Women don't owe you anything

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Let's get one thing straight.

No woman is obligated to find you attractive, find you worth spending time on, find you interesting, or anything else in your favor.

Michael Jackson said it best. I'm looking at the man in the mirror. I'm asking him to change his ways.

Imagine if you spent as much time on working out as you do on ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ about women not giving you the time of day despite your supposed greatness lmao.

That's all Tikka has to say.

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Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από SlowMango:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Joke in the Box:

Smiles and nice guys don't get women.

Because 'nice guys' aren't actually nice outside of their own delusions.

exactly! Thats why you should always treat everyone lke trash.

[Vinz Clortho]

The myth that "there is someone out there for everyone" has done a lot of damage. Especially when it's reinforced by TV & movies where the long-suffering character always meets their ideal partner at the end. Just as they are getting on the plane, they arrive at the airport and announce that "I love you".

I think a lot of the niceguy syndrome is people who have grown up being told that and believing it by mum, dad, friends, society in general. Then when they realise that actually nobody owes them anything and they are not the main character in their own movie, it can have the effect of making them angry.

When they see the inherent unfairness of the world in someone who is physically attractive and has desirable characteristics succeeding in the dating world even though they treat everyone like ♥♥♥♥, it can only serve to add more fuel to the fire.

In all honesty the relations between genders have gotten so bad that I can actually see something like robots being the future. Maybe I am insulated here in my little online bubble but nobody seems to be interested in compromise anymore and that is one of the foundations of human interactions. You can't have everything that you want all of the time, even if this hyper-capitalist society tells you that you can.

[Vinz Clortho]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Tonepoet:

Imagine wasting all of that time and effort improving yourself only to still be rejected because you are cursed with some form of unlikeability intrinsic to your being.

I have felt like that myself many times. I guess it's a confidence issue and they are more difficult to solve than physical ones.
Years ago I read a comment that always stayed with me. It was a guy who had subscribed to the self-improvement line and he said that during his self-improvement journey, he had to keep reminding himself that for some reason women just don't like him, so that he would not get discouraged.

For example, he would go to the gym and get buff, go out to the nightclub feeling good but then he did not have any success. He bought a new wardrobe, had his teeth done, got a good job etc but still, he did not have any success in the dating world. Perhaps there was a problem with his personality that he could not see, who knows. In the end he felt like the whole thing was a waste of time and although he got buff and improved his life situation, he still did not get what he wanted lol. True story.

[Hobbit XIII]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Coeur de Bouddha:

The myth that "there is someone out there for everyone" has done a lot of damage. Especially when it's reinforced by TV & movies where the long-suffering character always meets their ideal partner at the end. Just as they are getting on the plane, they arrive at the airport and announce that "I love you".

I think a lot of the niceguy syndrome is people who have grown up being told that and believing it by mum, dad, friends, society in general. Then when they realise that actually nobody owes them anything and they are not the main character in their own movie, it can have the effect of making them angry.

When they see the inherent unfairness of the world in someone who is physically attractive and has desirable characteristics succeeding in the dating world even though they treat everyone like ♥♥♥♥, it can only serve to add more fuel to the fire.

In all honesty the relations between genders have gotten so bad that I can actually see something like robots being the future. Maybe I am insulated here in my little online bubble but nobody seems to be interested in compromise anymore and that is one of the foundations of human interactions. You can't have everything that you want all of the time, even if this hyper-capitalist society tells you that you can.

I'll go with robots if that is an option going forward.

some good points.

[MinionJoe]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από BunnieBealla:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Wonderland:

Its fine, robots and A.I. are on the way. A robot for every guy.

that just sounds depressing uwu

Women control access to sex. Men control access to relationships.

Which is more depressing: A man who uses a robot for sex; or a woman who uses a robot for a relationship?

[Mr. Malum]

I believe in equal rights and what OP said goes ditto for men towards women.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Coeur de Bouddha:

The myth that "there is someone out there for everyone" has done a lot of damage. Especially when it's reinforced by TV & movies where the long-suffering character always meets their ideal partner at the end. Just as they are getting on the plane, they arrive at the airport and announce that "I love you".

I think a lot of the niceguy syndrome is people who have grown up being told that and believing it by mum, dad, friends, society in general. Then when they realise that actually nobody owes them anything and they are not the main character in their own movie, it can have the effect of making them angry.

When they see the inherent unfairness of the world in someone who is physically attractive and has desirable characteristics succeeding in the dating world even though they treat everyone like ♥♥♥♥, it can only serve to add more fuel to the fire.

In all honesty the relations between genders have gotten so bad that I can actually see something like robots being the future. Maybe I am insulated here in my little online bubble but nobody seems to be interested in compromise anymore and that is one of the foundations of human interactions. You can't have everything that you want all of the time, even if this hyper-capitalist society tells you that you can.

Robots are easier. They don't demand things like certain modern women.

[jimbalayajones]

Cursed?!?...Good grief...We are all different...Men will eventually find that women see looks as secondary and it really just boils down to who a guy is...There are 2 flaws or should I say detriments to your story and how you feel...One...You may be spending all your time trying to be what you think a woman wants and you spend a small percentage of the time putting yourself out there...Two...You aspire for the Super Model...Ladies, you are all Super Models in your own right, but let us stick to societal perception...If you only have sights for what society sees as the top 10% of beautiful then you are ignoring 90% percent of the truly beautiful women in the world...It pays to be open to anything in the dating world...Of course, you want to be physically attracted to a woman but let us just say it is minimal at first...Certainly do not tell her that, but give it a fair chance...Sometimes you will find when you truly get to know a woman...She is more beautiful than you ever could have imagined...Be an evolved guy when you date...Don't listen to your Richard all the time...

[M͂͒̀λgi͡caℓ Ήo͓̽ﻇo̴]

Go hangout with a rock climber and see how truly weak of human u really r

[Grim Reaper]

https://youtu.be/GvtPmX_3AFQ

[Vinz Clortho]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από M͂͒̀λgi͡caℓ Ήo͓̽ﻇo̴:

Go hangout with a rock climber and see how truly weak of human u really r :pfff:

Rock climbing is super cool, but the grass is always greener my friend. If you are talking about the free solo people, I would say that most of them have serious personality issues, just in different manifestations. Have you seen how many free solo climbers have died in falls? The ones that are married are usually causing their partner a lot of suffering through worry. Although many of them are single, seeing as how most of the hardcore ones live in their vans and just drive from place to place. It begs the question why someone would choose to do that in the first place. The reasons that come to mind for me are that they find life boring and need the excitement, they have low self-esteem and feel like they need to do something extraordinary to gain approval, or they are subconsciously depressed and want to die.

And yes, I am sitting here in my computer chair saying that. I have never even been to the foot of a mountain, never mind climbed up to the top of one.

There is a good movie with Patrick Swayze called Point Break about a group of surfers who are also bank robbers. On the surface they seem like your stereotypical cool have-it-all alpha bros, but underneath they are basically depresssed psychopathic thrill-seekers.

[Xero_Daxter]

*laughs in a pimp named slickback*

[Uncle Sam]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από BunnieBealla:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Wonderland:

Its fine, robots and A.I. are on the way. A robot for every guy.

that just sounds depressing uwu

And dystopic too, since relantionship will be further commodified (even more profits for the Corporations in general) and dehumanization in general might be even more common than it's atm. Yay, the future is not going to have severe side effects at all of course

[M͂͒̀λgi͡caℓ Ήo͓̽ﻇo̴]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Coeur de Bouddha:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από M͂͒̀λgi͡caℓ Ήo͓̽ﻇo̴:

Go hangout with a rock climber and see how truly weak of human u really r

Rock climbing is super cool, but the grass is always greener my friend. If you are talking about the free solo people, I would say that most of them have serious personality issues, just in different manifestations. Have you seen how many free solo climbers have died in falls? The ones that are married are usually causing their partner a lot of suffering through worry. Although many of them are single, seeing as how most of the hardcore ones live in their vans and just drive from place to place. It begs the question why someone would choose to do that in the first place. The reasons that come to mind for me are that they find life boring and need the excitement, they have low self-esteem and feel like they need to do something extraordinary to gain approval, or they are subconsciously depressed and want to die.

And yes, I am sitting here in my computer chair saying that. I have never even been to the foot of a mountain, never mind climbed up to the top of one.

There is a good movie with Patrick Swayze called Point Break about a group of surfers who are also bank robbers. On the surface they seem like your stereotypical cool have-it-all alpha bros, but underneath they are basically depresssed psychopathic thrill-seekers.

Tell me u never climbed with a group of professionals rock climbers without telling u never climbed with a group of professional rock climbers

Ur definitely Americant lol

Imagine thinking u know something without fully experiencing it. Yet you will only listen to paid actors on tv . I’ll never understand how low vibration humans will always choose to be so weak. Spirituality. Physically. Mentally

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Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Tikka Mashallah:

Women don't owe you anything

They do owe me an apology when they slap my face.