Once a cheater always a cheater

[Rick]

Everyone told me. I thought if anyone could prove them wrong it would be us! Well boys, what a cucking dumba$$ I was. The saying holds true, never bothering with 2nd chances again. It's insane how much people lie right to your face every day just to do as much mental damage to you as possible. Words mean nothing. What a waste of 6 years. Just gonna focus on not unaliving myself for the next few days now.

[Goldias]

Fool you once, shame on you.
Fool you twice, also shame on you.

At least you learn to never take people at their words, which means you are a bit smarter than before.

[athena139er]

It depends because some people love to cheat, while others were manipulated into cheating because someone else made them feel more wanted than their significant other did.

[Rick]

Originally posted by oréo基特维兹.:

1- go radio silent, don't let them temptation fool you around they are never sorry.

She's already blocked for life on everything.

Originally posted by oréo基特维兹.:

4- let go of everything, forgive them and move on with your life.

I'm letting go, but no ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ chance she's forgiven. She will never be forgiven. If I could go back in time and never meet someone it would be her. She's wasted so many years of my life and hurt me so many times, she's the most heartless cruel person I've ever met. She does not ever deserve forgiveness, and she'll never get it.

[always superspecial]

Problem with cheaters is that they think they need to have an unconditional love/family to ensure their end of their life.
Just be like Leonardo DiCaprio, enjoy your partners for whatever time you want and change. Just be clear with the people you date.

[Painkilleruk]

not going to lie ive cheated estimated 90 times, before you judge....
My ex and mother to my 3rd child super abusive, manipulative, gaslighting ****. Obedience always required if not punished, say if I did not drive her somewhere she would abuse and not make contact for least a month. Could not leave her being the psychopath she is I would have lost all contact with my daughter ( as evident when I did finally leave her ). It was nice just to be wanted without having to be obedient in a abusive relationship. Started to see not all women the same then just got angry and banged all her best friends plus many others. Im currently with 8 women now.

[Xero_Daxter]

Fun fact for you but way back then VAC Bans were temporarily. But people kept cheating so that’s why they made it permanent.

They tried to be nice but you (the cheaters) kept abusing their kindness.

[Pipe]

Originally posted by Xero_Daxter:

Fun fact for you but way back then VAC Bans were temporarily. But people kept cheating so that’s why they made it permanent.

They tried to be nice but you (the cheaters) kept abusing their kindness.

this thread is about cheating in relationships

[Xero_Daxter]

Originally posted by Pipe:

Originally posted by Xero_Daxter:

Fun fact for you but way back then VAC Bans were temporarily. But people kept cheating so that’s why they made it permanent.

They tried to be nice but you (the cheaters) kept abusing their kindness.

this thread is about cheating in relationships

Oh… well this is awkward.

[steven1mac]

Once a cheater is 98% true no matter what the sexes are. Sad thing if a person did take them back, they would be even more likely to cheat because they know they can get away with it.

[意味のない人生]

Once a cheater, always a cheater. In my lifetime, I have come to know quite a few cheaters. Something I noticed about them is that they are all repeat offenders. That being said, ♥♥♥♥ forgiving them.

And as someone who has also been cheated on, I am truly sorry to hear about your situation. Learning to trust again and trying to get lost confidence back can take a while, so please give yourself the time and means to recover. Stay connected to the good folks in your life and lean on them for support.

Also, don't let cheating scum make you into a worse person. You deserve better.

[AerSilver ♞]

If they did it once, they'll do it again. These core values rarely change and you shouldn't tolerate such disrespect anyway. Good riddance, don't even feel bad about it.

Originally posted by Rick:

Words mean nothing.

Nope. Only actions. I hope you feel better soon buddy.

[oréo基特维兹.]

Originally posted by Rick:

Originally posted by oréo基特维兹.:

1- go radio silent, don't let them temptation fool you around they are never sorry.

She's already blocked for life on everything.

Originally posted by oréo基特维兹.:

4- let go of everything, forgive them and move on with your life.

I'm letting go, but no ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ chance she's forgiven. She will never be forgiven. If I could go back in time and never meet someone it would be her. She's wasted so many years of my life and hurt me so many times, she's the most heartless cruel person I've ever met. She does not ever deserve forgiveness, and she'll never get it.

it is for your better, if you just let go and forgive people like them shouldn't have a free space in your heart.

[Breathe]

No one is worth unaliving for. No one.

I'm sorry to hear this happened to you but don't blame yourself for believing the person changed or believing that they regretted what they did so much they'd never do it again. Love hopes. It hopes in something more. It's irrational. It dreams and lives on another plane than this one. So we try to grab it when we see it and take it into this world and try to make it work, something so perfect in an imperfect world.

Heal. You'll find what you need in time.

[90054321564584560]

as long as you know the humans are fickle so its easier to cope with. duration doesnt mean theyre the last

[ZZZZZ]

that saying is equally stupid as saying "Once a kid, always a kid"