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Men's mental health month
It's pride month yet again! Good i love giving even more attention to the lgbtq+ community this month even tho they get attention year round. Also a small detail, did you know that it is men's metal health month this month?
Did you also know a man in the uk commits suicide every hour? For every 2 depressed women we have 1 depressed man and the suicide rate of men to women is 2:1, crazy i know! We should give more attention to men's mental health in general.
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a common mental health complaint from men is not being able to feel comfortable with any given identity. they're always being made to strive for progress of some kind, and taught to view themselves as evil incarnate if they don't. either they're the white knight, or they're vile and supposed to be throwing rocks at one.

This is the work of the social agenda of both feminists and LGBT groups. Men can no longer be men as intended, have to fit that slither between being men and being acceptable to PC. The world that men built has been turned against men so most lose their identity in the process.
I hate the word misogynistic for instance, every man is unique who is to say what is what good or bad. Its a word thrown around when women dont like something, but is there a term for females that mirror it? no.
I am me ( and the other 36 of me ) I am a man, i have no care about offending people, bowing to PC against my own opinions, what are you if someone else is telling you who to be? in a cult? or wasting your life trying to fit into a ever changing landscape of degrading changes. People go on that women are better than men, trans are better etc however put any single gender on a island and within 50-80 years the population goes to zero and dies out.
Legutóbb szerkesztette: Painkilleruk; 2024. jún. 7., 10:31
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Stranger eredeti hozzászólása:
tons of people 'try out' surgery and die from rhinoplasty complications. the popularization of trans as hip and cool doubles as an attempt to subject people to surgery complications and create a mass blowback against the concept. the same is true of breast reductions as well as breast enhancements, both of which occur in regular propaganda-driven waves. people's dysphoria is actively courted and enhanced to push a profit angle, and people who aren't dysphoric are given FOMO (fear of missing out) over it.

a common mental health complaint from men is not being able to feel comfortable with any given identity. they're always being made to strive for progress of some kind, and taught to view themselves as evil incarnate if they don't. either they're the white knight, or they're vile and supposed to be throwing rocks at one.
you do know that, even assuming you start hrt immediately, it still takes a long while before any surgeries can be made
and that's without taking into account that many of us don't really seek any surgeries

yes, people are nuts. supporting or decrying anything will make them do outlandish, self-harming, inconceivable things no rational human being should do, and this is normal so you can't just lock them up or assume it's a non-issue. no matter how appealing both of those options are, to me, personally. minus captivity I don't like that.

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Stranger eredeti hozzászólása:
[...]they're always being made to strive for progress of some kind[...]
Everyone should be doing that, as much as in one's abilities to do so, and as human beings there is much we can do in that regard.

Can you expand upon this discomfort with any identity? Why is it that such men wouldn't choose their own identity; a man of integrity, a man of honesty, a man of service (to humankind, nature or both)? You mention white knight vs vile as though those are the only choices. Is it perhaps that such men accept a role or status of mediocrity rather than challenging themselves to do better or to be their own man, to create a path where none has existed before?

yes we can all die for the cause, and if we work our fingers past the bone it's simply a case of too much zeal. not the natural consequence of the wrong set of priorities for an individual, priorities sized for a whole society, becoming the focus of an individual's life.

sure, here's a few samples of male pattern identity crisis: too weak, too ugly, too bald, car isn't fast, car isn't expensive, car isn't red so it goes faster and is expensive and has higher insurance premiums and gets stopped by cops more and gets more attention to distract from being short fat ugly and bald.

As for the pathing choice, for many being exceptional at tearing others down is simply the 'right' solution, and also the easiest one to grasp and feel success and progress at. these 'good guys' don't mean it anyway, so they have it coming. Justified. 🤠
Legutóbb szerkesztette: Stranger; 2024. jún. 7., 10:44
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you do know that, even assuming you start hrt immediately, it still takes a long while before any surgeries can be made
and that's without taking into account that many of us don't really seek any surgeries

yes, people are nuts. supporting or decrying anything will make them do outlandish, self-harming, inconceivable things no rational human being should do, and this is normal so you can't just lock them up or assume it's a non-issue. no matter how appealing both of those options are, to me, personally. minus captivity I don't like that.
again, people aren't just getting gender affirming surgeries on a whim
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Stranger eredeti hozzászólása:

yes, people are nuts. supporting or decrying anything will make them do outlandish, self-harming, inconceivable things no rational human being should do, and this is normal so you can't just lock them up or assume it's a non-issue. no matter how appealing both of those options are, to me, personally. minus captivity I don't like that.
again, people aren't just getting gender affirming surgeries on a whim

no but they are getting all kinds of appearance-oriented surgeries on a whim. this is just one more they could be compelled to seek out, whether it's something they truly want or just another flavor of the decade.

I'd say most trans people aren't doing these things on a whim, but sidelining people who just wanted titties and a set of pronouns they liked and getting their 'trans pass' so they can expand their social circle and saying they aren't trans is opening a can of worms.

people who have gay sex are gay, or bi, even if they were only doing it to expand their social circle and get clout.

same with people getting surgeries for the insta so they can grow their brand. or changing their presentation and pronouns to bolster their acting career, same as actors playing up their bisexuality while in a committed straight relationship, 0 homosexual experience, and regularly donating to hate groups the same as any closeted political candidate would.



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Stranger eredeti hozzászólása:
yes we can all die for the cause, and if we work our fingers past the bone it's simply a case of too much zeal. not the natural consequence of the wrong set of priorities for an individual, priorities sized for a whole society, becoming the focus of an individual's life.
What are your priorities?

Stranger eredeti hozzászólása:
sure, here's a few samples of male pattern identity crisis: too weak, too ugly, too bald, car isn't fast, car isn't expensive, car isn't red so it goes faster and is expensive and has higher insurance premiums and gets stopped by cops more and gets more attention to distract from being short fat ugly and bald.
Those are meaningless things. Why are you assigning such meaning to such things, especially as it appears you resent them?

Stranger eredeti hozzászólása:
As for the pathing choice, for many being exceptional at tearing others down is simply the 'right' solution, and also the easiest one to grasp and feel success and progress at. these 'good guys' don't mean it anyway.
I don't know what you mean here. The men in my life don't appear to do such things with each other. Sure, the path of least resistance might be to tear and claw one's way to the top of the scrap yard, others be damned. I guess, I don't know, I'd need for you to explain a bit more if you can.

don't really have any; has been beaten out of me. I am between the world's biggest rock and the universe's most nebulous hard place, and my actions are largely the result of circumstances rather than individual will at this point. I float downhill with the rest of them.


meaning is what you make of them; you've chosen to assume that all my words refer to myself, my life, and my identity. this is wrong. you are doing what you are questioing me about.



have you been on the internet before, anywhere that degenerates congregate?
Legutóbb szerkesztette: Stranger; 2024. jún. 7., 11:02
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don't really have any; has been beaten out of me. I am between the world's biggest rock and the universe's most nebulous hard place, and my actions are largely the result of circumstances rather than individual will at this point. I float downhill with the rest of them.
Have you tried getting help for any of it?

Stranger eredeti hozzászólása:
meaning is what you make of them; you've chosen to assume that all my words refer to myself, my life, and my identity. this is wrong. you are doing what you are questioing me about.
You chose those words though, I didn't. You brought them into the conversation which told me they're either a focus of some kind or important to you in some way. I can only go by what I've been given --and you gave me that.


Stranger eredeti hozzászólása:
have you been on the internet before, anywhere that degenerates congregate?
You mean here? Yes. But this is a male safe-space. Men are encouraged here more so than women. Although... a strong 'yes' to your question as that is what this is at this forum. Even so, I think it's important to try. I'll always believe that. It's why I'm trying to converse with you and uncover what you mean. I'm trying to understand.

people have been helping as much as they are able to do, most of my recent contact with the medical establishment has been horrific and led to multiple instances of medical torture. the alternative resources have ranged from problematic and threatening to out and out wastes of time. people have told me I'm not going to get any help, but that they'll sign off on my trying. multiple times. and the result is always the same.


oh okay let me just stop using words then. problem solved.



seriously, is this the only forum you've ever seen? this is starting to resemble an AI conversation where you don't know anything except what's in my posts.


you aren't some kind of abusive individual pretending to be an AI again, are you?
Legutóbb szerkesztette: Stranger; 2024. jún. 7., 11:16
people aren't just getting gender affirming surgeries on a whim

They are getting them because they have been hoodwinked about the long term health consequences. Most will not make it to old age nor will they have an easy passing.

Check the suicide rates among operated trans men in 10 years, if you can find them.

moderator: this is not "hate". I wish them all the very best of luck in their decisions. Despite this i expect to be banned for this message because the victims and the enablers will report it and moderators will obey as they all wallow in a fantasy that they if they can just suppress all the warnings, they will be just fine, while they imagine "hate" coming from all directions.

It's like the angsty teenager who refuses to listen to advice from people who know better and gets addicted to opiates.
Legutóbb szerkesztette: Coinkydink; 2024. jún. 7., 11:13
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again, people aren't just getting gender affirming surgeries on a whim

no but they are getting all kinds of appearance-oriented surgeries on a whim. this is just one more they could be compelled to seek out, whether it's something they truly want or just another flavor of the decade.

I'd say most trans people aren't doing these things on a whim, but sidelining people who just wanted titties and a set of pronouns they liked and getting their 'trans pass' so they can expand their social circle and saying they aren't trans is opening a can of worms.

people who have gay sex are gay, or bi, even if they were only doing it to expand their social circle and get clout.

same with people getting surgeries for the insta so they can grow their brand. or changing their presentation and pronouns to bolster their acting career, same as actors playing up their bisexuality while in a committed straight relationship, 0 homosexual experience, and regularly donating to hate groups the same as any closeted political candidate would.
yeah, it's not like being trans exposes you to intense social backlash, discrimination, and harassment, right? /s

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people aren't just getting gender affirming surgeries on a whim

They are getting them because they have been hoodwinked about the long term health consequences. Most will not make it to old age nor will they have an easy passing.

Check the suicide rates among operated trans men in 10 years, if you can find them.

moderator: this is not "hate". I wish them all the very best of luck in their decisions. Despite this i expect to be banned for this message because the victims and the enablers will report it and moderators will obey as they all wallow in a fantasy that they if they can just suppress all the warnings, they will be just fine, while they imagine "hate" coming from all directions.

It's like the angsty teenager who refuses to listen to advice from people who know better and gets addicted to opiates.
no lol, people go into surgeries knowing full well what the consequences are
it's called "informed consent"
no thanks, last professional had to face that what I experienced was real then basically told me their license was on the line if they didn't keep pushing their lie. Even in the face of irrefutable evidence they acknowledged as real. Complete crazyperson. I got the same feeling from my sleep specialist, too, and almost every other doctor I've seen on public health care gets uncomfortable the closer I get to any trail of evidence that might lead back to my cyberization.

If you wanna give me insurance so I can go back to a private practice and get actual care that'd be great. Otherwise I'm not sure you really have a solution for me. Walking into a clinic and putting on a uniform only gets people so far, by design.

Idk where you get this men's only spaces; I struggle to think of one I couldn't just present as male and walk into.
Legutóbb szerkesztette: Stranger; 2024. jún. 7., 11:31
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no thanks, last professional had to face that what I experienced was real then basically told me their license was on the line if they didn't keep pushing their lie. Even in the face of irrefutable evidence they acknowledged as real. Complete crazyperson. I got the same feeling from my sleep specialist, too, and almost every other doctor I've seen on public health care gets uncomfortable the closer I get to any trail of evidence that might lead back to my cyberization.

If you wanna give me insurance so I can go back to a private practice and get actual care that'd be great. Otherwise I'm not sure you really have a solution for me. Walking into a clinic and putting on a uniform only gets people so far, by design.

Idk where you get this men's only spaces; I struggle to think of one I couldn't just present as male and walk into.

Therapists and specialists are just as messed up as the rest of us just have training to make you believe they are not. Its always the same old so I agree that it is all pointless. Public healthcare is absolutely terrible and private costs you an arm and a leg, Im having surgery soon and thats costing me £6800 / $8700 for a simple job.
At the end of the day ive found there is no one that can understand let alone help without the common things that pi** me off like " things will get better" or Breathing.

If you want to chat im always around these days, person in need to person in need.
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It's pride month yet again! Good i love giving even more attention to the lgbtq+ community this month even tho they get attention year round. Also a small detail, did you know that it is men's metal health month this month?
Did you also know a man in the uk commits suicide every hour? For every 2 depressed women we have 1 depressed man and the suicide rate of men to women is 2:1, crazy i know! We should give more attention to men's mental health in general.






Men's Mental Health??

Is anyone Mentally Unstable here that isn't Woke??
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mental health month was on mayo 🤔
...Thought it was mustard?

What??
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It's pride month yet again! Good i love giving even more attention to the lgbtq+ community this month even tho they get attention year round. Also a small detail, did you know that it is men's metal health month this month?
Did you also know a man in the uk commits suicide every hour? For every 2 depressed women we have 1 depressed man and the suicide rate of men to women is 2:1, crazy i know! We should give more attention to men's mental health in general.






Men's Mental Health??

Is anyone Mentally Unstable here that isn't Woke??
Me!! im a sever mental health case extreme spectrum and I am the most anti woke person ever talk to on here.
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idk i don't play tf2 eredeti hozzászólása:
It's pride month yet again! Good i love giving even more attention to the lgbtq+ community this month even tho they get attention year round. Also a small detail, did you know that it is men's metal health month this month?
Did you also know a man in the uk commits suicide every hour? For every 2 depressed women we have 1 depressed man and the suicide rate of men to women is 2:1, crazy i know! We should give more attention to men's mental health in general.






Men's Mental Health??

Is anyone Mentally Unstable here that isn't Woke??
many such cases
I have my issues related to mental health but I sure as hell don't want people to virtue signal for me nor assign a month to talk about this. I prefer actual help. Talk is cheap and they have been doing it for years while the healthcare system in my nation, Canada, has gone to hell.
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