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Yes. I mean to put it to the words of Stone Temple Pilots: Take time with a wounded hand, because it likes to heal.
And yes, it should be talked about more.
Most people are not even aware that consumerism is actually symptomatic of mental illness and evolved as a bit of an evolutionary falling out from the early post-WWII era. Mental health wasn't really a study back then. at least not at all in the way that it is today. But yeah, that's just the fact of the matter.
You will never see proper mental health healthcare practices in America, because if everyone in America was suddenly mentally healthy than nobody would frivolously buy crap they don't need anymore and the economy would come to a screeching halt.
It's really fv<ked up, but it's entirely true.
All you guys do is cry "edited!" to such examples. Of course the video was edited down to show how a lot of the women asked felt, and not every single one. It's still the exact same sentiment you'll get from young women in large cities almost anywhere, especially blue states in America.
You're one of those guys I put into quotes in my first post Top G. You have 0 compassion for the men who don't have enough good women available for there to be one for each of them. You put all the blame on men instead, slandering them as loser drunks and the like in some weird narrative to dismiss the reality.
No wonder peoples are tired of all the crap that comes with a relation. fortunately with science came thermo plastic elastomer that gives you all you want without the compromises and if you think of what it will cost you to have a regular "normal" relationship for a good number of years, it's a better deal.
It's going to be easy? No
It's going to be worth it, even it it takes a few decades (20-40 years would be my guess) to fix or mitigate the problem? I say yes.
So why should i have compassion with them, if both use the exact same arguments? They expect something in the other person - and are then disappointed if the other person wouldn´t provide that. So the problem is the expectation.
Also i don´t cry - because i´m a man. Which is why i can´t complain about my "love-life", or my relationships. But i´m only looking for a relationship if my life is fine, and if i want to share good times. Not because i feel lonely, or think i need to have a relationship, or need some woman as sex object - or to talk about certain problems. I only want to meet some people - and don´t go in with the expectation that someone would be a potential partner. And then it develops into certain directions or stops at some point. And either way is fine for me. And of course the loser drunks is exaggerated - there are also people who do very good in life, but have certain expectations towards women, or treat them as lesser beings.
I´m also unsure how many men You have seen when they try to engage with women. So how can You say that i dismiss reality? It would mean that You know how reality looks like - not only for Yourself. But also what other men do, which can be harmful for Your experience if it´s about finding a partner.
The video said that women don´t want men, but men want women - and that this should show the problem. But this isn´t the case. If anything it´s that way that women don´t want a relationship with any man, but men would have a sexual relationship with almost any woman. When most women didn´t want to engage with the guy who was asking, so they said "no" to keep the talk as short as possible, and the men said "yes, because they look beautiful", because they didn´t want to say that they would like to ♥♥♥♥ them.
Well first of all I'm not even going to say "good" men or women anymore, since that is a myth that I don't want to keep perpetuating. I was simply trying to convey the idea. But I'll call them "decent" instead, which is what I usually do. And to "cry" in English almost means to speak loudly, or shout out. That's the context I was using the word in.
Yes, men and women both feel that one another is not decent enough. But looking at the reasons why and you see the imbalance. Men want a woman who's beautiful and loyal.
Women on the other hand want a man who's handsome, tall, athletic, muscular, endowed, great in bed yet only when they want it, rich, popular, powerful in status like a CEO, exciting, masculine in every way except belief systems which must align with theirs which are feminist, has hobbies but only the kinds they find appealing, wants to talk to them but not too much or else they seem clingy or not challenging, mysterious but not emotionally distant, not too serious yet not goofy, has a ton of options with other women but wants only them, knows how to fix and build things, drives an expensive car, wears expensive clothes, and much more. The standards for men are unrealistic, unlike what men want from women. That's why men and women stay single; men never "measure up" and women are never satisfied.
A lot of people just want to meet others with no expectations. But when they see the years go on with no success and the time in their life running out for things like starting a family, of course it becomes an active effort and concern. Nothing wrong with them making concerted efforts to get what they want. That's how things work, isn't it?
Men can sleep around easily, that's not the issue. But every guy I've met who's looking for a long-term partner is dealing with this. Millions of guys who express their experience online are dealing with it. Statistics showing how many men are single and dealing with it. That's why videos and channels on the subject are getting popular. Because it is now a reality.
All the video shows (in a very condensed format for the sake of attention-spans) is that the average young woman feels negatively towards men, has no desire to have one in their life in any meaningful manner, and sees no value in men in society overall; a society which men built and are now being excluded from due to Feminism. Meanwhile the average young man feels no animosity towards women in the same way, regardless of how often feminists lie that men simply hate women and the freedom they have.
Why is it that men not wanting women to sleep around and devalue themselves is seen as evil? Why is it that men not wanting women to dress in sexually provocative ways seen as bad? Shouldn't men be in favor of seeing women nearly naked? Maybe it's because those men have morals, and they're not hateful. Why is it bad that men don't want women to be able to vote for a system that makes them able to live off welfare while raising children who have no father? Because men are evil? Or is it because those men value the quality of life both women and their children are going to live? Feminism allows women to do all those things, and promotes it. That's why men are against it and lay the blame at its feet.
Those that blame others or society need to learn to adapt as the entire world will not change just for them.