먼저 게시:

Meaning, actually her best interest. Even women need to get that distinction, better
And that's us, but it's pretty simple... You can't be a weak guy and protect, period.

Assuming she has a violent stalker. There are people you can hire. Professionals. As a full time father you think you can spend all day being vigilant for your wife's safety? Not knowing if on her way to work they put a tracker on her car? It wouldn't make sense, you'd have to hire help if the was a real threat of violence. They have really good equipment for that stuff. You are better off hiring professionals at this point.
Be grateful you live somewhere where lives are not risked daily when crossing the street.

Really the only ones besides criminals who use violence is the state.

[☮ne✟rue𝓢ax☯n]

They are rejecting your advances with what they believe is a positive.

[Shadow]

Be who you want to be, you are who you are and be proud of that. There's nothing wrong with being a good person and being on the good side. Be around those who are like-minded and those who accept you for who you are.

Being good is not seen as an alpha badassery trait so most women in general don't like good guys. They prefer bad ones who are violent and evil. It's just how it is.

[Skade]

it means you are too good to be true.

[Birds]

they dislike themselves

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Bunni Bealla님이 먼저 게시:

King of Gaming님이 먼저 게시:

They like the jerk type that doesn't simp or is a pushover. Only if they mature will they have families.

lmfao if that was really true none of you would be here complaining uwu

Why are there so many women over 30 who are single?

[GunsForBucks]

Bunni Bealla님이 먼저 게시:

King of Gaming님이 먼저 게시:

Why are there so many women over 30 who are single?

How are young men having a "loneliness epidemic"? uwu

I just had a funny thought... that you and Apollo were the same person.
How funny would that be?

[Triple]

Bunni Bealla님이 먼저 게시:

How are young men having a "loneliness epidemic"? uwu

Because a lot of men are socially retarded and porn addicts and a lot of women are brainwashed by social media turning them into annoying ♥♥♥♥♥ with unrealistic demands

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Bunni Bealla님이 먼저 게시:

King of Gaming님이 먼저 게시:

Why are there so many women over 30 who are single?

How are young men having a "loneliness epidemic"? uwu

They don't make enough money for young women, so they get with older rich men.