American women dating Foreign men in record numbers

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Many American women are now seeking relationships abroad in foreign countries, with some citing the toxic dating scene in the U.S.

What are your thoughts on this? Have American men ruined their chances with their attitudes or are women now simply dating broadening their horizons in a global world?

[Duck Twacy]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Arvaos:

Many American women are now seeking relationships abroad in foreign countries, with some citing the toxic dating scene in the U.S.

What are your thoughts on this? Have American men ruined their chances with their attitudes or are women now simply dating broadening their horizons in a global world?

I've heard the opposite, particularly in the UK. American men are seen as more assertive, but that doesn't mean that UK nor European women are seeking American males. It's just the perspective.

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Diposting pertama kali oleh BunnieBealla:

more american hotdogs for me to eat uwu

No te olvides de la salsa. ;)

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Lol, American women copying passport bros

[Not Big Surprise]

Diposting pertama kali oleh TheHogfather:

Diposting pertama kali oleh Not Big Surprise:

blud really saw this thread and went "how can i make this about trans people"

How come this statement is about trans people specifically? Can't it be about anyone who "doesn't identify" as one of the REAL genders?

i don't think either of you are well-versed enough to understand anything regarding non-binary people

you in particular prove as much by implying non-binary people are wrong about their own gender

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Not Big Surprise:

Diposting pertama kali oleh TheHogfather:

How come this statement is about trans people specifically? Can't it be about anyone who "doesn't identify" as one of the REAL genders?

i don't think either of you are well-versed enough to understand anything regarding non-binary people

you in particular prove as much by implying non-binary people are wrong about their own gender

In reality there's only 2 genders

[Maria]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Neurotic Panda:

whats a man and whats a woman?

No one even knows anymore.

its just.. people dating people.

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You have no business spitting facts like these

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Diposting pertama kali oleh Joke in the Box:

Diposting pertama kali oleh Not Big Surprise:

i don't think either of you are well-versed enough to understand anything regarding non-binary people

you in particular prove as much by implying non-binary people are wrong about their own gender

In reality there's only 2 genders

in reality you have no say in who others are

[Mauserich]

Why not? If they look good and possibly find a partner in a country where their ancestors come from. These are good prerequisites for a large number of similarities that make living together easier.

[TheHogfather]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Not Big Surprise:

Diposting pertama kali oleh TheHogfather:

Yet you do? Validating people with mental disorders is not good for them.

i never said i did
i simply respect that it is not my place to judge whether or not someone's judgement of their identity is valid, because i have no way of seeing them nearly the same way as they are capable of seeing themselves

also you haven't got the slightest clue what mental health issues actually are nor how to help people deal with them

Validating them is absolutely you giving your say, you could be validating someone who isn't really "trans" or "non binary", just confused.

Literally everyone knows you don't validate hallucinations, you don't validate delusions, so why is it ok to validate dysphoria?

[Iggy Wolf]

Must be news to me. I'm Ukrainian born and raised and moved to the U.S. in 99' when I was 7. Yet, being "foreign born" never meant much to any of the women I've tried to date since then. Still doesn't right now.

Maybe cause I'm now "Americanized" but I'd chalk it up more to me not being the typical "RICH foreign men with ♥♥♥♥ accents" that they're probably thinking of. Thing is, most foreign dudes do NOT want to date American women.

[Not Big Surprise]

Diposting pertama kali oleh TheHogfather:

Diposting pertama kali oleh Not Big Surprise:

i never said i did
i simply respect that it is not my place to judge whether or not someone's judgement of their identity is valid, because i have no way of seeing them nearly the same way as they are capable of seeing themselves

also you haven't got the slightest clue what mental health issues actually are nor how to help people deal with them

Validating them is absolutely you giving your say, you could be validating someone who isn't really "trans" or "non binary", just confused.

Literally everyone knows you don't validate hallucinations, you don't validate delusions, so why is it ok to validate dysphoria?

It isn't my place to judge whether someone is right or wrong about their own identity.

it's also very telling how you confuse being trans and feeling dysphoria, and compare the two with hallucinations
the first one isn't an illness or symptom of such, and the second is something that you have no way to judge; you can't visualize someone else's dysphoria, or someone else's gender— you can't look and see whether or not it's there

and even with hallucinations, you don't just go "nah you're seeing things lol"
your priority is to first and foremost try to calm the person down, and only them try to lead them to think back and realize that they were hallucinating

[Pocahawtness]

Diposting pertama kali oleh MinionJoe:

The OP certainly makes some interesting suppositions.

It'll be interesting to see what these American women do once they realize they can't file Title IX complaints in Europe.

Yes they can. It just has different names in the countries of Europe.

Diposting pertama kali oleh Arvaos:

Many American women are now seeking relationships abroad in foreign countries, with some citing the toxic dating scene in the U.S.

What are your thoughts on this? Have American men ruined their chances with their attitudes or are women now simply dating broadening their horizons in a global world?

I really think it is hopeless to speculate as to why this is happening. Maybe better to just ask the women?

My own personal feeling is that it's not so much men, rather the division in the country at the moment and the way that some states are reducing women's rights. That's not happening in Europe and it may well be a reason why some women want to leave.

[TheHogfather]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Not Big Surprise:

Diposting pertama kali oleh TheHogfather:

Validating them is absolutely you giving your say, you could be validating someone who isn't really "trans" or "non binary", just confused.

Literally everyone knows you don't validate hallucinations, you don't validate delusions, so why is it ok to validate dysphoria?

It isn't my place to judge whether someone is right or wrong about their own identity.

it's also very telling how you confuse being trans and feeling dysphoria, and compare the two with hallucinations
the first one isn't an illness or symptom of such, and the second is something that you have no way to judge; you can't visualize someone else's dysphoria, or someone else's gender— you can't look and see whether or not it's there

and even with hallucinations, you don't just go "nah you're seeing things lol"
your priority is to first and foremost try to calm the person down, and only them try to lead them to think back and realize that they were hallucinating

But... Hallucinations and delusions don't HAVE to be the result from an illness? In fact, delusions is a term that would encompass dysphoria

[Not Big Surprise]

Diposting pertama kali oleh TheHogfather:

Diposting pertama kali oleh Not Big Surprise:

It isn't my place to judge whether someone is right or wrong about their own identity.

it's also very telling how you confuse being trans and feeling dysphoria, and compare the two with hallucinations
the first one isn't an illness or symptom of such, and the second is something that you have no way to judge; you can't visualize someone else's dysphoria, or someone else's gender— you can't look and see whether or not it's there

and even with hallucinations, you don't just go "nah you're seeing things lol"
your priority is to first and foremost try to calm the person down, and only them try to lead them to think back and realize that they were hallucinating

But... Hallucinations and delusions don't HAVE to be the result from an illness? In fact, delusions is a term that would encompass dysphoria

no it wouldn't lmfao
please, either stop talking about this or go educate yourself

[CrookerSun6000]

Im an American and I think America is plagued by a phoniness problem. Thats the problem with society. These girls are probably phonies too and dont even know it.