Ever cheated or been cheated on?

[WarHeRo]

Have you ever encountered infidelity in a relationship, either from yourself or your partner? If so, how did you emotionally handle the situation? Did you contemplate seeking retaliation?

[Skade]

Krypto eredeti hozzászólása:

Skade eredeti hozzászólása:

Just don't come crying in the comment section of my profile like the other butt hurt dudes in there losing to me. 😂 I’ll add you, don’t reject or i will report you

That happens? I feel sorry for some of the men of this generation. Oh my gawd, I lost to a girl!!!

Oh you will be surprised, i get into verbal fights in this game all the time. especially in the casual game mode.. because after every round both team can hear and talk to each other..

[Krypto]

Skade eredeti hozzászólása:

Krypto eredeti hozzászólása:

That happens? I feel sorry for some of the men of this generation. Oh my gawd, I lost to a girl!!!

Oh you will be surprised, i get into verbal fights in this game all the time. especially in the casual game mode.. because after every round both team can hear and talk to each other..

It's probably that "losing in a game means my ego has been bruised in real life" mentality that so many people possess. Wonder what happens when a woman sees them naked and just goes "hahahaha!!!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzpndHtdl9A

[Xero_Daxter]

Bunni Bealla eredeti hozzászólása:

I have been cheated on
I ♥♥♥♥♥♥ his dad to establish dominance uwu

You sound like the type of girl who would *beep* your best friend’s dad just to prove a point.

[Adversary]

I may have unintentionally cuckolded someone in the 2000s while at community college. Because the otherkin clique I had mistakenly partook in decided they would get the tall, leggy blonde to, quote, "teach" me. And as it turned out, she had a boyfriend.

I told him the same day what had went down and this was after I had spent a good chunk of the lunch break, well, being "taught". He thanked me and I got yelled at by pretty much everyone in the clique.

He wound up with a qt 3.14 gamer girl who was more suited to him and blondie wound up dropping out after getting addicted to meth and also having a kid with the next guy she wound up with. All's well that ends well, I guess?

How the ♥♥♥♥ do half of the people I have known since grade school wind up on ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ meth?

[L1qu1dator]

Skade eredeti hozzászólása:

Krypto eredeti hozzászólása:

That happens? I feel sorry for some of the men of this generation. Oh my gawd, I lost to a girl!!!

Oh you will be surprised, i get into verbal fights in this game all the time. especially in the casual game mode.. because after every round both team can hear and talk to each other..

Do you play Insurgency?

[❤ Sly Succubus ❤]

I was, however let me side note that apparently many others were aware of it and I was not, and the person who did it was one of my former friends who no more then a month later decided it was a smart idea to literally bite the hand of a cop, and I do mean bite in the literal sense, he had his grandfathers old WW2 gear, none of it was licenced or recorded so the police came to confiscate it.

Long story short, my girlfriend left me after he lied to her saying that I refused to play games with him, in reality he got banned from a TeamSpeak server for calling the administrator a nazi, keep in mind this administrator is literally German and he got a temporary ban for disrespect. Mad and angry he basically restored to personal attacks against me for no reason and fabricated lies.

...No I did not retaliate, I let my girlfriend leave me as soon as I was aware she broke up without by outright ghosting me without warning. Why did I not go after them? Well I'm not a good person when angry.

To be clear: The last time I got angry was in middle school when a bully pushed me to my limit, thankfully what happened was a simplistic fist to his head, ya I guess not so simple but he was a bully for 6 months and many parents and teachers were aware of this. The day after I got 3 weeks Out of School Suspension which I accepted, the bully got expelled...

Here's where things got dark, 4 years later said bully died in a gang shoot out in Chicago, he decided that thug life was right for him and turf wars were a grand idea. Ya I know, not my fault he died but I keep recalling back to that moment had I not gotten violent then he may still be alive.

After that day, I've never have gone out of my way to get personal revenge as I fear I may do something I'll regret for the rest of my life, in this case it was no different. Ya I felt hurt, ya it was the worst feeling I ever felt but at that same time I felt if I did anything, I would never be able to look at myself the same way, so I just let it go.

I call myself weak, ya I agree that it was the weakest outcome one may hear but I've been told that it takes more will power to let stuff like this go then it is to simply act on instinct. I'll let you guys decide but at the end of it, ya I got first got emotionally cheated on, then physically, hard ghosted and decided to just move on and never speak to either of the two people after.

No idea where she is now, no idea what happened to my former friend. Last I heard is she moved to another city and that was years ago and my former friend got put in prison for breaking parol and other crimes that I never looked to far into.

[WarHeRo]

Mischievous Sly Succubus eredeti hozzászólása:

I was, however let me side note that apparently many others were aware of it and I was not, and the person who did it was one of my former friends who no more then a month later decided it was a smart idea to literally bite the hand of a cop, and I do mean bite in the literal sense, he had his grandfathers old WW2 gear, none of it was licenced or recorded so the police came to confiscate it.

Long story short, my girlfriend left me after he lied to her saying that I refused to play games with him, in reality he got banned from a TeamSpeak server for calling the administrator a nazi, keep in mind this administrator is literally German and he got a temporary ban for disrespect. Mad and angry he basically restored to personal attacks against me for no reason and fabricated lies.

...No I did not retaliate, I let my girlfriend leave me as soon as I was aware she broke up without by outright ghosting me without warning. Why did I not go after them? Well I'm not a good person when angry.

To be clear: The last time I got angry was in middle school when a bully pushed me to my limit, thankfully what happened was a simplistic fist to his head, ya I guess not so simple but he was a bully for 6 months and many parents and teachers were aware of this. The day after I got 3 weeks Out of School Suspension which I accepted, the bully got expelled...

Here's where things got dark, 4 years later said bully died in a gang shoot out in Chicago, he decided that thug life was right for him and turf wars were a grand idea. Ya I know, not my fault he died but I keep recalling back to that moment had I not gotten violent then he may still be alive.

After that day, I've never have gone out of my way to get personal revenge as I fear I may do something I'll regret for the rest of my life, in this case it was no different. Ya I felt hurt, ya it was the worst feeling I ever felt but at that same time I felt if I did anything, I would never be able to look at myself the same way, so I just let it go.

I call myself weak, ya I agree that it was the weakest outcome one may hear but I've been told that it takes more will power to let stuff like this go then it is to simply act on instinct. I'll let you guys decide but at the end of it, ya I got first got emotionally cheated on, then physically, hard ghosted and decided to just move on and never speak to either of the two people after.

No idea where she is now, no idea what happened to my former friend. Last I heard is she moved to another city and that was years ago and my former friend got put in prison for breaking parol and other crimes that I never looked to far into.

thanks for sharing. The best revenge is not to be like your enemy (or ex).

[WarHeRo]

Adversary eredeti hozzászólása:

I may have unintentionally cuckolded someone in the 2000s while at community college. Because the otherkin clique I had mistakenly partook in decided they would get the tall, leggy blonde to, quote, "teach" me. And as it turned out, she had a boyfriend.

I told him the same day what had went down and this was after I had spent a good chunk of the lunch break, well, being "taught". He thanked me and I got yelled at by pretty much everyone in the clique.

He wound up with a qt 3.14 gamer girl who was more suited to him and blondie wound up dropping out after getting addicted to meth and also having a kid with the next guy she wound up with. All's well that ends well, I guess?

How the ♥♥♥♥ do half of the people I have known since grade school wind up on ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ meth?

it's sad how ppl suffer from crack

[Not Big Surprise]

Γαῖα eredeti hozzászólása:

We are all one step away from the opportunity to cheat but it is a persons commitment and or a fear of what comes about goes about that prevents us if we dont take that leap.

in my case i simply cannot cheat in my current relationship model

[Not Big Surprise]

Breathe eredeti hozzászólása:

Not Big Surprise eredeti hozzászólása:

in my case i simply cannot cheat in my current relationship model

I don't feel like it's even a choice. I know that it is but I have a strong loyalty clause or something deep within. Which is kind of worthless it seems. Valueless now

oh no, i mean because i'm in a polycule and we're completely open

[Krypto]

Breathe eredeti hozzászólása:

Not Big Surprise eredeti hozzászólása:

in my case i simply cannot cheat in my current relationship model

I don't feel like it's even a choice. I know that it is but I have a strong loyalty clause or something deep within. Which is kind of worthless it seems. Valueless now

To the right person, it's worth its weight in gold.

[Krypto]

Breathe eredeti hozzászólása:

Krypto eredeti hozzászólása:

To the right person, it's worth its weight in gold.

Ahh but what if there IS no right person.

Why would there be no right person?

[Krypto]

Breathe eredeti hozzászólása:

Krypto eredeti hozzászólása:

Why would there be no right person?

Life. Life isn't 'fair" sometimes. Bad things happen, sometimes goals don't get seen through to the end.

If you want something to last, you have to WANT to be put in the effort, whether it's a person, career, video game, finishing a book.

When it comes to people, building a foundation that lasts is NOT easy, and it takes a lot of effort to keep it strong.

[WarHeRo]

Breathe eredeti hozzászólása:

Life. Life isn't 'fair" sometimes. Bad things happen, sometimes goals don't get seen through to the end.

Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it

[L1qu1dator]

Krypto eredeti hozzászólása:

Breathe eredeti hozzászólása:

I don't feel like it's even a choice. I know that it is but I have a strong loyalty clause or something deep within. Which is kind of worthless it seems. Valueless now

To the right person, it's worth its weight in gold.

Its weight in antimatter even :P