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Men should stay single and happy
At least until dating apps are extinct. A woman can dump you and find a replacement in a minute on Tinder.
Τελευταία επεξεργασία από Mega Ultra Chicken; 25 Μαρ 2024, 1:42
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Mega Ultra Chicken (Αποκλεισμένος) 25 Μαρ 2024, 15:30 
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When one is young I will agree 100%. But as one gets older, it becomes harder to find someone who you can love and trust and old age can be a very lonely place indeed for many people.
Try to find an atractive older woman, better get one while they are still hot. Especially when you are young you should be dating and stuff.
Women seem to lower their standards as they age. Some of these young women are airheads in America. I don't know what it's like in other parts of the Western world.
tinder is not a dating app.. it is a sexapp.

those who are looking to settle down and get married.. won't look for people on tinder.. only those who look for a one night stand do.

so perhaps you were using the wrong app?
usually dating sites cost between 5 and 30 euro per month subscription fee, have screening at the gate (meaning they are only for higher educated, christians, people under 30, and so on.. you can pick any datingsite that fits your speciffic targetgroup.)
you likely still be mostly judged search criteria LONG before you get a chance to actually present yourself.

most will at LEAST have 3 search criteria :
1 your age (irl you may look younger, on datingapps you won't even pass her search settings if your just a little older than her)
2 your profession/education (people want a person thats roughly equally educated and smart and they, and roughly equally in income)
3 your photo (yes man AND woman are on these datingsites judged much more by look than other traits)

most will also add the search criteria :
-religion (those who are religious often want a person only from certain denominiations of their faith, while you personally may agree with them on most thesis.. most will just look for somebody of exactly the same type of church
(those who are strong sportfans likewise often want a person fan of same club)
-height.. nobody likes to have a partner thats much taller or shorter than them
-smoking (for many a big nono)
-children (for many a person who already has kids is a big nono)
-region (most don't date outside their own country, many even only within a certain distance from where they live)

once you pass all that.. and happen to both be paying members of the SAME datingsite at the same time.. than maybe you 2 meet eachther..

but ofcourse those datingsites have every intention to keep people paying.. so they drive on the 95% who have been paying members for years and years.. without succes... while their perfect partner might just be in another country or other website.. but they never even considered looking abroad..
the 5% that do match usually do so within a few months of signing up.. and those succes stories are used to lure the other 95% in staying paying members..
Τελευταία επεξεργασία από Dutchgamer1982; 25 Μαρ 2024, 15:45
Ah, society evolving for the individual, not the family.
Always afraid of being hurt by others, paper thin skin, can't tell the truth.
Too many people grew up only in body.

Once you see what living truly means, you realize how useless and childish many of those thoughts are.
I'm going to stay single until I decide I'm ready for a relationship, or (by chance) I happen to meet someone who motivates me to change my mind.
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I'm going to stay single until I decide I'm ready for a relationship, or (by chance) I happen to meet someone who motivates me to change my mind.
Good plan.

I'm staying single because I can't feel the romantic type of love, so I'll never be attracted to someone, nor I'll give them the love they deserve.
ITT: People destined to die angry and alone.
Mega Ultra Chicken (Αποκλεισμένος) 25 Μαρ 2024, 15:42 
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ITT: People destined to die angry and alone.
Relationships don't make people happy, contrary to popular belief.
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ITT: People destined to die angry and alone.

One of those is true for me.

:darkghost:
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ITT: People destined to die angry and alone.
Relationships don't make people happy, contrary to popular belief.

Yeah, a GOOD relationship actually makes you so much happier it greatly improves your physical health.

https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2023/02/work-out-daily-ok-but-how-socially-fit-are-you/

Τελευταία επεξεργασία από Fajita Jim; 25 Μαρ 2024, 15:44
Mega Ultra Chicken (Αποκλεισμένος) 25 Μαρ 2024, 15:45 
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Relationships don't make people happy, contrary to popular belief.

Yeah, a GOOD relationship actually makes you so much happier it greatly improves your physical health.
Happiness comes from within oneself.
Happy relationship > Being Single > Bad relationship
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Yeah, a GOOD relationship actually makes you so much happier it greatly improves your physical health.
Happiness comes from within oneself.

So much of the human mind is dedicated to interacting with others. You should look up what happens when people totally isolate themselves for years (or are forcibly isolated by others). It's not something to wish for, at all.

Τελευταία επεξεργασία από Fajita Jim; 25 Μαρ 2024, 15:47
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I'm going to stay single until I decide I'm ready for a relationship, or (by chance) I happen to meet someone who motivates me to change my mind.
Good plan.

I'm staying single because I can't feel the romantic type of love, so I'll never be attracted to someone, nor I'll give them the love they deserve.

Between having good friends to chat with and a pet to, well, pet, I think I can safely say you won't miss out on anything.
Τελευταία επεξεργασία από Jonathan Sensei; 25 Μαρ 2024, 15:47
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Yeah, a GOOD relationship actually makes you so much happier it greatly improves your physical health.

https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2023/02/work-out-daily-ok-but-how-socially-fit-are-you/

That depends on your mental and spiritual state. I don't think an enlightened Buddhist needs a woman to be happy.
Mega Ultra Chicken (Αποκλεισμένος) 25 Μαρ 2024, 15:48 
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Happiness comes from within oneself.

So much of the human mind is dedicated to interacting with others. You should look up what happens when people totally isolate themselves for years (or are forcibly isolated by others). It's not something to wish for, at all.
It's not isolation if you have regular friends.
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