I don't understand how people get a girlfriend

[Drystoner]

I'm nearly 23 and still don't fully understand why near enough all my peers are able to get girlfriends. I feel like every girl already has a boyfriend or doesn't want to talk to me.

When I try breaking through the ice and offer to hang out or straight up ask them out it's met with rejection or an excuse of some kind.

I want to improve and find success but I'm not sure where to go next. I already go to the gym to try get lean as I'm skinny fat right now, but what else must be done to be seen as a potential partner?

[Uncle Sam]

Groogo a écrit :

Try computer dating and when you finally get to a nice Cafe and sit down across from your new perspective girlfriend you can have a conversation like this:

You: "So what do you do for a living?"
Girl: "I'm a Tik Toc model".
Girl: "How about you?"
You: "Oh, about the same. I am a soldier in Call of Duty".

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

I don't really know either. The only girlfriend I've had was my co-worker at one time. Modern feminism had made it harder to approach women without seeming like a creep.

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Catch a girl on the rebound.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Dr. Johnny Fever a écrit :

Catch a girl on the rebound.

Some older women 30+ are more down to Earth as well

[アキウアラ]

Drystoner a écrit :

I'm nearly 23 and still don't fully understand why near enough all my peers are able to get girlfriends. I feel like every girl already has a boyfriend or doesn't want to talk to me.

When I try breaking through the ice and offer to hang out or straight up ask them out it's met with rejection or an excuse of some kind.

I want to improve and find success but I'm not sure where to go next. I already go to the gym to try get lean as I'm skinny fat right now, but what else must be done to be seen as a potential partner?

Bruh, I also don't have any gf lol.

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BlackDragon875 a écrit :

Dr. Johnny Fever a écrit :

Catch a girl on the rebound.

Some older women 30+ are more down to Earth as well

Well, in simple terms, someone 'on the rebound' has started a new relationship before they're over the old one. They still have a lot to work through from the break up but aren't ready to face it yet. The rebound relationship is essentially just helping to distract them until they're forced to face it.

[sleeps]

dunno. get rich, being charismatic, or don't. i myself don't have any gf and those who want to become one i simply refuse

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Eat some grape mentats and it will raise your charisma to +3.

[Dracoco OwO]

mori a écrit :

dunno. get rich, being charismatic, or don't. i myself don't have any gf and those who want to become one i simply refuse

Yeah when i was younger i did straight up refuse multiple times, didn't want to hurt those poor girl's feelings but also several took it as a rejection when i told them i didn't had a phone number because they thought i was lying.

[xDDD]

BlackDragon875 a écrit :

Dr. Johnny Fever a écrit :

Catch a girl on the rebound.

Some older women 30+ are more down to Earth as well

Well duh, they know their clock is rapidly ticking.

[アキウアラ]

Irene ❤ a écrit :

Men usually just go straight to get what they want, but a woman will dislike that approach.

Before you get a girlfriend, try get 10 female friends first. Learn how to talk to them, maintain that friendship for few months.

Listen to them and making yourself a person whom they will call when they feel troubled. If you can do this, asking some of them to be your girlfriend and the result will be an ok.

Friendzone guarantee lol.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Getting a girlfriend is overrated too. You have less time to devote to your interests/hobbies.

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Just get a friend that is a girl with fringe benefits.

[Dracoco OwO]

Zebrant a écrit :

BlackDragon875 a écrit :

Some older women 30+ are more down to Earth as well

Well duh, they know their clock is rapidly ticking.

Some already went through menopause at this age, that's rare but that can happen.

[AlienTestosterone]

work on yourself and forget about those harlots.