What are your deal-breakers on a dates?

[Arvaos]

What are your deal breakers on a date?

No discussion of politics and religion being the obvious one, what are some others?

[Raelic]

Not engaging in conversation.
Being rude to servers.

Those are the ones I encounter. I have others probably, but they don't really happen except on the internet.

[Arvaos]

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Escrito originalmente por Arvaos:

It's the man that provides and protects.

To show those traits on the first date is a sign that you will treat her the same way in a relationship.

I think it is strange to generalize these things. You simplify the situation to just "a man and a woman". But in reality you are persons, are you not? And all persons are different. You should communicate and see what fits. Not go by these stereotypes.

You make an excellent case but I'm sure that's true in the United States where it's very progressive on such matters but most cultures are not like the US.

[Arvaos]

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Escrito originalmente por Arvaos:

"Men should always be taller and pay for the woman."

"If you want to be a gentleman, pull your wallet out of your pocket."

"It's masculine to pay for her."

"It's the man that provides and protects."

Being a gentleman and being masculine has nothing to do with women. What you're describing is low-level desperate simp behavior.

That may be the case in the G7 but it's very different outside the progressive world.

Since you guys have mastered the art of dating, why are there so many affairs and divorces in the progressive Western countries?

Latin American Cultures (e.g., Mexico, Brazil, Argentina)
It is quite common for men to pay for dates and other social expenses. Machismo culture, which emphasizes traditional male roles, often influences these expectations.

Middle Eastern Cultures (e.g., Saudi Arabia, UAE, Egypt)
Men paying for expenses is deeply rooted in cultural and sometimes religious practices. It is seen as part of the man's role to provide and take care of financial responsibilities.

East Asian Cultures (e.g., China, Japan, South Korea)
Men paying for dates is a common practice. This is partly due to traditional views on gender roles, although younger generations are gradually shifting towards more equitable financial practices.

South Asian Cultures (e.g., India, Pakistan, Bangladesh)
Men are generally expected to cover costs on dates and other social outings. This is influenced by traditional gender roles and societal expectations.

Southern European Cultures (e.g., Italy, Spain, Greece)
There is a strong cultural expectation for men to pay on dates. Traditional views on courtship and gender roles play a significant role here.

[Arvaos]

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It's the man that provides and protects.

To show those traits on the first date is a sign that you will treat her the same way in a relationship.

I think that is a very old fashioned view and it is fine for women to be protective too.

That's how it is in a large majority of countries around the world.

It's a reality and there are real dangers once you go outside the G7.

Violence against women and girls is a daily reality. Violence against women and girls is a problem of pandemic proportions. At least one out of every three women around the world has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused.

[Tonepoet]

Are they U.S.D.A. organic dates or conventional dates? I ask because the price difference varies quite drastically between the two different kinds.

[Arvaos]

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Are they U.S.D.A. organic dates or conventional dates? I ask because the price difference varies quite drastically between the two different kinds. :penny::penny:

I'd award you but I don't have many points.

[c Z p]

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Escrito originalmente por The Truth Speaks:

Being a gentleman and being masculine has nothing to do with women. What you're describing is low-level desperate simp behavior.

That may be the case in the G7 but it's very different outside the progressive world.

Since you guys have mastered the art of dating, why are there so many affairs and divorces in the progressive Western countries?

Latin American Cultures (e.g., Mexico, Brazil, Argentina)
It is quite common for men to pay for dates and other social expenses. Machismo culture, which emphasizes traditional male roles, often influences these expectations.

Middle Eastern Cultures (e.g., Saudi Arabia, UAE, Egypt)
Men paying for expenses is deeply rooted in cultural and sometimes religious practices. It is seen as part of the man's role to provide and take care of financial responsibilities.

East Asian Cultures (e.g., China, Japan, South Korea)
Men paying for dates is a common practice. This is partly due to traditional views on gender roles, although younger generations are gradually shifting towards more equitable financial practices.

South Asian Cultures (e.g., India, Pakistan, Bangladesh)
Men are generally expected to cover costs on dates and other social outings. This is influenced by traditional gender roles and societal expectations.

Southern European Cultures (e.g., Italy, Spain, Greece)
There is a strong cultural expectation for men to pay on dates. Traditional views on courtship and gender roles play a significant role here.

you've got brain dmg dont u

[c Z p]

oh well, you're not the first and you wont be the last I guess.

[Arvaos]

Escrito originalmente por c Z p:

Escrito originalmente por Arvaos:

That may be the case in the G7 but it's very different outside the progressive world.

Since you guys have mastered the art of dating, why are there so many affairs and divorces in the progressive Western countries?

Latin American Cultures (e.g., Mexico, Brazil, Argentina)
It is quite common for men to pay for dates and other social expenses. Machismo culture, which emphasizes traditional male roles, often influences these expectations.

Middle Eastern Cultures (e.g., Saudi Arabia, UAE, Egypt)
Men paying for expenses is deeply rooted in cultural and sometimes religious practices. It is seen as part of the man's role to provide and take care of financial responsibilities.

East Asian Cultures (e.g., China, Japan, South Korea)
Men paying for dates is a common practice. This is partly due to traditional views on gender roles, although younger generations are gradually shifting towards more equitable financial practices.

South Asian Cultures (e.g., India, Pakistan, Bangladesh)
Men are generally expected to cover costs on dates and other social outings. This is influenced by traditional gender roles and societal expectations.

Southern European Cultures (e.g., Italy, Spain, Greece)
There is a strong cultural expectation for men to pay on dates. Traditional views on courtship and gender roles play a significant role here.

you've got brain dmg dont u

Those are the cultural norms and traditions around the world.

I didn't write or make them.

Is that your refute? A petty insult?

[True Beard]

When I arrive to pick her up and she already has a beer in hand. Then asks if she can finish it in the car on the way to the restaurant.

[videogames10]

Escrito originalmente por Arvaos:

What are your deal-breakers on a dates?

Her wanting to show me her knife wounds does not make for a good first impression.

[replika]

Escrito originalmente por Arvaos:

What are your deal breakers on a date?

No discussion of politics and religion being the obvious one, what are some others?

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[c Z p]

Escrito originalmente por Arvaos:

Those are the cultural norms and traditions around the world.

I didn't write or make them.

Is that your refute? A petty insult?

you're insulting not me

what you claim, they're not norms
just misguided western-influencer-wannabe, low-value rants.
the way you're viewing the world is so petty tbh.

[Tazor]

Phone.

Smoking.

Alcohol.

Probing for weaknesses.

Wants me to pay for her. Because if she wants me to pay for everything on a date, it's crystal clear she is in it for the money. She will want me to pay for everything later on while she saves her money in a bank account.

I know a guy who is paying for everything in the household. He isn't rich. The woman is doing whatever she wants with her money. Mostly paying debt on HER house while they live in HIS house. So she basically found a sucker where to live rent free with all expenses paid while she pays off her house. Charming woman.

[☎need4naiim☎]

I ask:

Do you believe in the existence of Satan?
Do you believe in God?


If both of the answers are NO, it is over at THAT moment, without ANY further yada yada....

Consider it almost a yeet.