Gender neutral pronouns list to stay up to date in 2024

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Upon first meeting someone, most people agree it’s best not to outright ask for pronouns because someone may feel like you’re assuming their gender identity. In some cases, it may put someone in a situation where they have to out themselves but don’t want to or aren’t ready to.

Instead, introduce yourself with your pronouns: "Hi, I'm Caroline, and my pronouns are she/her." With this, you're allowing the other person to share theirs, but not forcing them to

People might use multiple pronouns, like she/they or they/hirs. If someone shares that with you, they might also say they’re more comfortable with one over the other, or they’d like you to vary the pronouns you use in conversation.


They/them/theirs
Ze/hir/hirs
Xe/xem/xyrs
Ver/vir/vis
Te/tem/ter
E/em/eirs

Examples - Ze/hir/hirs
Where did ze go?”
“This pencil belongs to hir.”
“Ze would rather do it hirself.

Examples -Xe/xem/xyrs

“I think xe is nice.”
“Tell xem I say hello.”
“That sandwich is xirs.”

Example - Ver/vir/vis
“I think ver is nice.”
“I borrowed vis pencil.”
“I went to the store with vir

Example -Te/tem/ter
Te went to the store.”
“I borrowed it from tem.”
“That’s ter dog.”

Example - Ey/em/eir
Ey wrote me a note.”
“That belongs to em.”
“I asked to borrow eir pencil

[Dracoco OwO]

引用自 Wynters：

Is it so hard to say them, they, theirs?

Hell, I seen people using the pronouns "he" and "she" for inanimate objects so maybe it is hard for the majority of people to say them, they, theirs.

It's hard when your language doesn't have them or any gender neutral pronouns and inanimate objects being he or she is a thing in my language. Also none of this actually matters it's just words.

[Kapitein Gnapmans]

引用自 Wynters：

Is it so hard to say them, they, theirs?

Hell, I seen people using the pronouns "he" and "she" for inanimate objects so maybe it is hard for the majority of people to say them, they, theirs.

I do sometimes say it unfortunately. But I don't want to. It's plural.
It can also lead to confusion. Example:

A: "Jim took the keys earlier today."

B: "Where are they now?"

Does B refer to Jim or to the keys? If we are to consider the possibility of singular they, it could be both.

[Ulfrinn]

引用自 Dracoco OwO：

引用自 Ulfrinn：

I think people are trying to obfuscate from the reality by cherry picking extremely rare mutations and then attempting to inflate the relevance of that in order to meet a worldview. The vast majority of people claiming to be transgender were born 100% anatomically male or female. So trying to use extremely rare mutations to prop that up is just disingenuous. Much of it is just a kink, some of it is mental illness, and all of what you see and hear about it is politically driven by activist groups looking to pit people against each other and promise to solve all their problems with votes and donations.

That's also harmfull to intersex peoples to bring them in this, they never asked for this, i'm sure at least many would prefer to not have to deal with this bs. And if transgerderism is truly a kink there should also be no problem to admit it to some degree too i'd say, it's weird either way to the average person anyways.

There's a dysphoria, and then there are people who claim that dysphoria to exercise a kink. So there are two completely different groups of people claiming to identify as transgender. Those who really believe it, and some who have an ulterior motive behind it. And some of those ulterior motives is in fact is pretty cringe. Like that guy who won that swimming championship was saying on his social media is that he gets turned on my forcing women in locker rooms to see him naked.

Some people who demand others use specific pronouns, is there a legitimate reason behind that, or is forcing people to say what they want them to say, and feeling that control over others something else entirely?

[Q-T_3.14.exe]

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

引用自 WhoreSon Junior：

Human history for 99.99% years never believed there are more 2 genders

But here we are in 2024, Coming up with bunch of nonsense crap like 100 genders, Pronoun wars, Men can be pregnant, Men can become woman or vice versa.

What a load of crap time to alive lol

let's just ignore the many cultures that didn't see gender as a binary

The Zapotec people in Mexico belivie in a third gender, they call it Muxe.

[Ulfrinn]

引用自 Wynters：

Is it so hard to say them, they, theirs?

Hell, I seen people using the pronouns "he" and "she" for inanimate objects so maybe it is hard for the majority of people to say them, they, theirs.

It's improper English. It doesn't have to be hard to say it, perhaps they just don't want to say it, and that's their right too.

[Thadeus]

引用自 lankaras：

引用自 Wynters：

Is it so hard to say them, they, theirs?

Hell, I seen people using the pronouns "he" and "she" for inanimate objects so maybe it is hard for the majority of people to say them, they, theirs.

I do sometimes say it unfortunately. But I don't want to. It's plural.
It can also lead to confusion. Example:

A: "Jim took the keys earlier today."

B: "Where are they now?"

Does B refer to Jim or to the keys? If we are to consider the possibility of singular they, it could be both.

A: "Officer. My wallet was stolen, I saw them running south."

B: "I'm on it, how many were they?"

A: "Just one guy."

B: "You said "them". Was it one guy or multiple?"

A: "Oh just one guy but I don't how what gender they identify as".

[Ulfrinn]

引用自 Q-T_3.14.exe：

引用自 Not Big Surprise：

let's just ignore the many cultures that didn't see gender as a binary

The Zapotec people in Mexico belivie in a third gender, they call it Muxe.

This is another example of trying to take an extreme rarity and set a rule based on it. Some cultures believed throwing virgins into a volcano would prevent it from erupting. Should we normalize that practice too because someone, somewhere, once upon a time did it?

[Dracoco OwO]

引用自 Ulfrinn：

引用自 Dracoco OwO：

That's also harmfull to intersex peoples to bring them in this, they never asked for this, i'm sure at least many would prefer to not have to deal with this bs. And if transgerderism is truly a kink there should also be no problem to admit it to some degree too i'd say, it's weird either way to the average person anyways.

There's a dysphoria, and then there are people who claim that dysphoria to exercise a kink. So there are two completely different groups of people claiming to identify as transgender. Those who really believe it, and some who have an ulterior motive behind it. And some of those ulterior motives is in fact is pretty cringe. Like that guy who won that swimming championship was saying on his social media is that he gets turned on my forcing women in locker rooms to see him naked.

Some people who demand others use specific pronouns, is there a legitimate reason behind that, or is forcing people to say what they want them to say, and feeling that control over others something else entirely?

I mean sure ♥♥♥♥ these freaks if they do weird ♥♥♥♥ that's immoral and all but you can exerce a kink without being a complete ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ to everyone around you though. I mean it shouldn't be that complicated that you have no right to just, well harrassing womens for that or do this just to win sports in women category because it's stupid, you should still be treated as a biological male especially if you carry yourself that way, just make example of them and make them lolcows absolutely ridiculed by everyone so they stay in line or don't do this ♥♥♥♥.

This is true for any social freak really. Public shaming for really repulsive behaviors should be a thing.

[Kapitein Gnapmans]

引用自 Thadeus：

引用自 lankaras：

I do sometimes say it unfortunately. But I don't want to. It's plural.
It can also lead to confusion. Example:

A: "Jim took the keys earlier today."

B: "Where are they now?"

Does B refer to Jim or to the keys? If we are to consider the possibility of singular they, it could be both.

A: "Officer. My wallet was stolen, I saw them running south."

B: "I'm on it, how many were they?"

A: "Just one guy."

B: "You said "them". Was it one guy or multiple?"

A: "Oh just one guy but I don't how what gender they identify as".

Lol. This made me think of something which was in the media some time ago. I don't recall exactly but it was about using the correct pronouns when insulting someone, or something like that... basically saying that you should insult people respectfully.

[Ulfrinn]

引用自 Dracoco OwO：

引用自 Ulfrinn：

There's a dysphoria, and then there are people who claim that dysphoria to exercise a kink. So there are two completely different groups of people claiming to identify as transgender. Those who really believe it, and some who have an ulterior motive behind it. And some of those ulterior motives is in fact is pretty cringe. Like that guy who won that swimming championship was saying on his social media is that he gets turned on my forcing women in locker rooms to see him naked.

Some people who demand others use specific pronouns, is there a legitimate reason behind that, or is forcing people to say what they want them to say, and feeling that control over others something else entirely?

I mean sure ♥♥♥♥ these freaks if they do weird ♥♥♥♥ that's immoral and all but you can exerce a kink without being a complete ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ to everyone around you though. I mean it shouldn't be that complicated that you have no right to just, well harrassing womens for that or do this just to win sports in women category because it's stupid, you should still be treated as a biological male especially if you carry yourself that way, just make example of them and make them lolcows absolutely ridiculed by everyone so they stay in line or don't do this ♥♥♥♥.

This is true for any social freak really. Public shaming for really repulsive behaviors should be a thing.

You can do a lot of things without being a complete ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ to everyone around you... but some people get off on being a complete ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ to everyone around them. Narcissists, control freaks, the typical "Karen" types. Those types do need to be separated from the rest, or else the people who aren't faking it will continue to be lumped in with the actions of those who are. They need to understand that not everybody pretending to be on their side is actually on their side. They're being used by pretty much everybody around them. The fakers, politicians, anti-Christians, big pharma. Pronouns are the least of their problems when you think about it.

[Average Cardboard Consumer /|\]

what about me?

[Dracoco OwO]

引用自 Horse /|\：

what about me?

You're a bike with hooves.

[Cksalzy]

引用自 Wynters：

Is it so hard to say them, they, theirs?

Hell, I seen people using the pronouns "he" and "she" for inanimate objects so maybe it is hard for the majority of people to say them, they, theirs.

Because it’s not real pronouns that don’t make sense. Is it so hard to accept you have she/her pronouns?

[Not Big Surprise]

引用自 lankaras：

引用自 Wynters：

Is it so hard to say them, they, theirs?

Hell, I seen people using the pronouns "he" and "she" for inanimate objects so maybe it is hard for the majority of people to say them, they, theirs.

I do sometimes say it unfortunately. But I don't want to. It's plural.
It can also lead to confusion. Example:

A: "Jim took the keys earlier today."

B: "Where are they now?"

Does B refer to Jim or to the keys? If we are to consider the possibility of singular they, it could be both.

that's kind of an issue that's inherent to pronouns

引用自 Thadeus：

引用自 lankaras：

I do sometimes say it unfortunately. But I don't want to. It's plural.
It can also lead to confusion. Example:

A: "Jim took the keys earlier today."

B: "Where are they now?"

Does B refer to Jim or to the keys? If we are to consider the possibility of singular they, it could be both.

A: "Officer. My wallet was stolen, I saw them running south."

B: "I'm on it, how many were they?"

A: "Just one guy."

B: "You said "them". Was it one guy or multiple?"

A: "Oh just one guy but I don't how what gender they identify as".

idk if it's just me but i think most people would say something more akin to "someone stole my wallet, they went in that direction"
cuz personal pronouns are often used after referring to someone with nouns

[Not Big Surprise]

引用自 Ulfrinn：

引用自 Dracoco OwO：

That's also harmfull to intersex peoples to bring them in this, they never asked for this, i'm sure at least many would prefer to not have to deal with this bs. And if transgerderism is truly a kink there should also be no problem to admit it to some degree too i'd say, it's weird either way to the average person anyways.

There's a dysphoria, and then there are people who claim that dysphoria to exercise a kink. So there are two completely different groups of people claiming to identify as transgender. Those who really believe it, and some who have an ulterior motive behind it. And some of those ulterior motives is in fact is pretty cringe. Like that guy who won that swimming championship was saying on his social media is that he gets turned on my forcing women in locker rooms to see him naked.

Some people who demand others use specific pronouns, is there a legitimate reason behind that, or is forcing people to say what they want them to say, and feeling that control over others something else entirely?

i swear to god ray blanchard's "typology" has caused more harm to trans people than republican lawmakers could ever hope to achieve /hyp