Usually depending on the time spent in a relationship - it evolves into that anyways.

Depends on how much of the things I hate about that person. If the person is toxic to the relationship then that’s a no. But if it’s something minor like diet, not agreeing where to eat, or just doing something inconvenience me then I can work around it.

I already hate most people I encounter daily anyway.

Sounds kind of frustrating. Think I'd prefer a love-love relationship a lot more.

Nope.

Originally posted by Breathe:

No.. no. Just, no. Such couples are just not right for each other.

It doesn´t need to be a bad thing though. Love-hate relationship is not the same as a toxic one, for which i would agree. But usually there are some things to be found later, which are not extremely lovable, and perhaps even a bit annoying. Then it depends how to deal with it - and if there´s more love or more hate...

Originally posted by Breathe:

I wouldn't call that love-hate. Maybe it's a difference in language? Those kinds of things can become endearing or things to playfully laugh off. If they're really buggy & can be adjusted or worked with then that too. Nobody's perfect but finding love with someone, especially one a person wants to commit themselves to, means loving all of them, not just the parts we like.

Could be a difference in language. Imho it´s rather a question of the temper of the people. If they´re rather calm, it probably looks more like You say. If they´re rather passionate they might shout at each other from time to time. Perhaps throw things after each other occasionally. Which looks different, but is the same thing. At least that´s what i meant.

Else it´s rather the thing that two people are attracted to each other, even if they hate each other. Usually people who have fear to be left alone and they always want to get confirmation for themselves out of the other one. Or people who are emotionally unstable. But it´s then not the thing that the two aren´t meant for each other - but more about that at least one of the partners has a slight mental health problem. And i´m unsure who is looking for that, because then it´s about patience. It can work, but perhaps any patience has limits, even more so when no progress or change is to be seen. And it will be the same in any other relationship for or with these people, while it´s perhaps easier if both have the same problem.

Originally posted by sıla:

Do you think you would enjoy a love-hate relationship with someone?

If you find yourself in such a dynamic, I hope you navigate it with care and prioritize your well-being. Wishing you the best.

OP that's my default relationship with most humans.

Certainly not.

Originally posted by Breathe:

About mental illness, as long as the person is doing what they can & getting help, maybe even both to do couples counseling on how to best navigate their relationship & differences, then that's cool.

I don´t think it works. Those i have met always fell back to the old pattern sooner or later. And it´s not something which is easy to change, or rationally explained to make it easier to handle - even if it is. It´s usually deeply rooted within the people. They were abandoned, or betrayed, or cheated on too often - or have experienced some traumatizing things like being sexually abused as a child, or some sibling committed suicide, one parent was alcoholic and aggressive, etc.

They would need to deal with it before entering a relationship, but the culprit is that they think that the solution is a relationship to solve their problem to get the confirmation they need, and they can´t be alone. Usually they´re not in it to share some feeling, but only to get love, which sucks You dry sooner or later. If this is the love-hate relationship i´d rather opt out of it as soon as i realize it. The couple counseling would be wasted money and time. And all the talk would be for nothing.

That´s why i´m unsure if OP meant this with it - but rather the more "funny" or "passionate" "love-hate" relationship in which it is a bit heated sometimes, but all in all everything works out, or can be solved playfully as You said.

Originally posted by Yeno:

No, it is impossible to escape and they might end up killing you.

Nah - those who say that wouldn´t actually do that. And depending on how weird the people appear one can always ask. And the times, when i said something like "Hypothetical case: Let´s say i stay here with You - would i need to worry about that You kill me while i´m asleep?" the answer was always "No." (in variation). And i can´t say they lied to me - so i guess the percentage of people actually doing it is rather low, while i have to admit that i didn´t do a representative study, so i can´t say anything about the margin of error...

Originally posted by Yeno:

No, it is impossible to escape and they might end up killing you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oTzNLipR8k

Originally posted by sıla:

Do you think you would enjoy a love-hate relationship with someone?

unfortunately, it seems to be the only type i can work with. its not good for my lifespan i think