𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐭?

[Ｓｏｌｉｄｕｓ Ｓｎａｋｅ]

𝐌𝐚𝐣𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐈 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 (𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐮𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞) 𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐝 𝟑𝟓-𝟒𝟎 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬. 𝐈 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐮𝐭𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐧. 𝐈'𝐦 𝐬𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐩 𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐈 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐚𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭, 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐩𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐨𝐟 $𝟐,𝟎𝟎𝟎-$𝟑,𝟎𝟎𝟎 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐫𝐮𝐧 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐦 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐱 𝐚𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐝𝐝𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐃𝐓𝐋𝐀, 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐮𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐩𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐭. 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐛𝐢𝐝, 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐦 𝐠𝐨𝐞𝐬, 𝐈'𝐦 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 $𝟖𝟎𝟎,𝟎𝟎𝟎 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐈 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐦𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐚𝐝, 𝐰𝐡𝐲? 𝐋𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐦𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐦 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭. 𝐌𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐦 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐝𝐚𝐝 𝐝𝐢𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈'𝐦 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐞. 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐝𝐨 𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐬𝐚𝐲: "𝐘𝐨𝐔 𝐦𝐔𝐬𝐓 𝐋𝐢𝐕𝐞 𝐖𝐢𝐓𝐡 𝐮𝐑 𝐦𝐎𝐦" 𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐟 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭?

[Vinz Clortho]

Well you can be living on your own and still be reliant on mum & dad for everything. I think there are different stages of being dependent on parents and it's also culturally different. Some places value kids staying with the parents it's more of a family unit thing. Plus parents have different opinions I know some parents that are practically co-dependent with their kids I don't think they could live without them in the house lol there's a lot to be said for empty nest syndrome. As for the mental well being of the child I think that's more down to the specific relationships with family members rather than how much the family financially supports them. Some people get money from their family and use it to invest in a business or some other useful endeavour, that is something different to family paying your rent every month or whatever.

[AD]

I love my parents, but I would go nuts if I moved in with them. Mom is a bit too fond of poking her nose into everything I do. It's not really just because she's a control freak, she loves her kids a bit too much and can't get enough of us. So I can stay there during vacation (my parents live far away from where I live at a place that's a rather good vacation spot), but most of the year I live by myself since otherwise it would just get a bit much.

That said, I have the option to and if your life situation requires it, there is nothing wrong with living with your parents. As long as you're happy, I guess that's what matters.

[Breathe]

Originally posted by Ganger:

But men who were old enough in the 80's and 90's to move who are still living at home today, it is a pretty sad state of affairs. Has houses back in the 80's and 90's were very cheap indeed.

Even a bit less than 10 years ago, housing prices were still very very good, not as good as our parents had but still affordable to get a home or condo in a decent area.

[𝔈𝔩𝔊𝔯𝔦𝔫𝔤𝔬]

I'm in my mid 20s with kids and we could barely afford to buy a $30,000 double wide... It was the only way we were going to get out of paying $1,000 a month for rent in something smaller and just as classless... It's ass for most unestablished people, the only young kids going out and buying homes or starting businesses had parents who could co-sign or throw in on everything.

Nobody is graduating high school, working their tail off at a 9 - 5 and affording jack anymore. You have to work + a side gig and keep finding ways to make more or expand your knowledge on stuff.

[𝔈𝔩𝔊𝔯𝔦𝔫𝔤𝔬]

In contrast to your post, I'm closer in Michigan and people in the run down cities here can't even afford $1,500 a month for a HOUSE.
That's how little the majority of people in these production heavy cities are paid.

I don't think most of us see that the economic scale is that drastic in America.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Originally posted by Breathe:

"Still' implies the adult child never left, never tried, has no idea what real independence means, has no idea if they can survive on their own. Continuously living an extended adolescence with parents is not only a hindrance to growth for the adult child, it's also a hindrance to the parent(s)' growth and quality of life as well. Parents deserve to have their privacy back, their time, their money. They already invested in you. They already took care of you, provided for you. Now is your turn.

Kidding yourself into thinking you're doing something kind for them, something they even want, something that helps them... you're fooling no one but yourself. Get your life and your act together. Be an adult. Let them live the life they want. Just because they're your parents and they love you doesn't mean they want to be with you this long in life.

Don't be afraid to be an adult. Just remember your parents did it. You can too.

Apartment rent and houses aren't as affordable as they were in the past. U.S. needs to fix the housing crisis. You either need a boyfriend/girlfriend or roommates to afford rent now.

[ナルゴ]

Extended families are the norm in other places. Including mine.
Before I went to the big city to study and work (renting a condo), I lived in a clanhold + farm with 3 buildings. 1 large main home, and 2 other homes. Lived among 3 families (cousins), parents, grand parents, and great-grand parents.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extended_family

In many cultures, such as in those of Asians, Middle Easterners, Africans, Indigenous peoples like Native Americans and Pacific Islanders, and Latin Americans and Caribbeans, even for Eastern Europeans and Southern Europeans (Orthodox/Catholic countries), extended families are the basic family unit. That is to say the modern western nuclear family is not the norm. Even in Western Europe, extended families (mostly of the stem type) were also clearly prevalent, England being a rare exception.

In the USA and urban mainland China, owning a house is a status symbol, investment, and improves your eligibility for marriage. So I suppose not owning a home and remaining with your parents would be perceived as "bad" there.

I think beyond that and won't be investing in a home any time soon though.
-I think mortgages are a liability
-I might migrate to another country depending on my career path
-Renting is more convenient and flexible

Would rather just get rich and buy a home full price later on.

[Ｓｏｌｉｄｕｓ Ｓｎａｋｅ]

Originally posted by Breathe:

"Still' implies the adult child never left, never tried, has no idea what real independence means, has no idea if they can survive on their own. Continuously living an extended adolescence with parents is not only a hindrance to growth for the adult child, it's also a hindrance to the parent(s)' growth and quality of life as well. Parents deserve to have their privacy back, their time, their money. They already invested in you. They already took care of you, provided for you. Now is your turn.

Kidding yourself into thinking you're doing something kind for them, something they even want, something that helps them... you're fooling no one but yourself. Get your life and your act together. Be an adult. Let them live the life they want. Just because they're your parents and they love you doesn't mean they want to be with you this long in life.

Don't be afraid to be an adult. Just remember your parents did it. You can too.

Everyone has a different set of circumstances. My dad lived with his parents until he was 55 and they passed away and inherited their money.

If I told my mom I were moving out tomorrow she would be devastated. Considering my parents are separated and I'm the man of the house. My mom is not tech savy, or handy with fixing things. If I left she would have to hire someone to do all the work, why do that when she can have her son do it for free?

What you said might've applied to the old boomer days but it's different now.

[Ｓｏｌｉｄｕｓ Ｓｎａｋｅ]

Originally posted by 𝖠̶̶̅𝖨̶̶̅𝖬̶̶̅:

I'm in my mid 20s with kids and we could barely afford to buy a $30,000 double wide...

Here you'd be lucky to find a 1 bathroom home in a poor suburban neighborhood for $600,000. The house I live in would sell for $800k, some of my neighbors houses 1 mil. This is in a poor hispanic neighborhood mind you in Los Angeles, things are the craziest here.

[craigsters]

you may have to move to another state or province and find cheaper living conditions else where, I have relatives in a few province's and Northwest Territories

And you can apply for subsidised housing , it's not all slums and ghettos and they even replaced my floor twice, yes I live in subsidised housing for 24 years, my rent is only one hundred and thirty nine dollars a month for a one bedroom, and I even have a in sweat locker big enough for bicycles or a small chest freezer

[Tommy Salami]

https://youtu.be/ZzSYVZIuZEc?si=WJGjvfhlvBr7aKNz

[nullpo]

I'd say that font is worse

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Originally posted by 🆁🅴🅿🆃🅸🅻🅸🅰🅽:

𝐌𝐚𝐣𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐈 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 (𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐮𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞) 𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐝 𝟑𝟓-𝟒𝟎 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬. 𝐈 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐮𝐭𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐧. 𝐈'𝐦 𝐬𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐩 𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐈 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐚𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭, 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐩𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐨𝐟 $𝟐,𝟎𝟎𝟎-$𝟑,𝟎𝟎𝟎 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐫𝐮𝐧 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐦 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐱 𝐚𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐝𝐝𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐃𝐓𝐋𝐀, 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐮𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐩𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐭. 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐛𝐢𝐝, 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐦 𝐠𝐨𝐞𝐬, 𝐈'𝐦 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 $𝟖𝟎𝟎,𝟎𝟎𝟎 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐈 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐦𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐚𝐝, 𝐰𝐡𝐲? 𝐋𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐦𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐦 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭. 𝐌𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐦 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐝𝐚𝐝 𝐝𝐢𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈'𝐦 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐞. 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐝𝐨 𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐬𝐚𝐲: "𝐘𝐨𝐔 𝐦𝐔𝐬𝐓 𝐋𝐢𝐕𝐞 𝐖𝐢𝐓𝐡 𝐮𝐑 𝐦𝐎𝐦" 𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐟 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭?

depend of country and years

before it is recommend to be married and find a nice place to live and to quit mom

but today with house crisis and it is not easy to find a job to keep the house it is not bad to stay with mom, some people bring with them their children and waifu for their mom to watch their kid

so wait house crisis to end and people going to quit mom and find their house to live with their waifu and children

[☎need4naiim☎]

Even some p*rnstars live with their parents.

Why shouldn't a gamer live with their relatives? As long as they support each other and keep respect for each other...

Having and/or earning money isn't a prerequisite for being a good character, a good individual despite the Modernism insinuates this hallucination everyday.

Back in Prophets' time, there were poor people EVERY SINGLE TIME. and rich people EVERY SINGLE TIME. For example, during the last prophet's era, Muhammed (S.A.W) had a special place to gather these type of respectful, poor and homeless individuals without a family. They were called as "Ashab-ı Suffa". They didn't have a job nor involved in trading. The Prophet made a room for them to stay in, adjacent to the Mosque he built in Medina with the help of other muslims, currently known as "Mescid-i Nebevi". When chosing some individual to teach Islam in a new region, it was chosen among them because they were the ones who were spending their times the most around the Prophet, listening him and trying to memorize everything he says. It was a proper SCHOOL in practice, for the unemployed, poor, homeless people who lost their families.

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Originally posted by 🆁🅴🅿🆃🅸🅻🅸🅰🅽:

𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐭?

I don't think it's bad unless someone is using and abusing their parents in some way.