Have the same energy as this video
https://youtu.be/LKVPUGA1XIA?si=7KQr7zPM-XDTv5i_

In topics like this it really shines through how this forum is mostly men, and unhappy ones at that :P

I mean, it's easier right? To blame society, say it's not you're fault and you're just hated for an unfair reason, than wonder if there's anything you can improve. Women has advantages, but so does men, just in different things, and it depends a lot on which country and culture you live in. And besides men, why are you pretending you don't have high standards yourself? I read this forum, many of you say women become unattractive easily once reaching a certain age, and this is true in real life, they become "unwanted" after a certain age, men only want young women. You might not care if she doesn't work but you sure will care if she's above 27, or if she has kids, or isn't a virgin. Please!

Its been like this since the beginning of society.

Men are valued for what they can bring to the table. That is resources and status. How successful they are, and what their value is in regard to where they fit in society. A successful business guy, doctor or lawyer is going to have a TON more choices with the opposite sex than a guy who is working a minimum wage job like a cashier, trash guy or gas attendant.

Women are valued for their beauty and youth. A 23 year old woman is going to have more value and will have her choice of high value men over a lady who is 42. Choice in men start to dramatically drop the older a woman becomes thru life.

They are some variables in this. For example, a college educated male who makes a decent wage and is average will still have a decent shot at meeting a lot of women. You don't have to be a millionaire and have a lambo to meet women. What has changed though is women. Many are now college educated and are able to support themselves quite easily. They don't need a man for financial support anymore. In fact, what has happened is there are now more females in college than males which has caused a huge strain between men/women relations. A college educated female is more likely to look for a male with a college degree and a good job. If you work for $17 an hour and live with your parents as a 35 year old male good luck finding a female. Most females are going to label you as a loser.

sıla ❣ a écrit :

BlackDragon875 a écrit :

Double standards of society:
Men who live with their parents=bad
Women who live with their parents=okay

Men who are single=bad
Women who are single=okay

I agree with you about parents part.

I witnessed that parents start to pressure boys much earlier age than girls to
have job and start to look out himself.
That's sad

.parents to boys : Be responsible and accountable,do what's good for society.
parents to girls : You go girl, do what's good for you. so strong and independent

Candyy ♡ a écrit :

BlackDragon875 a écrit :

Double standards of society:
Men who live with their parents=bad
Women who live with their parents=okay

Men who are single=bad
Women who are single=okay

I still have never seen any men being shamed for living with parents... As of 2024, it is common... For both sexes...

Maybe in america is different??? 🤷‍♀️

Really now? never seen any male over 20 being publicly labeled as a "mom's basement dweller" and shamed for it? I doubt it

AerSilver🗲 a écrit :

sıla ❣ a écrit :

I agree with you about parents part.

I witnessed that parents start to pressure boys much earlier age than girls to
have job and start to look out himself.
That's sad

.parents to boys : Be responsible and accountable,do what's good for society.
parents to girls : You go girl, do what's good for you. so strong and independent

I invite you to meet my parents, because it's nothing like that in my family

I despair for our future.

Fajita Jim a écrit :

I despair for our future.

we have a future? >.<*

Fajita Jim a écrit :

I despair for our future.

The top G will save us bro.

Life's not fair, it's too hard, this is a conspiracy!

Who are we mad at, here? I need to know who to shake my fist at.

That's definitely an opinion.

Speak with your doctor, there may be a cream or ointment for that.

Fajita Jim a écrit :

Life's not fair, it's too hard, this is a conspiracy!

Who are we mad at, here? I need to know who to shake my fist at.

ok then i dont wanna die without scars. .. HIT ME AS HARD AS YOU CAN! >.<* *acting like Tyler from . .. eh damnit i did it again!*

Never has been, not even once. Reminder: It is be legal for a man to be fired from his job, denied a bank account, or even kicked out of his home, simply for being a bachlor. In multiple places, including the U.S. bachlors payed a penalty tax. that didn't end because lawmakers went "jesus christ that's grossly discriminatory," business even defended the practice. It only ended because feminists rallied for a bill to make it illegal to fire woman for getting pregnant and being unable to work for several months or for any company to take that risk and some unsung hero wrote that bill to be neutral so it took out bachlor firings by sheer good luck.

and lets not even get into sentencing and funding gap or the places in which you can be told no business loan outright for you. We still allow female only scholorships and private loans.

Candyy ♡ a écrit :

AerSilver🗲 a écrit :

Can't deny the fact it's more hostile towards men compared to women,children and the elderly,by a margin.

Nowadays in 2024? Mostly no...
Like there may be few exceptions but most of the time is not like this...

Specially the elders... Younger ppl FINALLY realized that just becuase someone is an elder does not mean they should automaticly get more respect due to their age (with the exception of traditional societies like Japan and South Korea which is 1 reason why they have so many social issues...)

Respect is something that has to be earned these days...

That's actually more a mexican or Southeast Asian thing, the american culture doesn't actually do that, we generally ignore elders beyond keeping them alive and healthy. America never really had that revernce

videomike_Ultimate_Plushie a écrit :

Never has been, not even once. Reminder: It is be legal for a man to be fired from his job, denied a bank account, or even kicked out of his home, simply for being a bachlor. In multiple places, including the U.S. bachlors payed a penalty tax. that didn't end because lawmakers went "jesus christ that's grossly discriminatory," business even defended the practice. It only ended because feminists rallied for a bill to make it illegal to fire woman for getting pregnant and being unable to work for several months or for any company to take that risk and some unsung hero wrote that bill to be neutral so it took out bachlor firings by sheer good luck.

Never heard of such things...care to provide some examples of this?