You Can't Be Single As A Woman?

[BuniBealla]

why is there a believed notion that you can't be single as a woman not by choice as men are always constantly lining up outside the door?
and if that's not the case it's the result of a personal decision to abstain from dating or because they're extremely picky and have unrealistic standards
If that is true, why does the term Femcels exist? Aren't they supposed to just be the gender switch of incels who believe their bad luck in dating is due to complicated circumstances? uwu

[kitty]

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Why couldn't you be single and have men lining up outside the door? Seems many live that way.

probably because life doesn't always go the way people expect or hope it goes uwu

Tell me about it.

[BuniBealla]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από AerSilver ♞:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από BuniBealla:

If that is true, why does the term Femcels exist?

Femcels aren't a thing. All women have *some* degree of options, even the most unattractive ones. They just choose not to entertain them. I know you and many others here don't agree with me on that one, but that's how I see it.

but how do you know that for sure though, that is my point
It is something that is expected and when that's not the case the negative assumptions kick in uwu

[steven1mac]

If incel women find incel guys one of the problems they would be afraid to talk to each other. That is why in almost every relationship there is an outgoing person. Frequently they are an Ahole no matter what the gender is, but just a frequently that are decent.

You might be able to make some excursion where lonely guys go, some might not look at you twice in a pub, but a comic book store you will be the center of attention. The old adage girls control sex and guys control relationship still has a lot of truth to it.

[The Tunnel Ratencio]

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You can be single, if they have to high of standards or just don't want to be committed to a relationship.

but WHY is that? what if the woman does want a partner and has the lowest standards and yet still can't find someone? Why is that treated like it's an impossibility? uwu

Is that an invitation to take a number line up on your door UwUr?

And maybe it seems that way because there are way more incels tham ''femcels''? cant keep up with these youngsters words because if its the same thing then shouldnt incel apply to all that kind of people regardelss of gender?

[Painkilleruk]

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In many Asian countries, they call them "leftover women" (it's actually a derogatory term) which are single women over the age of 27. Their mentality is that a man can find women of all ages whereas for women, once they hit an age, their chances of finding a man drops (probably due to biological clock of having children).

And don't shoot the messenger, it's not my brief (not in my culture). :hp_nikki:

I love the asian way, my friend lives in china now and told me about it. Women over a age are called all sorts left overs, orange at the bottom of the basket etc and men over 30 are seen as prizes.

[LexAnimex]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Ratencio the comRat:

because if its the same thing then shouldnt incel apply to all that kind of people regardelss of gender?

Yes. The word "femcel" is ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ stupid because incel is genderless

[BuniBealla]

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Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Ratencio the comRat:

because if its the same thing then shouldnt incel apply to all that kind of people regardelss of gender?

Yes. The word "femcel" is ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ stupid because incel is genderless

agreed uwu

[Chaosolous]

I think the idea that women can't be single involuntarily comes from the understanding within a lot of men about how low our standards will get in some of us. To the point where the thought is like "Well, someone wants ♥♥♥♥♥ enough to sink that low. It doesn't matter beyond that."

That says a lot more about the men thinking that though then anything else.

IDK though, I've never given it any thought beyond this moment.

I would say anyone can be single for any reason because we're all human and that hating another gender simply because of your own inadequacies (real or perceived) is bad form regardless if you're a man or a woman.

[Uncle Sam]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από LexAnimex:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Ratencio the comRat:

because if its the same thing then shouldnt incel apply to all that kind of people regardelss of gender?

Yes. The word "femcel" is ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ stupid because incel is genderless

Indeed, since it was originally coined in the 1990s by a queer Canadian female student named Alana. She created a website for people who were lonely, had never had sex, or had not had a relationship in a long time, regardless of their gender or orientation. The term was intended to be inclusive and supportive, providing a community for people who were struggling with social awkwardness, marginalization, or mental illness.

However as time went that word got hijacked and used for other purposes.

[AerSilver ♞]

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Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από AerSilver ♞:

Femcels aren't a thing. All women have *some* degree of options, even the most unattractive ones. They just choose not to entertain them. I know you and many others here don't agree with me on that one, but that's how I see it.

but how do you know that for sure though, that is my point
It is something that is expected and when that's not the case the negative assumptions kick in uwu

Only thing I know for sure is that there will never be a shortage of thirsty males who will commit/go for anything as long as that gives them access to even a chance at getting some "fun times". 

To clarify, I'm sure there are plenty of women out there who are single by choice, but they all have their options, whether they choose to entertain them or not. Women are just generally more into committed relationships than men are, they want and need them more than men, imho.

[BuniBealla]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από AerSilver ♞:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από BuniBealla:

but how do you know that for sure though, that is my point
It is something that is expected and when that's not the case the negative assumptions kick in uwu

Only thing I know for sure is that there will never be a shortage of thirsty males who will commit/go for anything as long as that gives them access to even a chance at getting some "fun times". 

To clarify, I'm sure there are plenty of women out there who are single by choice, but they all have their options, whether they choose to entertain them or not. Women are just generally more into committed relationships than men are, they want and need them more than men, imho.

I'm not talking about sex though, im talking about an actual relationship
yes there are women out there single with options, but I'm specifically talking about the ones who are single with none uwu

[AerSilver ♞]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από BuniBealla:

I'm not talking about sex though, im talking about an actual relationship
yes there are women out there single with options, but I'm specifically talking about the ones who are single with none uwu

Regular access to "fun time" are one of the main reasons many men get into relationships though. Single women with no options are really not something I believe exists.

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από AerSilver ♞:

they all have their options, whether they choose to entertain them or not.

[BuniBealla]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από AerSilver ♞:

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I'm not talking about sex though, im talking about an actual relationship
yes there are women out there single with options, but I'm specifically talking about the ones who are single with none uwu

Regular access to "fun time" are one of the main reasons many men get into relationships though. Single women with no options are really not something I believe exists.

If definitely does exist
some of us are practically as invisible to men as some men are to women uwu