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I’ve heard a lot of mostly bad experiences, and I sympathize with the guys who talked to a girl for weeks and arranged a date just for her to never show up and block them. Now with AI and so many weirdos catfishing, it sounds even worse.
After dealing with a lot of women who were interested in me, I kind of just realized I’m not impressed at all by any women I meet anymore. It’s always basic mainstream opinions, dealing with lies, mood swings, head games, and the rest. The more attractive they were, the worse they’d be, generally.
If I met a woman who really stood out from the rest maybe my mind would change, but at this point I don’t see the reason to go out of my way to try to find one.
Overall, the experience isn't a good one. I've been on dates (some good ones, a lot of bad ones where I basically had to cut them short), got FWB/hookups from these apps, and even a few long term relationships before.
If you're going to use a dating app, it would be wise to be completely detached from it and not let it affect your self esteem, at all. If you're a man, expect to have very few matches per week, even fewer numbers, and a miniscule amount of dates unless you live in a major, popular city. I've used dating apps when traveling abroad and got more regular matches, but still, not a lot since I'm not a woman.
Dating apps have a lot of very undesirable women, bots, scammers, phishing attempts, onlyfans ads, women who are just there for validation, attention, or to advertise their IG/TikTok/social media random single mommies asking for money, even women who try to sell you feet pictures, and more nonsense.
Don't use it as your main way of meeting women, the odds are stacked against you. It is a business that does not care for your success, on the contrary. You being single and paying is what they want, it's how they profit.
I met my current girlfriend there.
You have to put in the effort with your profile and photos.
You have to put in the effort if you're using dating websites.
Women are selective by nature.
I met my wife online aswell, heck my first message was being annoyed at her because of what she wrote on my profile on some website. We almost blocked each other, but talked it out.
Now... the more we talked, the more we realized how much we had in common and that we'd like to meet up. After meeting up, we got in a relationship. However it was rough at first, being 8 hours of driving away from each other. After 2 years and both of us finishing our job trainings, we moved together and eventually married.
We've been living together for 10 years now. Never had a fight.
Generally I just want to say, the most important thing is talking with each other. Don't hide stuff from eachother, don't get mad about dumb questions or ideas, find compromises for anything any of you would like to do and don't try to change the other person. If you're being honest about everything from the start and always do so and talk everything out, there isn't really much that can go wrong.
If there is something wrong, you'd have talked about it very early on and would decide that there are fundamental things you can't compromise on and go your different ways. Don't think "he might change later" no.
No one is perfect, you're getting the full package, accepting that is part of it. If there is something you can't accept, don't even keep trying.