I don't understand how people get a girlfriend

[Drystoner]

I'm nearly 23 and still don't fully understand why near enough all my peers are able to get girlfriends. I feel like every girl already has a boyfriend or doesn't want to talk to me.

When I try breaking through the ice and offer to hang out or straight up ask them out it's met with rejection or an excuse of some kind.

I want to improve and find success but I'm not sure where to go next. I already go to the gym to try get lean as I'm skinny fat right now, but what else must be done to be seen as a potential partner?

[Hobbit XIII]

Pirate☠️Pocah lähetti viestin:

It's probable that you lack the communication skills, so rather than needing to go to the gym, you need to practice talking. Specifically aim to just strike up conversations with women rather than dating them. Don't even think about dating, just think about conversation. The rest will happen in time.

^^

[Tristin]

You seem to have lot of supporters here OP, you got this man

[talemore]

Some say there are no dwarf women

[Groogo]

Try computer dating and when you finally get to a nice Cafe and sit down across from your new perspective girlfriend you can have a conversation like this:

You: "So what do you do for a living?"
Girl: "I'm a Tik Toc model".
Girl: "How about you?"
You: "Oh, about the same. I am a soldier in Call of Duty".

[Visual Novel MC]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TfCdmmH-Zro

[Irene ❤]

Men usually just go straight to get what they want, but a woman will dislike that approach.

Before you get a girlfriend, try get 10 female friends first. Learn how to talk to them, maintain that friendship for few months.

Listen to them and making yourself a person whom they will call when they feel troubled. If you can do this, asking some of them to be your girlfriend and the result will be an ok.

[Hobbit XIII]

Irene ❤ lähetti viestin:

Men usually just go straight to get what they want, but a woman will dislike that approach.

Before you get a girlfriend, try get 10 female friends first. Learn how to talk to them, maintain that friendship for few months.

Listen to them and making yourself a person whom they will call when they feel troubled. If you can do this, asking some of them to be your girlfriend and the result will be an ok.

That is a friendzone, this makes a person a tool not a person.

OP while Irene's approach is very nice and all, do not make it your only way of doing things.

Please watch films with Bill Murray in and see which way gets a nice date or two in next few weeks.

While I am here Irene, want to catch a ride in my space ship?

[talemore]

The winner takes it all

[Hammer Of Evil]

Irene ❤ lähetti viestin:

Men usually just go straight to get what they want, but a woman will dislike that approach.

Before you get a girlfriend, try get 10 female friends first. Learn how to talk to them, maintain that friendship for few months.

Listen to them and making yourself a person whom they will call when they feel troubled. If you can do this, asking some of them to be your girlfriend and the result will be an ok.

that's not the play at all, woah there.

he said he wants to find a girlfriend not be a doormat with an agenda.



edit: woops, jack got to it first lol. ah, i guess i'll leave it up. i know you mean well irene but cant agree

[Tsubame ⭐]

You are not going to get anyone if the other person is not looking to get hooked.

Try to know people, first as friends.

You also have dating/matchmaking apps/services, I do know people, even people who previously had no friends, who managed to get a girlfriend/boyfriend and even marry, even using something as basic as a mobile app.

[Uncanny Moskvich]

You're following in my footsteps OP. I once wondered the same thing, and I found out having a gf isn't what it's cracked up to be. When the time comes, don't be with her because she's your only option. If you see the red flags, cut her off. Otherwise you are inviting in a world of life-ruining drama.

[Morkonan]

Insomniac Jack lähetti viestin:

Looks like the red pill wore off...

https://steamcommunity.com/app/813780/discussions/0/1660069015236744255/#c1660069015236877846

Ah, thank you intrepid detective for uncovering this mystery!

+10 Internets Points

This is why we can't have nice things... and why nothing on teh internetz can be trusted.

[Apollo702]

You are going about it in all the wrong ways.

The approach is all wrong and you don't ask a girl to be with you. Everyone does it- and it only compounds your failure.

The truth is a girl has already decided how far she wants to go with you in the first couple of seconds. Therefore, all the talk talk talk, the flowers, the candy, the dinner/movie/drinks nonsense only gets you used, humiliated and home pulling your pud while she then hooks up with the guys she really is attracted to and who can give it to her good. Your goal needs to be how to transform yourself into that bin.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1hYe5Cgrpo

Now if this is a serious inquiry, go to YT and type in the search term "Tom Leykis." There are thousands of clips from an old radio show that taught men these kinds of arts.

[Edge_Master]

by talking to women

[Refurbished Cream Cheese]

just be careful because "love is blind".... and so are stds🤢