2nd Person POV Dating Sim Suggestions?

[IceDrake071]

I have scoured hundreds of VN's across many websites; including VNDB. What I'm finding is you play as a character and not yourself. That is not what I'm looking for. I want to be myself in these games.

What I am looking for is:
A Ren'ai/Eroge type of dating sim or VN where the player character is either anonymous or customizable and I am able to make choices and decisions. Interactivity is very important, but I'm mainly wanting a 2nd person perspective.
Multiple endings are a plus.
To pursue girls in these types of games, as well and would like them to have a medium to long gameplay.
Romantic comedies, anime styled, and a focus on character's stories and the overall story.
Fantasy or modern settings.
Mini games, turn based RPG, or anything to make the game a little exciting is welcome, but not mandatory. I can accept a novel type of game, but I need choices.

Games like Love Plus, Harvest Moon: It's a Wonderful Life, Katawa Shojou, Sakura Spirit, and Rune Factory all intrigue me, but don't quite fit what I'm looking for and now I turn to the community for advice.

[Fork_Q2]

Shasow a écrit :

Rin a écrit :

Seconded. Brown hair, glasses and good fasion sense

mmm

But she's so mean....

Which is so hot.

[Psycho Predator]

Dating sim games LOL so sad

[iza]

Rin a écrit :

I like when my partner is dominant

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) The only donger that came into my mind reading this hahaha.

[IceDrake071]

Let me try elaborating for all of you.

A game like Harvest Moon is the closest thing to what I'd like. I just hate farming. You name your character and are him. He has no back story and anything else that would differentiate him from you.
It's interactive by the choices you make. Give this gift to this person and keep them in town or ignore this person and let them leave. However, I want the choices I make to affect the story, like being good or evil. To put it simply as I can, go left or right. The path you choose determines the ending.
Also in Harvest Moon, you have a choice of a a few females to pursue and eventually marry. You go through the courting process until they like you enough, then you propose, have a kid, and continue the game by farming and keeping them happy. That's the dating sim part. I just hate that the characters are so shallow and have little back story.
Now for a virtual novel (Sakura Spirit) I'd need it to be in 2nd person. "You walk into the classroom and see your classmates socializing before class." Choices are a must as well. For example, like in most RPG's, a list of responses during dialogue. Examples of that are in Elder Scrolls, Mass Effect, and Fall Out. And from those choice of responses the story would be affected.

I hope I was more clear this time around.

In response to the Catherine suggestion, I don't like the concept of cheating on girlfriends. I would hate the main character the entire time.

[gleofrocga]

Skyrim has a very indept romantic mechanic I believe.

"Are you interested in me"
"Yes"
"Lets get married!"