Racial Dating Preferences?

[Arvaos]

https://youtu.be/mVkykxEMn8Y?si=OLYes5eUTEooNDWI

What do you think about men and women that only date a certain race? Do you find it shallow?

[The Commendatore]

Nothing shallow about it; it's just their preference.

[Merci]

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They would be Japanese on a blood test and know culture and language of Japanese. It make her Japanese ;)

Ah ok XD Sooo if a trans man passes very well has no girly features it makes it a real man? Hm xD I agree

a dad a jizz and a mother a small woman yeah right
so you are finally admitting trans isnt a thing as i said before

idk what that means XD but lol get ready to see more "Japanese people who dont look Japanese" as Japan's birth rate is fall 🥶

[causality]

I refuse to date white girls. No offense, ladies.

[Nogsec]

You can spot the insecure people/people who don't get any from their reaction to this question.

Ask yourself firmly lol what type of person gets upset over the relationship of 2 unrelated people.

[Pocahawtness]

All races are awesome, and I wouldn't make a decision based on race. That's not just a "politically correct" answer, I really mean it.

[Funky Monk]

I have no such preferences, I find it a bit weird when people do have such preferences.

[ナルゴ]

I want the best genes. I'd breed with a purple skinned 11ft alien if that's what it took.

[Vinz Clortho]

I think dating a race on purpose is a bit weird. Sure there are certain traits that people of different races have that might be attractive, but to look only for people of that nationality so you can date someone with those traits is probably a bit too shallow. I mean, I guess if you lived in a place where there are lots of different nationalities and it was easy to find the specific one you liked, it wouldn't be the worst thing ever. But if you were using online dating or moving around specifically because you wanted a certain race I think that is probably unhealthy.

Personally I can not think of one nationality of ethnic background that I would not be willing to date.

[Arvaos]

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I think dating a race on purpose is a bit weird. Sure there are certain traits that people of different races have that might be attractive, but to look only for people of that nationality so you can date someone with those traits is probably a bit too shallow. I mean, I guess if you lived in a place where there are lots of different nationalities and it was easy to find the specific one you liked, it wouldn't be the worst thing ever. But if you were using online dating or moving around specifically because you wanted a certain race I think that is probably unhealthy.

Personally I can not think of one nationality of ethnic background that I would not be willing to date.

Some of the European women go to the Carribbean or Africa to have an exotic break away, a romance getaway so to speak.

https://youtu.be/aZDxBELQwYg?si=iKUDkukBXDDC3mNO

I'm sure there are men who do the same around the world as well.

[Vinz Clortho]

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Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Coeur de Bouddha:

I think dating a race on purpose is a bit weird. Sure there are certain traits that people of different races have that might be attractive, but to look only for people of that nationality so you can date someone with those traits is probably a bit too shallow. I mean, I guess if you lived in a place where there are lots of different nationalities and it was easy to find the specific one you liked, it wouldn't be the worst thing ever. But if you were using online dating or moving around specifically because you wanted a certain race I think that is probably unhealthy.

Personally I can not think of one nationality of ethnic background that I would not be willing to date.

Some of the European women go to the Carribbean or Africa to have an exotic break away, a romance getaway so to speak.

I think maybe if it's an isolated sexual encounter or fantasy like that then it's not much different to using a prostitute. If it's a fantasy and not something you are wanting for your real life then I wouldn't say that is an issue. It's perhaps still not mentally healthy?

If you are talking about sex tourism then depending on where you are going and what you are doing, I think that is pretty vile because you are taking money from a rich western country and giving it to criminals in the sex industry of poor 2nd or 3rd world who are exploiting people there perhaps who don't have education etc. The money could go to genuine people who really need it in the country's real economy.

Also personally I think those beach holidays a dangerous idea and not something a person should be going to alone. Some of those men get very aggressive if they don't get what they are expecting. I think it might have been Emily Atack who made a program where she went to one of those beaches and she was barely off the boat for a minute before she was surrounded with a group of locals.

[Mauserich]

Just a basic assessment, in my opinion the left and the right lady are not originally German, you can tell by the lack of German accent, name and face. Just an impression. The suspicion that the scene is staged is therefore obvious. Didn't you have a similar topic yesterday that looked very staged?

Of course, everyone can do what they want and have fun with whoever they want, but as far as I know, the chances of finding a suitable partner for live within your own ethical group and making the partnership a success are the greatest because the similarities are also the greatest. Both can already fall back on a same corresponding social, cultural and economic foundation.

I believe that children from mixed marriages in which one partner has no social connections, no cultural knowledge or any economic background in a country also find it more difficult to maintain their social status. A good partnership is not just the spontaneous exchange of genes but a matter of consideration for the future. I think the video deliberately sets a bad example for considered life planning. ,-)

[Eidolon]

Well, I don't know. I think it's a sensitive topic that everyone has to answer for themselves. Overall, in my opinion, dating in your own race or culture tends to be the majority for most people still. I don't have a problem personally if people of two different races want to date and be with each other. It's their right and you can't help who you love.

Your own opinion probably depends a lot where you live too. I'm a Malaysian Chinese, and there are 3 major races here - Malay, Chinese, and Indians. By law to be considered a Malay someone must be Muslim and with very little exception most of them are. I'm not Muslim and none of my family is and we are all ethnically Chinese. If I wanted to date and marry a Malay man I would have to convert to Islam. I respect Muslims but for me, personally, I wouldn't want to be a Muslim. So it is not likely for me to date a Malay as a result. For Indians there is less of a difference between them and us Chinese compared to the Malays, and racial tensions are quite mild too compared to Chinese and Malay tensions.

So I guess really, what I'm saying, is mixed dating is probably more a matter of the culture you live in. In some places it's more common and these lines don't exist so much. In other places, people prefer to stick inside their race. It's a personal decision and I think it's okay and there's nothing to judge as long as somebody isn't being racist or racial stereotyping or fetishizing.

[BunnieBealla]

I used to be like that but the more i thought about it the weirder and superficial it sounded
but actually valid preferences does not equal exclusion entirely
I just think the world is way too ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ big and the people are soo diverse it's weird to function as "I will not date this entire race of people"
If it's for features, it's not impossible to find someone in that race who does not have that feature and someone outside of that race to have that feature
if its from trauma, fetishism, or conditoning to "racial purity" go to the therapy uwu

[Vinz Clortho]

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By law to be considered a Malay someone must be Muslim and with very little exception most of them are. I'm not Muslim and none of my family is and we are all ethnically Chinese. If I wanted to date and marry a Malay man I would have to convert to Islam. I respect Muslims but for me, personally, I wouldn't want to be a Muslim.

So I guess really, what I'm saying, is mixed dating is probably more a matter of the culture you live in. In some places it's more common and these lines don't exist so much. In other places, people prefer to stick inside their race. It's a personal decision and I think it's okay and there's nothing to judge as long as somebody isn't being racist or racial stereotyping or fetishizing.

What you have described sounds pretty racist to me. I have been told in the past by Muslim girls in the UK that it would not be safe for me to date them, or even to give them a lift home. To be seen in a car with me, even though we were both work colleagues, would have been unacceptable apparently.

I guess we can't force our cultural standards on to anyone else but I am sure that dating within nationalist or ethnic boundaries is going to be less and less common as time goes on. It's not sustainable and causes a lot of suffering for people when a society dictates what should be your personal decisions.

[Eidolon]

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Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Eidolon:

By law to be considered a Malay someone must be Muslim and with very little exception most of them are. I'm not Muslim and none of my family is and we are all ethnically Chinese. If I wanted to date and marry a Malay man I would have to convert to Islam. I respect Muslims but for me, personally, I wouldn't want to be a Muslim.

So I guess really, what I'm saying, is mixed dating is probably more a matter of the culture you live in. In some places it's more common and these lines don't exist so much. In other places, people prefer to stick inside their race. It's a personal decision and I think it's okay and there's nothing to judge as long as somebody isn't being racist or racial stereotyping or fetishizing.

What you have described sounds pretty racist to me. I have been told in the past by Muslim girls in the UK that it would not be safe for me to date them, or even to give them a lift home. To be seen in a car with me, even though we were both work colleagues, would have been unacceptable apparently.

I guess we can't force our cultural standards on to anyone else but I am sure that dating within nationalist or ethnic boundaries is going to be less and less common as time goes on. It's not sustainable and causes a lot of suffering for people when a society dictates what should be your personal decisions.

Are you talking about my opinion and the fact that I said I most likely wouldn't date/marry a Malay man? Or are you referring to Malaysia's policies?

If it's the former, I can understand why you feel that way. I'm sorry if what I said sounded racist. I like Malay people and don't have anything against them. As I said, the main issue for me is the religious difference. I don't know much about Islam but as far as I know it is generally expected (especially in the case of a Muslim man marrying a non-muslim woman) that the non-Muslim partner will convert if they wish to marry. It just wouldn't be right of me to convert to the religion if I don't believe in God. Both for myself, my partner, and his family.

If it's the latter, yes, you're right. Malaysia's policies are very racist. Ethnic and religious favor of Malays and Islam is written into our constitution. It is one of the negative aspects of my country and I agree with you.

Or are you talking about Islam? In Islam, anyone can be a Muslim. It's less to do with the religion and more to do with Malaysia specifically. About what you said about Muslim girls in the UK, that's also probably less to do with your race and more to do with the fact that some Muslims do not like the mixing of genders rather than races. That's probably why they told you it would have been unacceptable. It depends on what culture they come from, in some Muslim countries the religious values are more relaxed or less and having an unrelated man and woman together is more acceptable.

Sorry for such a long reply, I wasn't sure specifically what you were calling racist so I wanted to address every possibility. I hope that I was able to do so and more importantly I hope my previous post didn't offend you, it's never my intent to be racist.