Scared of giving compliments to people?

[ImSoCool599]

Does anyone ever get embarrassed of complimenting another person, even when you genuinely like them and want to compliment them? Feels like I am too shy of telling a girl I really like how pretty she sometimes looks simply because I have convinced myself she will find it cringe/gross. This happens a lot more especially on text. Any advice?

[dyinggg]

Publicado originalmente por videomike_Ultimate_Plushie:

I'd say another key part if not the most important part is to understand these compliments as a skill and service(for lack of a better worse) that's worth giving regardless of reward.

[Slim]

"Hey, you look really good today."

If you're already acquaintance, use that as a greeting in a social setting. Be fluid and confident in how you say it. Eye contact and be upbeat while you it's said. Don't drone on afterwards, pickup a conversation and let the greeting be that. If it can be a quick topic outfit/hairstyle/etc. But, read the room; you have to play off of the situation the two of you are in. So, the rehearsal won't always work in every encounter. Adapt if you if can get away with it or just hold on til next time.

Just don't latch onto any mistakes if you fumble, keep up the energy.

[craigsters]

https://youtu.be/hXydX9p_ZxA?si=Z1XfZ-Us3S5dBEx2

https://youtu.be/ltj8C2SJv94?si=VYmQOEK9AhWQPpLk

You Look Marvelous

[Candyy]

I am too shy to give "elaborate" compliments... I do give them but rarely and shorter than usual... :V

The more I trust someone , the more compliments :V

[Suffy]

Publicado originalmente por Q-T_3.14.exe:

Hey OP, you got some big arms. Do you work out?

I feel compliments have a time and place.

Woah sir! You got big weapon, sir!

[BlackBloodRum]

Publicado originalmente por Soniaa:

I am too shy to give "elaborate" compliments... I do give them but rarely and shorter than usual... :V

The more I trust someone , the more compliments :V

Just remember:

Men need to be loved
Women need to be wanted.

So, show a women you want her enough, she might like you.

Disclaimer: Taking advice from a pirate may not be the wisest decision.

[Irene ❤]

Just slap her and said "you look pretty today".

She will not reply that you're gross.

[dyinggg]

Publicado originalmente por Irene ❤:

Just slap her and said "you look pretty today".

She will not reply that you're gross.

lol. you are very wise.

[BlackBloodRum]

Publicado originalmente por Irene ❤:

Just slap her and said "you look pretty today".

She will not reply that you're gross.

/me slaps you and says "you look human today"

Now what? 🤔

This is meant as a joke, don't take this seriously.

[Irene ❤]

Publicado originalmente por BlackBloodRum:

/me slaps you and says "you look human today"

*kicks your below

[BlackBloodRum]

Publicado originalmente por Irene ❤:

Publicado originalmente por BlackBloodRum:

/me slaps you and says "you look human today"

Arhaha your weak attack can't possibly defeat me :erune:
*kicks your below :blue_dot::MovingChicken::yellow_dot:

/me fires barrel of rum!

wait no.

/me pulls back barrel of rum.

/me fires cannons, that explode upon impact to your lands!

[Angel]

I love complimenting people and recieving them as not only is it flattering but it's also a nice ice-breaker when done sincerely. I try not to compliment too often as it's value will diminish if done too often.

As a designer, I usually compliment on style.

[BlackBloodRum]

Publicado originalmente por Angel:

I love complimenting people and recieving them as not only is it flattering but it's also a nice ice-breaker when done sincerely. I try not to compliment too often as it's value will diminish if done too often.

As a designer, I usually compliment on style.

You mean something like,

"I really like your style, you've got a proper goofy look going on there!"

[76561198856165040]

If she deserves the compliment, give it to her. Else don't waste your breath.