why do less people have thick skin now a days?

[REALiNSaNgAMingGODPrODIgY]

why do people care what people say now a days so much? 100% WHY ONLINE? you can block, mute and ignore. reporting people who you simple not agree with is just so petty or if you do something wrong and then act like a victim instead of just growing thicker skin, admit you were wrong and better yourself and move on.

but at the same time people have think skull which is ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ so much worse, you legit try to educate them and change them and they just do not care at all. you legit point out the flaws and misunderstandings they have on something and just ugh.no matter the detail and examples its legit a brick wall.



now i am just sad, everyone i meet now a days ether has thin skin or thick skulls and i got a thin skill and a thick skin and feel like i just don't belong in public at all.


life really is getting worse now a days that i simple avoid talking to people, i love talking to people its just i say one wrong thing and then they act like the world is ending. they can't simple just take my sorry or just ignore what said they HAVE to make it a big deal.

but ya thoughts? like i try to make friends but i am at a point where i am thinking thats not such a good idea at this time.

[Kapitein Gnapmans]

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While overlooking all the ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up things which you commit in the process. Like forcing your ideology onto others for example.

cis people can be themselves comfortably and without being treated like liars, fetishists, or lunatics
but when a trans person wants their identity recognized, suddenly it's an "ideology" and we're "delusional"

This again? Yes, that is very delusional indeed. This is such a huge false comparison that I don't even know where to start. You are not living in transgender country where being transgender is the default. Simple as that.

[Kapitein Gnapmans]

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Balance? Wtf are you talking about? You want to take revenge on them or something?

This doesn't make any sense at all, you're almost straight out admitting that you are exactly like those religious zealots. Which is quite believable indeed.

You're misunderstanding.

If one side is permitted, the other should be, too. Goose, Gander such stuff.

And that is where you're wrong. Because you are judging them, are you not? So why do you want to become just like them? If you want to change the world for the better, you need to BE BETTER. Anything else is just immature and counterproductive.

[Not Big Surprise]

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cis people can be themselves comfortably and without being treated like liars, fetishists, or lunatics
but when a trans person wants their identity recognized, suddenly it's an "ideology" and we're "delusional"

This again? Yes, that is very delusional indeed. This is such a huge false comparison that I don't even know where to start. You are not living in transgender country where being transgender is the default. Simple as that.

not delusional
i'm the only one with authority over my identity

yes, you can refuse to acknowledge it, but you'd be wrong and fully displaying that you'd rather impose an identity on someone else

[Kapitein Gnapmans]

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This again? Yes, that is very delusional indeed. This is such a huge false comparison that I don't even know where to start. You are not living in transgender country where being transgender is the default. Simple as that.

not delusional
i'm the only one with authority over my identity

yes, you can refuse to acknowledge it, but you'd be wrong and fully displaying that you'd rather impose an identity on someone else

You are speaking in vagueries. Your "identity" is nothing. Just a cloud of silly ideas in your head. Normal people don't make a problem of it, like you do. Therefore your comparison does not make any sense at all.

[Tito Shivan]

IMO it's not that much a matter of 'thick skin' than society moving forward to a place where certain expressions are largely not tolerated as they used to.

Kind of like certain jokes stop being funny over the years.

[Not Big Surprise]

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not delusional
i'm the only one with authority over my identity

yes, you can refuse to acknowledge it, but you'd be wrong and fully displaying that you'd rather impose an identity on someone else

You are speaking in vagueries. Your "identity" is nothing. Just a cloud of silly ideas in your head. Normal people don't make a problem of it, like you do. Therefore your comparison does not make any sense at all.

do you think random cis people don't get bothered if you constantly, purposely misgender them

[Dracoco OwO]

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You are speaking in vagueries. Your "identity" is nothing. Just a cloud of silly ideas in your head. Normal people don't make a problem of it, like you do. Therefore your comparison does not make any sense at all.

do you think random cis people don't get bothered if you constantly, purposely misgender them

I got misgendered several times, peoples thought i was a woman due to my long hair, i don't take it poorly, most dudes were so pissed though to think i was a girl.

[Kapitein Gnapmans]

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You are speaking in vagueries. Your "identity" is nothing. Just a cloud of silly ideas in your head. Normal people don't make a problem of it, like you do. Therefore your comparison does not make any sense at all.

do you think random cis people don't get bothered if you constantly, purposely misgender them

I have no idea what cis people are or where to find them.

But let's say someone calls me a dog. Literally, not as an insult. Do I even care in the slightest? Of course not, because I know that I am not a dog and I have no doubts about that. Now if I *would* somehow have doubts, it would be a different story. Maybe I would even get offended!

[MinionJoe]

Blame the nanny state.

[Felonious Punk]

Henry Minter was torn to bits by Marvin Hagler because he had thin skin. "Never bet on the white guy." -Frank Drebin

[Vince ✟]

"Misgendering"

I'm fairly certain the human brain has developed to a degree that it can easily spot which gender a person is. Of course some may attempt to camouflage their original gender, but overall the idea of misgendering is blown out of proportion and really hasn't been a problem except in cases of the classic SNL "Pat".

[Not Big Surprise]

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do you think random cis people don't get bothered if you constantly, purposely misgender them

I got misgendered several times, peoples thought i was a woman due to my long hair, i don't take it poorly, most dudes were so pissed though to think i was a girl.

but was it something deliberate? was it on purpose?

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do you think random cis people don't get bothered if you constantly, purposely misgender them

I have no idea what cis people are or where to find them.

But let's say someone calls me a dog. Literally, not as an insult. Do I even care in the slightest? Of course not, because I know that I am not a dog and I have no doubts about that. Now if I *would* somehow have doubts, it would be a different story. Maybe I would even get offended!

"cis" is the opposite of "trans"

and again, it's not just a one-time matter
we're talking about people constantly going out of their way to misgender you, deliberately

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"Misgendering"

I'm fairly certain the human brain has developed to a degree that it can easily spot which gender a person is. Of course some may attempt to camouflage their original gender, but overall the idea of misgendering is blown out of proportion and really hasn't been a problem except in cases of the classic SNL "Pat".

"camouflage their original gender"

[Scott, President of Dominos]

Because it turns out acting like a spoiled child does in fact, get you what you want.

[Dracoco OwO]

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I got misgendered several times, peoples thought i was a woman due to my long hair, i don't take it poorly, most dudes were so pissed though to think i was a girl.

but was it something deliberate? was it on purpose?

Hell no but still funny even when i told my sister she was mad about it, some sort of jealousy going telling me horrible things like i dress badly and have too much layers of clothes hiding my body shape or some bs, peoples get mad about this stuff all the time due to jealousy and i wasn't even trying anything.

[Not Big Surprise]

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but was it something deliberate? was it on purpose?

Hell no but still funny even when i told my sister she was mad about it, some sort of jealousy going telling me horrible things like i dress badly and have too much layers of clothes hiding my body shape or some bs, peoples get mad about this stuff all the time due to jealousy and i wasn't even trying anything.

then it's not really a good comparison