Are You Dominant or Submissive?

[BunnieBealla]

are you aggressive or passive? uwu

[permanent name]

i guess I don't think I'm either, and question whether I am on that spectrum.

I like the idea of being able to submit and let other people take care of things, but I also don't like losing control over things. I'm not sure I really fit neatly into the concepts, or rather that I don't strongly identify with one or the other. or even with the idea of switching, which when I imagine myself doing it feels performative and inauthentic. switch situations I've been in have made me feel that same inauthenticity, like it was just some skill I learned somewhere for professional reasons.

[Rio]

Dominant, and I was very so when I was younger. But I usually suppress it these days, because fighting all the time doesn't benefit me. And its better for my health to keep my stress levels lower.

Naturally I was also very controlling. But people didn't like it. So I learned to be less of that as well.

[Candyy]

A mix of everything rly 🤔

[permanent name]

probably worth pointing out that this dichotomy is one of the things non-binary cultures are typically reacting to.

[TwisterCat]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von N-Ding the Rice Farmer™:

I'm a violent pacifist.

Yeah, this. Whatever this is.

[Nogsec]

never thought about it but I certainly dont want to be dominated .

[permanent name]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Jennifer the Penguin:

never thought about it but I certainly dont want to be dominated .

well one way submissive feelings express themselves is by not wanting to be dominated so much that it becomes a complex fear, and the only way they can relieve themselves of that anxiety is ... to be dominated. makes people feel so kimchi.

[BunnieBealla]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Jennifer the Penguin:

never thought about it but I certainly dont want to be dominated .

booooo no bueno uwu

[Nekoborg]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von BunnieBealla:

Are You Dominant or Submissive? uwu

I am a Libertarian Pagan and will help "subversives" rebel against their owners (Masters or Mistresses).

I have ability to inform them on how to escape human trafficking and slavery.

I can also instruct them on how to fight back against their oppressors and homemade "tools" to accomplish such rebellions to gain freedom from human trafficking and slavery.

B D S M = Human trafficking and slavery; it is illegal. Subversives should contact the police and report their oppressors (Masters and Mistresses). #MeToo

We ended slavery and fought a civil war in the 1860s to usher in an age of freedom for the oppressed.

[Chaosolous]

I live by the rule of: mind your own but take no ♥♥♥♥.

I'd rather be chill but if people want to go I'm willing to go further then they are.

Whatever that is.

[Triple G]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Nekoborg:

I can also instruct them on how to fight back against their oppressors and homemade "tools" to accomplish such rebellions to gain freedom from human trafficking and slavery.

Hmm - or start with using the safe word first. Or have some talk before engaging in certain actions...

[x]

I walk into a room and everyone can feel my 'Dan Schneider' like presence

[Xautos]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von BunnieBealla:

Are You Dominant or Submissive?

at what?

Ursprünglich geschrieben von BunnieBealla:

are you aggressive or passive?

at what?

[BunnieBealla]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Xautos:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von BunnieBealla:

Are You Dominant or Submissive?

at what?

Ursprünglich geschrieben von BunnieBealla:

are you aggressive or passive?

at what?

for me uwu

[BunnieBealla]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Void:

I walk into a room and everyone can feel my 'Dan Schneider' like presence

the bbq foot fetish shines through you uwu