Girls are expensive

[.happybutcher.]

Started dating this girl not even a month ago, my wallet is already suffering. How do you do it, bros?

[Zeno]

引用自 L1qu1dator：

Bruh, that's just the begining of spending... then there's the wedding, then if you'll have kids you can say bye bye to any money. :CoconutLaugh:

Complete and utter nonsense.

I am a married dude with kids and I have plenty of money left, simply because I choose a wife that does not waste all the money, works herself as well and know how to handle my finances.

Don't let this anti-family propaganda get in your head, having a family is not as expensive as you imagine.

[Hammer Of Evil]

引用自 perma ip banned from reddit：

Started dating this girl not even a month ago, my wallet is already suffering. How do you do it, bros?

it doesn´t matter how much you increase your income, if you have a wastrel of a partner, you´re always going to be neck deep in debt.

merry christmas

[Zeno]

引用自 Breathe：

引用自 Relax：

Complete and utter nonsense.

I am a married dude with kids and I have plenty of money left, simply because I choose a wife that does not waste all the money, works herself as well and know how to handle my finances.

Don't let this anti-family propaganda get in your head, having a family is not as expensive as you imagine.

People tend to forget that marriage is a partnership. As people continue giving up on relationships, especially marriage, it is comforting for those who have given up to believe that all people are vindictive or out to use others. Just as we tend to remember and pass on negative experiences rather than positive ones. It's just how humans are.
Bless you & your marriage.

A very intelligent and well observed fact wrapped in one comment. I agree.
This is why I bothered to mention that its not as this guy claimed it is. Maybe some guys on here find hope through my comment as I also was this age and had similar feelings sometimes.

Merry christmas.

[apathy]

Some can be high maintenance, and need to be taken to the garage for a tune up every so often.

[Zeno]

引用自 Breathe：

引用自 Enforcer：

A very intelligent and well observed fact wrapped in one comment. I agree.
This is why I bothered to mention that its not as this guy claimed it is. Maybe some guys on here find hope through my comment as I also was this age and had similar feelings sometimes.

Merry christmas.

Haha you tripped me up! I thought, wait did I even see your post? You changed your name quickly!
But yes, thank you for sharing. Communication, which we tend to struggle with generally, is so very important in relationships. If needs & expectations aren't discussed, that leads to or perpetuates problems. Money is so very delicate a subject, it's understandable sometimes. Yet, it shouldn't be fear that prevents such important discussion.
Merry Christmas to you & yours as well

Yeah, was time for a profile change. It bugged me a while now.

Yes I agree man.

[MEGA MAN]

引用自 󠀡󠀡：

She's fishing out your wallet buddy; split the costs, or make a run for it.

or run the costs and make a spli. . no wait thats wrong >.<*

[JobeGardener]

You have to take a trip to no man's land.

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Some are and some are not.

[ZOMBIECRUNCH]

引用自 perma ip banned from reddit：

Started dating this girl not even a month ago, my wallet is already suffering. How do you do it, bros?

Wait? What? You had to buy your way to the girl? I just used my ability and charm. I don't try to be a tom cat. I just got the charm. All I wanna do is have fun and be nice to everyone and play some songs. I am not trying to steal anyone's girl. I guess it's just that I come of as genuine.

I guess you don't really need to spend money on the gal when you are just yourself. Or probably just one of the few that are like me. But I don't know. Best of luck to you.

Hope it does not leave you broken. Best thing you should do is be true about yourself. And try to figure out if she will be true to you. But you should know that immediately.

If it's as long as you say. I say walk away. It's not all about getting someone in the bed. It's about a mutual relation.

[rigomrtsfx2001]

sally she never asking for anything or even wants a cell phone or want to go to the mall
or hang out online , shes 29.99 sally blow up pal

[.happybutcher.]

引用自 Scorpion：

Don't date singles, much. Prefer to date a girl that already has a hubby/boyfriend. They cover most of the girl's expenses and you reap most of the "rewards", effortlessly at that. Said girls do not primarily seek "protection", "security", "stability" or "prosperity" (since they already have covered those fields), ergo they will be "cost-effective"; as an added bonus, they can do together with you things, that singles would never dare to (such as raw/bareback).

Also, go after surefire targets, not difficult to please individuals, such as the ones who give away "signals" and hints for being "open to experimentation", in advance. Read your surroundings and learn to decode "messages".

Last but not least, WESTERN girls are expensive. The world is a very big place. Especially post the toxic outbreak of globalization, the range is almost limitless and the opportunities, for which our western world is so famous for in a worldwide scale, abound.

You're so right, idk why people are clowning you.

[C²C^Guyver |NZB|]

If your wallet is depleting that fast, you found the wrong type of girl.

Genuine women are not going to drain your wallet.

[De Hollandse Ezel]

ladies are expensive yes.. but so are all so are all social contacts.

when in a relationship not obly my expenses went up.. hers did also.
-you go out dining more often, do other activities lile renting a movie to go to events to visit eacgothers faniloes abd friends birthdays.. you genaçly buy a bit nicer food and cook a bit nicer for eachother.. than you do for yourself.. same with clothung..

all that drives costs up.

but when friends marry and get 5 kids and you are expected to come to all those days?and buy presents.. the costs for that go up quickly too..
but they will only give 1 gift back.. its expensive ro be single amongst married with kids friends too..

...

but I have to say that while woman don't like talk bout money..
they do like many things that cost noney.


they like a well organised house.. far more than just practixal they wantt that showroom looking room where nothing looks used .. they want you to dress up. not a wrinkle or spot in any clothimg.. . and groom way more thab yoir boss demands.. aka?look like a movuestar.. cmothing and grooming on that lvl aint cheap either..

and they demand you to be at 100000 places.. as pristine as that.. traveling aint free either...

so woman have a lot of material needs even if they are modest ones.. that do add up.
days of non ironed shirts and in boxershort açl day cause no work today.. are over..

now if the lady actually starts demanding you spending money on her.. like gifts, drinks whatnot.. and not leaves it upto you if and when you give anything.. anf of she expects her to constanly pay for her very early in your relation..
that I would say : run!
I she only expexts you to spend on yourself like your better grooming your better clothing your better interior.. your half of diners and whatever social activities you do together thats just normal "thats woman for you;)

[TWPanda77]

Whatever is happening, it sounds like it is not sustainable. Is your girlfriend demanding that you pay for everything and provide gifts? Or are you assuming that you might lose her if you do not buy stuff?

Of course, she could be a materialistic blood sucker, but men do that too.

[.happybutcher.]

引用自 TWPanda77：

Whatever is happening, it sounds like it is not sustainable. Is your girlfriend demanding that you pay for everything and provide gifts? Or are you assuming that you might lose her if you do not buy stuff?

Of course, she could be a materialistic blood sucker, but men do that too.

It's nothing like that. I have already stated that I over exaggerated a bit. Just pointing out that I notice a difference in my bank account ever since having a girlfriend. We mostly split the checks or I'd pay today and she takes care of the next one. It's just that I'd have a bit more money if I were to be single is all.