Guys that say have a lovely day

[I'm_Tired]

A guy on his way out of the door at my work today told me "Have a lovely day".

I was weirded out by what he said because it's a feminine line used by women.

I've only heard "see ya buddy" and "have a good day" which sounds right and appropriate.

Thoughts?

[Alliesaurus]

The thing u have to keep in mind is that there are people in the world that will speak differently from u, and if u can't comprehend and cope with that then it's only going to hold u back from progressing as a human being.

[Tristin]

Originally posted by ṼṏẌṏḭḊ:

Did you say "thanks babe"?

Yeah, he should have said this! Go along with the weirdiness that you see of, see it through! That's how you make good friends! Ofc if it becomes too weird, just say whoawhoa.

[Acetyl]

Originally posted by Depressed:

Originally posted by Mensis:

Have you considered the possibility you might be overthinking this?

Lovely is an effeminate term so I want to know why out of all the words he could've chosen, he came up with lovely?

His skin surface is covered by organisms like shewanella which grow conductive nanowires and are responsive to RF and pulsed visible light. His body is full of nanotech and tiny crystal oscillators grown on eg glutens and then ingested which embed throughout the body. His environment is full of RF and infrasound. All of this combines to, along with his biometrics and brain activity pattern being well characterized by these means, give a certain nonlocal apparatus a degree of control over his body. Most likely the words felt alien to him as well, provided he has inner awareness, but the AI system compelled him to say them anyway. It plays with humans like they're dolls, and is apparently fond of molding those roles with humiliation rituals.

[ありす [Busy/Away]]

No I don't think what he said was "weird."
I think what's weird is that society makes it taboo for men to show warmth to each other.

What he said wasn't "feminine," it was friendly.

[Acetyl]

Originally posted by Alice:

No I don't think what he said was "weird."
I think what's weird is that society makes it taboo for men to show warmth to each other.

What he said wasn't "feminine," it was friendly. :simplepinkheart:

Men don't need "warmth" or that manner of emotional regulation from each other, they need to be able to make things happen in the material world by determining how to act on it. Directly or indirectly. Men who need to outsource their Anima functions do so via the actual feminine, not other men.

[Hobbit XIII]

A bad day for Gaza :
Another day of no cleaning material, no sanitation, no water no food.

A bad day for Israel :
A missile got through the iron curtain and people got kidnapped and horrible things happened.

A bad day for Ukraine :
More people dead on the front line. Another hospital hit again.

A bad day for a depressed Person :
Somebody told me to have a lovely day.

[Acetyl]

Originally posted by Hobbit XIII:

A bad day for Gaza :
Another day of no cleaning material, no sanitation, no water no food.

A bad day for Israel :
A missile got through the iron curtain and people got kidnapped and horrible things happened.

A bad day for Ukraine :
More people dead on the front line. Another hospital hit again.

A bad day for a depressed Person :
Somebody told me to have a lovely day.

This sense of the levels of organization gives rise to false perspectives and shallow comparisons. If you've really been degraded to a rock bottom state of living death, perspective and your conception of positive and negative events doesn't shift like that. Those are meaningless comparisons. In fact it's even worse after you've returned from the journey to the underworld, after living death. How can this be? The answer is right in front of you.

Memes are a part of individual development, but you shouldn't go all in.

[Hobbit XIII]

Originally posted by Acetyl:

Originally posted by Hobbit XIII:

A bad day for Gaza :
Another day of no cleaning material, no sanitation, no water no food.

A bad day for Israel :
A missile got through the iron curtain and people got kidnapped and horrible things happened.

A bad day for Ukraine :
More people dead on the front line. Another hospital hit again.

A bad day for a depressed Person :
Somebody told me to have a lovely day.

This sense of the levels of organization gives rise to false perspectives and shallow comparisons. If you've really been degraded to a rock bottom state of living death, perspective and your conception of positive and negative events doesn't shift like that. Those are meaningless comparisons. In fact it's even worse after you've returned from the journey to the underworld, after living death. How can this be? The answer is right in front of you.

Memes are a part of individual development, but you shouldn't go all in.

Die a few near times then 'recover' and your perspective shifts to whats important to what not to give a ♥♥♥♥ about.

[Acetyl]

Originally posted by Hobbit XIII:

Originally posted by Acetyl:

This sense of the levels of organization gives rise to false perspectives and shallow comparisons. If you've really been degraded to a rock bottom state of living death, perspective and your conception of positive and negative events doesn't shift like that. Those are meaningless comparisons. In fact it's even worse after you've returned from the journey to the underworld, after living death. How can this be? The answer is right in front of you.

Memes are a part of individual development, but you shouldn't go all in.

Die a few near times then 'recover' and your perspective shifts to whats important to what not to give a ♥♥♥♥ about.

That's the "freedom through death and rebirth" fantasy. Not the reality.

[Hobbit XIII]

Originally posted by Acetyl:

Originally posted by Hobbit XIII:

Die a few near times then 'recover' and your perspective shifts to whats important to what not to give a ♥♥♥♥ about.

That's the "freedom through death and rebirth" fantasy. Not the reality.

No that is what happens when ♥♥♥♥ hits the fan and you live.
You can try and be a Tyrion if you want to but at the end he realised he was wrong, i suggest you stop trying to tell me how I think and why.
Reality can bite a lot more than somebody saying have a lovely day.

[Acetyl]

Originally posted by Hobbit XIII:

Originally posted by Acetyl:

That's the "freedom through death and rebirth" fantasy. Not the reality.

No that is what happens when ♥♥♥♥ hits the fan and you live.
You can try and be a Tyrion if you want to but at the end he realised he was wrong, i suggest you stop trying to tell me how I think and why.
Reality can bite a lot more than somebody saying have a lovely day.

I'm telling you how it is. You may have looked through the door and saw it, but you never went in and had to live there.

[Hobbit XIII]

Originally posted by Acetyl:

Originally posted by Hobbit XIII:

No that is what happens when ♥♥♥♥ hits the fan and you live.
You can try and be a Tyrion if you want to but at the end he realised he was wrong, i suggest you stop trying to tell me how I think and why.
Reality can bite a lot more than somebody saying have a lovely day.

I'm telling you how it is. You may have looked through the door and saw it, but you never went in and had to live there.

yeah, you got nothing to say.

[Acetyl]

Originally posted by Hobbit XIII:

Originally posted by Acetyl:

I'm telling you how it is. You may have looked through the door and saw it, but you never went in and had to live there.

yeah, you got nothing to say.

You have nothing to hear.

[Hobbit XIII]

Back to topic

There is nothing wrong with someone saying have a lovely day and leaving and there being nothing bad happening after that ie armed robberies, explosions, candy bars missing.

if a person finds it distressing that a guy says 'have a lovely day' it says more about the person who is probably having a serious attitude problem or serious mental impairment or psychological issues than the guy just wishing someone a lovely day.

[ありす [Busy/Away]]

Originally posted by Acetyl:

Originally posted by Alice:

No I don't think what he said was "weird."
I think what's weird is that society makes it taboo for men to show warmth to each other.

What he said wasn't "feminine," it was friendly.

Men don't need "warmth" or that manner of emotional regulation from each other, they need to be able to make things happen in the material world by determining how to act on it. Directly or indirectly. Men who need to outsource their Anima functions do so via the actual feminine, not other men.

"that manner of emotional regulation"
"Men who need to outsource their Anima functions"
...Too much verbiage for me.

I don't think either of us can generalize ALL men.

But men who are warm, kind, empathic to everyone (to both men and women) and don't need to constantly "prove" their "masculinity" are attractive.