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Neo 2024 年 5 月 12 日 下午 6:58
Online dating
Yes, online dating isn't really good for you, but it happens

Have you ever done it? What was your experience? Are you still together?
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Azami 2024 年 5 月 12 日 下午 8:03 
Dating apps like tinder is fine because at least you meet up in real life. But if we're talking strictly online, I don't if I trust that. When I think of online dating, I think of the players dating in VRchat but never EVER meeting in real life. Those kinds of people are literally living on the internet.
ZZZZZ 2024 年 5 月 12 日 下午 8:04 
never did and dont aim to do.. the fact that u can get banned without having done anything wrong is way worse if its your actual person getting banned
Crusader (Banned13x) 2024 年 5 月 12 日 下午 8:06 
Never tried it. Always seemed weird trying to sell yourself with a list of photos and attributes. Like some sort of strange shallow marketplace.

I’ve heard a lot of mostly bad experiences, and I sympathize with the guys who talked to a girl for weeks and arranged a date just for her to never show up and block them. Now with AI and so many weirdos catfishing, it sounds even worse.

After dealing with a lot of women who were interested in me, I kind of just realized I’m not impressed at all by any women I meet anymore. It’s always basic mainstream opinions, dealing with lies, mood swings, head games, and the rest. The more attractive they were, the worse they’d be, generally.

If I met a woman who really stood out from the rest maybe my mind would change, but at this point I don’t see the reason to go out of my way to try to find one.
Haiku's Knife 2024 年 5 月 12 日 下午 8:24 
I tried Tinder a couple times out of boredom. Got likes from both sexes, talked to a few people, but didn't click with anyone. I'm not into hookups, so I promptly deleted it.
AlienTestosterone 2024 年 5 月 12 日 下午 8:40 
nah i'm good, I know it's a trap.
AerSilver ♞ 2024 年 5 月 12 日 下午 9:47 
引用自 NeØ-Nλchox
Yes, online dating isn't really good for you, but it happens

Have you ever done it? What was your experience? Are you still together?
I can only share my view as a man who has been using apps for over a decade now.
Overall, the experience isn't a good one. I've been on dates (some good ones, a lot of bad ones where I basically had to cut them short), got FWB/hookups from these apps, and even a few long term relationships before.

If you're going to use a dating app, it would be wise to be completely detached from it and not let it affect your self esteem, at all. If you're a man, expect to have very few matches per week, even fewer numbers, and a miniscule amount of dates unless you live in a major, popular city. I've used dating apps when traveling abroad and got more regular matches, but still, not a lot since I'm not a woman.

Dating apps have a lot of very undesirable women, bots, scammers, phishing attempts, onlyfans ads, women who are just there for validation, attention, or to advertise their IG/TikTok/social media random single mommies asking for money, even women who try to sell you feet pictures, and more nonsense.

Don't use it as your main way of meeting women, the odds are stacked against you. It is a business that does not care for your success, on the contrary. You being single and paying is what they want, it's how they profit.
Mega Ultra Chicken 2024 年 5 月 12 日 下午 11:54 
引用自 AerSilver ♞
引用自 NeØ-Nλchox
Yes, online dating isn't really good for you, but it happens

Have you ever done it? What was your experience? Are you still together?
I can only share my view as a man who has been using apps for over a decade now.
Overall, the experience isn't a good one. I've been on dates (some good ones, a lot of bad ones where I basically had to cut them short), got FWB/hookups from these apps, and even a few long term relationships before.

If you're going to use a dating app, it would be wise to be completely detached from it and not let it affect your self esteem, at all. If you're a man, expect to have very few matches per week, even fewer numbers, and a miniscule amount of dates unless you live in a major, popular city. I've used dating apps when traveling abroad and got more regular matches, but still, not a lot since I'm not a woman.

Dating apps have a lot of very undesirable women, bots, scammers, phishing attempts, onlyfans ads, women who are just there for validation, attention, or to advertise their IG/TikTok/social media random single mommies asking for money, even women who try to sell you feet pictures, and more nonsense.

Don't use it as your main way of meeting women, the odds are stacked against you. It is a business that does not care for your success, on the contrary. You being single and paying is what they want, it's how they profit.
The odds are stacked against average men on mainstream dating apps. There are more men that use these apps and the women are a lot pickier compared to men. I wouldn't even take them seriously as a man because they're designed around trying to get as much money from you as possible. If people were to actually find love on these apps, the dating apps would go out of business.
Riruru 2024 年 5 月 13 日 上午 12:26 
I have never dated online. I'm happy to wait for my prince charming.
ZZZZZ 2024 年 5 月 13 日 上午 12:57 
引用自 Riruru
I have never dated online. I'm happy to wait for my prince charming.
internet is full of (nigerian) princes tho
BigBallinChester 2024 年 5 月 13 日 上午 1:02 
i did some online dating, it was horrible
ハイイロギツネ 2024 年 5 月 13 日 上午 1:14 
引用自 Angel
I've always wondered how I'd handle online dating scene.
But I've never tried; I tend to have had enough relationships by meeting in person.

I met my current girlfriend there.

You have to put in the effort with your profile and photos.
ハイイロギツネ 2024 年 5 月 13 日 上午 1:15 
引用自 Joke in the Box
引用自 AerSilver ♞
I can only share my view as a man who has been using apps for over a decade now.
Overall, the experience isn't a good one. I've been on dates (some good ones, a lot of bad ones where I basically had to cut them short), got FWB/hookups from these apps, and even a few long term relationships before.

If you're going to use a dating app, it would be wise to be completely detached from it and not let it affect your self esteem, at all. If you're a man, expect to have very few matches per week, even fewer numbers, and a miniscule amount of dates unless you live in a major, popular city. I've used dating apps when traveling abroad and got more regular matches, but still, not a lot since I'm not a woman.

Dating apps have a lot of very undesirable women, bots, scammers, phishing attempts, onlyfans ads, women who are just there for validation, attention, or to advertise their IG/TikTok/social media random single mommies asking for money, even women who try to sell you feet pictures, and more nonsense.

Don't use it as your main way of meeting women, the odds are stacked against you. It is a business that does not care for your success, on the contrary. You being single and paying is what they want, it's how they profit.
The odds are stacked against average men on mainstream dating apps. There are more men that use these apps and the women are a lot pickier compared to men. I wouldn't even take them seriously as a man because they're designed around trying to get as much money from you as possible. If people were to actually find love on these apps, the dating apps would go out of business.

You have to put in the effort if you're using dating websites.

Women are selective by nature.
Funky Monk 2024 年 5 月 13 日 上午 1:20 
Another day another dating thread
Dan5000 2024 年 5 月 13 日 上午 1:26 
I wouldn't use online dating apps or go online and actively search for a relationship there. But if it happens, it happens.

I met my wife online aswell, heck my first message was being annoyed at her because of what she wrote on my profile on some website. We almost blocked each other, but talked it out.

Now... the more we talked, the more we realized how much we had in common and that we'd like to meet up. After meeting up, we got in a relationship. However it was rough at first, being 8 hours of driving away from each other. After 2 years and both of us finishing our job trainings, we moved together and eventually married.

We've been living together for 10 years now. Never had a fight.

Generally I just want to say, the most important thing is talking with each other. Don't hide stuff from eachother, don't get mad about dumb questions or ideas, find compromises for anything any of you would like to do and don't try to change the other person. If you're being honest about everything from the start and always do so and talk everything out, there isn't really much that can go wrong.

If there is something wrong, you'd have talked about it very early on and would decide that there are fundamental things you can't compromise on and go your different ways. Don't think "he might change later" no.

No one is perfect, you're getting the full package, accepting that is part of it. If there is something you can't accept, don't even keep trying.
Mega Ultra Chicken 2024 年 5 月 13 日 上午 1:27 
引用自 Arvaos
引用自 Joke in the Box
The odds are stacked against average men on mainstream dating apps. There are more men that use these apps and the women are a lot pickier compared to men. I wouldn't even take them seriously as a man because they're designed around trying to get as much money from you as possible. If people were to actually find love on these apps, the dating apps would go out of business.

You have to put in the effort if you're using dating websites.

Women are selective by nature.
I think the dating scene is just worse in America as well.
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