Rudi aus Buddeln 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 3:44
"Hints and signals"
What are those infamous "hints and signals" women tend to give you, when they like you? I'm asking, because this one new single girl at work is acting kinda flirty and cheeky next to me, always smiling at me, but I don't know if this is just her being nice and kind or something serious.
I have pretty much no experience regarding flirting and now I'm confused. My last relationship was years ago in high school and a catastrophical failure, permanently affecting my way of approaching girls
< >
目前顯示第 1-15 則留言,共 52
L1qu1dator 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 3:50 
Never got any, so can't tell. :PuzzleBallDONT_KNOW:
brain stew 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 3:58 
Have you considered reciting various come-hither Shakespearean passages to gauge m'lady's intentions?
Shiro♌ 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 3:59 
I don't know, such stuff is very much irrelevant to me.. Has been for as long as I can remember.
Body language? I don't get that, never understood that even after doing my research and talking about it to my friends.. They were lost as to how to explain it to me in a way I'd understand.

The moment somebody gives me a hint, I ain't gonna catch it. :frust:
Hobbit XIII 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 4:02 
引用自 Netz-Kritterz
What are those infamous "hints and signals" women tend to give you, when they like you? I'm asking, because this one new single girl at work is acting kinda flirty and cheeky next to me, always smiling at me, but I don't know if this is just her being nice and kind or something serious.
I have pretty much no experience regarding flirting and now I'm confused. My last relationship was years ago in high school and a catastrophical failure, permanently affecting my way of approaching girls

You know that happy feeling you get when she looks at you and smiles?

Remember that because that is the first warning she is going to play a game just like the film Saw.

Seriously, just go with it some women like to 'flirt' to make themselves feel good.

It really comes down to you.
what I would do is probably very different to you.
Ask her out for a date and if she says no then so what your not emotionally attached to her and you can be friends still.
L1qu1dator 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 4:08 
引用自 Crusader (Banned5x)
引用自 L1qu1dator
Never got any, so can't tell. :PuzzleBallDONT_KNOW:

When a girl is really into you, you won't actually need signs. I've had girls come up to me and give me their social media info, or phone numbers, even in front of other guys.

They make it pretty easy to tell when they're feeling it.

Lucky you..
AerSilver ♞ 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 4:10 
Constantly flicking hair, you catch her sneaking looks repeatedly, she smiles and laughs at random things you say, she casually initiates small touches, you find her bent over on your bed when you come back home.
You know, the usual subtle signs.
Birds 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 5:11 
Somtimes they'll throw you hints and signals then categorically deny it.

Women's belief that they can successfully encode and receive hidden signals is the same kind of groupthink myth as men believing they can win a fight. Maybe it'll work if you're already a match!

Anyway it sounds like your coworker's into you, but it might just be a little work crush they don't want to go anywhere. Probably won't know unless you ask.
最後修改者:Birds; 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 5:16
Faster With Feeling 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 5:14 
People today use snapchat? amusing
Morkonan 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 5:27 
引用自 Netz-Kritterz
What are those infamous "hints and signals" women tend to give you, when they like you? I'm asking, because this one new single girl at work is acting kinda flirty and cheeky next to me, always smiling at me, but I don't know if this is just her being nice and kind or something serious.

Joking around with you, being nice, smiling, making eye-contact, etc, are all "acceptable" ques, but they can also be mistaken for someone who is just being friendly or that enjoys your company, but has no romantic interest.

"Flirting" isn't necessarily something that is purposefully... "done." Some women do set out to target a guy and intentionally "flirt" with them. But, to be honest, that's not generally an ideal person to seek out... Some who do that enjoy the manipulation more than them actually being forthright.

Does the person appear to go out of their way to engage with you?

Do they discuss non-topical things with you, like talking to you about non-work topics while working together?

Do they seem excited to see you, more than just in the general good humor, kind, way?

Do the discuss activities outside of work that usually involve just more than one person experiencing them? ie: A restaurant they recently went to, a concert, park, go-kart track... (IOW - It's sometimes a clue they may be looking for company.)

For women who may be flirting with you, only, as this does not apply to how men would flirt with women - Does the woman touch you? Some women are truly the "touchy" sort, but it's my experience if one notices them touching one during several engagements, it's more than likely they're overtly expressing interest. That doesn't mean its certain, though - They could just be very fond of you or consider you a close friend. For some women, though, the whole "casual touch while talking to a well-liked guy" is nearly an irresistible behavior.


My advice -

Don't make too many assumptions.

Don't poop where you eat...

But, if you absolutely must use work as a social resource, you may wish to just ask her directly if she'd like to go out on a date. I wouldn't advise doing that if she's someone you work closely with, but... Well, you are going to have to exercise your own judgement sometime, so now may as well be that time. If you're wrong, just make sure you don't carry that around with you every time you have to work with her. Put her at ease in that regard if she refuses you. Also - Check work policies regarding fraternization. That is usually frowned upon if you're in the same work structure/department/etc.
Faster With Feeling 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 5:43 
What if you are hopeless at reading signals?
Neurotic Panda 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 5:53 
If your 18+ in this current young dating gen..

Isn't it considered dating a girl if you sub to her OF?

isn't flirting like $10 a flirt or something with a winky emoji included?

Sorry, no idea what to tell you in today's backwards, overly complex, 'dating' culture.

Is it even correct to just assume its a 'woman/girl'? isn't that offensive nowadays?

yea, no clue.

GL out there.

:steamthumbsup:
最後修改者:Neurotic Panda; 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 5:54
Angel 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 5:59 
Firstly, ask her out if you're interested.

Second, every person has different signs but generally their eyes would widen just like men and constant "looks" would occur. If they are really mesmerised, they may even stare at you at early stages and/or have a sudden change of persona when meeting and chatting.

Just be careful as friendly and bubbly people will be nice to everyone (even to people they can't stand) and without intentions of flirting. Generally if they constantly approach you then you are most likely in their good books, if they avoid you then you may be mutual (not noticed) or even in their bad books.
AerSilver ♞ 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 6:07 
引用自 Neurotic Panda
If your 18+ in this current young dating gen..

Isn't it considered dating a girl if you sub to her OF?

isn't flirting like $10 a flirt or something with a winky emoji included?

Sorry, no idea what to tell you in today's backwards, overly complex, 'dating' culture.

Is it even correct to just assume its a 'woman/girl'? isn't that offensive nowadays?

yea, no clue.

GL out there.

:steamthumbsup:
Nah that's called simping, also everything is offensive nowadays
Birds 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 6:22 
引用自 Breakfast Killer
What if you are hopeless at reading signals?

Then all of society has agreed you are not to date.
Faster With Feeling 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 6:36 
引用自 Birds
引用自 Breakfast Killer
What if you are hopeless at reading signals?

Then all of society has agreed you are not to date.

LOL OK.....

I'm not that bad but do miss my cues sometimes.
< >
目前顯示第 1-15 則留言,共 52
每頁顯示: 1530 50

張貼日期: 2024 年 2 月 4 日 下午 3:44
回覆: 52