Sad story +Looking for a friend

[❀ MODKO ❀]

my two best friends betrayed me "5 years of friendship", i was trying to be serious for once
i was having a really emotional time in my life.
and they acted so "sigma male" and then they start comparing who got the worst life even tho i know for sure that my life is f***ed up, they just left me hanging like i was just having a simple breakdown, and i can see them chilling around without inviting me acting like "ohh look how we both are more close together more than you"
and now i got no one to share my life with... depression is kicking my a** so please don't be mean.

and if you don't want to be my friend you can just give me a simple tip that can help, so i can feel a little important in life. 𖹭

[PurpleBeast]

Get over it.

[Zilkenian Davenport]

Add me if you need someone to talk to.
I'll listen.

[❀ MODKO ❀]

PurpleBeast a écrit :

Get over it.

trying... </3

[Morkonan]

vN7s a écrit :

...they acted so "sigma male"... just give me a simple tip that can help, so i can feel a little important in life. 𖹭

Here's the tip - Step away from labeling people using deeply-researched memes...

If you're having tough times and your friends are drawing away from you because you keep looking to them for support they can't give, then... Well, that happens. You need to first evaluate whether or not you're actually looking for help from them about your problem or you're just looking for support.

It may be that they feel they have provided satisfactory feedback and support. That doesn't have to be true, but that may be how they feel. So, you have to examine whether or not you acted on any advice or support they have provided. Did you? If not, know that failing to act on advice is common. But, if it is repeated and one continues to not act on it, failing to act on it can push people away.

It's not uncommon that friends bond over all sorts of things. They may have been drawn closer-together due to their interactions in an effort to deal with the issues you raised. That's OK and it's also quite common. But, know that their judgement of your situation will also now be somewhat clouded by their own private discussions about it.


Everyone has had difficulties in their life. Everyone has faced their own harsh moments. While not all rise to equal levels, I can say that anyone who has faced true difficulties or harrowing circumstances in their life KNOWS that there are people out there in worse situations than they have been in.

Your troubles are depressing for "you." They may rise to the most "f'd" up you've ever experienced. That's fair and it shouldn't be treated any differently than the worst experiences out there. For you...

People sitting around comparing "who has the worst experiences" are leaving the fair judgement grounds of introspection and self-judgement and moving into an area that has no even playing ground at all.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26ZDB9h7BLY

:)

[❀ MODKO ❀]

BunniiBealla a écrit :

your "friends" sound ♥♥♥♥♥♥
easier said that done but look at it in a positive way, it's better you saw their true colours now than later where they could've stabbed you in back much worse
I'm not very good at advice but from my own experience you will find better people to be friends with, just give it time and don't stress over it and keep being yourself uwu

thank you darling... 𖹭

[❀ MODKO ❀]

Morkonan a écrit :

vN7s a écrit :

...they acted so "sigma male"... just give me a simple tip that can help, so i can feel a little important in life. 𖹭

Here's the tip - Step away from labeling people using deeply-researched memes...

If you're having tough times and your friends are drawing away from you because you keep looking to them for support they can't give, then... Well, that happens. You need to first evaluate whether or not you're actually looking for help from them about your problem or you're just looking for support.

It may be that they feel they have provided satisfactory feedback and support. That doesn't have to be true, but that may be how they feel. So, you have to examine whether or not you acted on any advice or support they have provided. Did you? If not, know that failing to act on advice is common. But, if it is repeated and one continues to not act on it, failing to act on it can push people away.

It's not uncommon that friends bond over all sorts of things. They may have been drawn closer-together due to their interactions in an effort to deal with the issues you raised. That's OK and it's also quite common. But, know that their judgement of your situation will also now be somewhat clouded by their own private discussions about it.


Everyone has had difficulties in their life. Everyone has faced their own harsh moments. While not all rise to equal levels, I can say that anyone who has faced true difficulties or harrowing circumstances in their life KNOWS that there are people out there in worse situations than they have been in.

Your troubles are depressing for "you." They may rise to the most "f'd" up you've ever experienced. That's fair and it shouldn't be treated any differently than the worst experiences out there. For you...

People sitting around comparing "who has the worst experiences" are leaving the fair judgement grounds of introspection and self-judgement and moving into an area that has no even playing ground at all.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26ZDB9h7BLY

:)

i felt like they were just waiting for the time that i do something emotional or unpredictable so they can have an excuse when they argue with me,

they always don't take stuff seriously even tho i am the one who always listen to there problems and try to comfort them or making them feel important...

but like (BunniiBealla) said... (they could've stabbed you in back much worse) because in our last few days i felt like YEAH they are waiting for my downfall..

when is said betrayed i was focusing on the stuff that i gave them wither if it was steam gifts/fanarts because i love to draw/even chilling with them alone.

but anyways these gifts happened in the past so it won't feel important when they said thank you for the gifts...

I'm so emotional and i always try to read people believing that there's small good in them.

thank you Morkonan 𖹭

[Devil`s Rejected]

Hey OP I watch a lot Jesse Lee Peterson interviews on his program The Fallen State on youtubes.

I highly recommend you watch it and see the whole message behind everything he says.
Also, notice not the ones who leave the interview in the middle, but those who actually listen to what Mr Peterson is showing them.

It really heals all emotions and you really can achieve inner peace.

Hope it works out for you, brother!

[L1qu1dator]

vN7s a écrit :

"sigma male"

Yeah I don't wanna friend who uses these words...

[❀ MODKO ❀]

Devil`s Rejected a écrit :

Hey OP I watch a lot Jesse Lee Peterson interviews on his program The Fallen State on youtubes.

I highly recommend you watch it and see the whole message behind everything he says.
Also, notice not the ones who leave the interview in the middle, but those who actually listen to what Mr Peterson is showing them.

It really heals all emotions and you really can achieve inner peace.

Hope it works out for you, brother!

i like watching stuff like these, last thing that gave me inner peace was Bob ross,
thanks brother!!

[❀ MODKO ❀]

L1qu1dator a écrit :

vN7s a écrit :

"sigma male"

Yeah I don't wanna friend who uses these words...

well i didnt know what expression i should say to explain there attitude.. but this one was the closest

[OdinDerHarte]

vN7s a écrit :

L1qu1dator a écrit :

Yeah I don't wanna friend who uses these words...

well i didnt know what expression i should say to explain there attitude.. but this one was the closest

How about acting like a ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥? Its the same thing

[oréo基特维兹.]

I stood there, while you left my message on read. can't offer someone something, that you can't give to other people.

[❀ MODKO ❀]

OdinDerHarte a écrit :

vN7s a écrit :

well i didnt know what expression i should say to explain there attitude.. but this one was the closest

How about acting like a ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥? Its the same thing

or i could use the one that you said xd

[❀ MODKO ❀]

Saint. Kaitte ouize a écrit :

I stood there, while you left my message on read. can't offer someone something, that you can't give to other people.

wait you mean I'm the one who left your message on read?

[Basarab Laiota]

adding friends on off topic is not the best idea